I don't want any labels, I am me!

Last Friday, Wang Yanyun appeared in the program "Wonderful Flowers Come". In a trance, she felt as if she was the same as she was six years ago, stubborn, independent and strong.

who is Wang Yanyun? It was Su Zizi, a 19-year-old "nude model" who held the "Who am I" art exhibition six years ago, which exhibited personal body photos and caused a sensation throughout the Internet.

at that time, I was a student who had just entered high school. I didn't know about her until the Chinese teacher played an interview about her in class.

At that time, I saw this stubborn 19-year-old girl, alone accepting all kinds of words from the society, and felt a little distressed. How cruel they are, forcing a 19-year-old girl to stand naked in front of reporters to interview, just to defend herself.

"Nude model" is the label given to her by journalists and society in those days, but I don't want to call it that. A mannequin may be more appropriate. Until now, six years later, I didn't know the real reason why she held an art exhibition.

Wang Yanyun said that she wanted to know who she really was or if she took off her clothes and any labels. But who would have thought that when she didn't fully get the answer, she used such a simple move, which triggered tens of thousands of netizens to insult her, saying that she was a nude model and that she was a chicken.

The power of online language is so terrible, since when can you abuse strangers without restraint, and the object is a 19-year-old girl. The cause is just a seemingly bold move, but it is to explore yourself.

She is a mannequin because her family is poor and she needs to earn money for school. Parents divorced, brought up by grandparents, family economic conditions are not good. When I received the university notice, I was only happy for a week and began to worry about tuition fees. She has worked as a waitress and a dishwasher, and she will do any hard work as long as she can make money. Because, in this way, you can have tuition to go to school. However, faced with high tuition fees, this money is just a drop in the bucket and far from enough.

she had to be a mannequin.

mannequin, what a proper occupation. Some people express themselves with words and earn fees; Some people use design to express themselves and earn money. Why do people have to suffer such ugly abuse when they use their bodies to express art and earn what they need? What is the statue of David?

Maybe the society was not so tolerant six years ago. Maybe people thought of sex when they saw nudity six years ago. Maybe too many people didn't know about the violence of online language six years ago. Fortunately, she ate well, slept well, created well and found a lover who was willing to tolerate her during the six years that people didn't pay attention to. This may be an explanation given to her by time.

Today, six years later, as an XD visual experimental artist, she returned to the public's eyes as Wang Yanyun.

she is still the same person, eager to express, stubborn and self-reliant. There is no youth and frivolous, but it has left the artistic back. She tried her best to come back, just to change the world's gentleness to her.

At this time, there was no label on her body. If there was, it was only once, and it was gone. Even if it was imposed again, the label would still fall off. Because, she is her.

Wang Yanyun is still the strong Wang Yanyun.

2

My best friend and best friend Q, we grew up in a primary school, a high school, a university and even the same dormitory.

Just when I thought we would work and get married in the same city, on the day of graduation, she told me that she would go to Shanghai with her boyfriend, and strive together to create her own little happiness. While speaking, her eyes sparkled as if she had seen the future.

I said, do your parents know?

she lowered her head and rubbed her hands constantly, knowing that they wouldn't allow me to go, fearing that I would suffer. I said no, they said yes, and then they quarreled. I really want to go. For so many years, I have been listening to my parents. You must think that I will stay with my parents, work steadily, get married steadily, and then the baby will be born, and then we will be old. During the time when I made the decision, I kept thinking that my previous life seemed to have been arranged by my parents, when to go to school, when to work and when to have children. Think carefully and be extremely afraid.

For more than twenty years, "quiet and obedient" has been her label. She does what her parents say. Many times, I feel that she lives for her parents and lacks her true self.

This time she proposed to leave home and go to Shanghai. Although I was taken aback, I still supported her. She finally found out what she really wanted.

did something excite you? I know that my best friend is very easily influenced by other people's other affairs, so I took a sip of water and asked.

After a long pause, my best friend looked up at my eyes and said,No.. This decision is not sudden. A year before graduation, we were discussing whose city we should go to. I don't want to go to his city, and he doesn't want to come to mine. So, as a balance point, we all chose Shanghai, a dreamy river and lake.

As my best friend and best friend, I still can't help but confirm with her. Have you decided? Really not on impulse?

well, yes. She looks confident.

if you have any difficulties, please let me know. If he bullies you, I will kill you in Shanghai overnight and take you away. Since my best friend said that, she can support it.

I know, you're the best, she said, leaning her head against my shoulder and coquetry.

by the way, my parents left it to you. Please take good care of it for me.

hey, I'm just a hard worker. I don't listen to what my best friend says.

