What is the art of smiling?

Humans have a very moving expression, which is smile. Smiling is a passport for interpersonal communication. Smiling conveys this message to colleagues: I envy you; I trust you; I want to be your friend; we will cooperate happily.

Smiling is a sign of confidence, politeness and candor. A sincere smile reflects a person's simplicity, calmness, tolerance and trust. It can reflect a person's extremely high cultivation and