Of course, the premise for me to let her go and take care of my parents for her is that I "talk by candlelight" with my best friend. His words are not much, basically I say he listens. That night, I drank too much water and woke up the next morning with edema in my eyes.

Later, my best friend's parents met her boyfriend, talked for a long time, and finally agreed to go to Shanghai with her boyfriend.

Life in Shanghai is not as good as she imagined. Fortunately, her boyfriend is willing to make progress and is kind to her, so they work hard together. In a few years, I officially settled in Shanghai. Of course, both parents also funded a small amount of DiDiDiDi.

I think this is probably the craziest and boldest thing my best friend has done for so many years. After the friends around me knew it, they thought she was "lowered her head". Such a quiet and obedient person has a crazy side for love, which really scares them.

Actually, that's what a best friend is like in her bones, except that she broke away from her former self and made a new choice.

Now, I'm holding a fruit bowl, eating fruit, and video chatting with her. She, happily holding her daughter who just turned one year old, pointed to me on the screen and said, called dopted mother.

after all these years, she doesn't need labels. What's quiet, what's obedient, what's crazy and what's impulsive is actually her, but it's not her.

because, she is her.

3

When I came home from work at night, the host said that in this society, it is not so easy for women to become the backbone of the unit. What is paid behind is always sweat and blood that others don't know.

Since Pangu created the world and Nu Wa created man, there have been two kinds of men and women. With the reproduction from generation to generation, there are more than these two kinds of people in modern society. In the words of Chao Xiaomi in this issue of "Wonderful Flowers Come", there are 56 kinds of people on Facebook, who belong to the mobile people, that is, people who wander between men and women. Depending on the occasion, he can be him or her. Therefore, he does not have the so-called "he" label.

Why do you want to talk about this? People in society will label certain people and certain jobs. For example, my college sister, who is engaged in sales, is defined as a male job.

when outsiders know that she is in sales, they usually ask, isn't this done by boys? Is it too hard for girls to do it? Is it really suitable for girls?

every time she answers people with a smile, it's actually not hard at all. She enjoys it. Every time she finishes a big list, she has a sense of accomplishment.

As for me, as her junior, sometimes I hate to stand out when she answers people like this or when others look at her with sympathy. Before I wanted to make any noise, she had already stepped on N feet, warning me not to make any noise. Oh, my poor feet, I just bought white shoes today, and I'm going to be angry.

I met her, also in college. At that time, the club I wanted to join didn't go in. By chance, I went to the International Liaison Department.

The International Liaison Department, a department that helps to sponsor community activities, happens to be my senior sister. This in the long run, naturally met.

Every time the club has an activity that needs sponsorship, she will take me out with another director, and when she comes back, she will be full of money.

Senior is a person with a particularly high emotional intelligence. She can always rely on the other person's words, and her eloquence is good. I was dumbfounded with another officer. Although she is so excellent, I still seem to have learned nothing.

Later, my senior told me that her second major at school was psychology, and she was very observant, so it became very easy to communicate with people for a long time.

after graduation, she told me that when she found an internship unit to do sales, I was not surprised at all, but felt that the job belonged to her.

Later, Senior Sister fought her way out on the road of sales and became a manager. But she never told me that she had drunk until she vomited blood, especially those customers who thought she was a little girl and thought she was easy to bully, so they asked her to drink a few more bottles before signing the contract.

I think I drank too much one day. On my way home, I called with my tongue wide open and told me with joy that she had signed another big list.

I vaguely heard the phone ringing. I answered it. It was Senior. Pick up the alarm clock and look at it. It's two o'clock in the morning. Well, senior, I'll settle accounts with you when you wake up. I listened to her and said, why should there be a distinction between men and women in society, and why should jobs be treated differently between men and women? From an early age, I knew that I had no one to rely on. My mother fled from a poor home very early, my father drank and gambled all day, and I had an undeserving brother who was going to college. Over the years, I have been living in the "male" label that others have given me. I just like doing sales, and I just like the feeling of signing a big case. Why should I say that this type of work is done by men? I, a woman, didn't do well, too? And I became a manager.

She said, "Hey, hey" at that end. I'm much better than those boys. I don't like the label they gave me. I am who I am ...

She talks a lot. I know she is drunk, so it's better to let her complain comfortably at this time.

when what she said was almost the same, I asked where she was. In this way, I moved an alcoholic home.

The next day, she woke up and asked me why she was in my house. I gave her two dirty eyes.

if you are drunk, don't tell her. Anyway, she is drunk and sober. She is still her.

4

Life is only a few decades, so don't live in other people's world. Just be yourself and be happy. What labels, what a mess, listen to it, look at it, and it will be fine.

I am me, different fireworks.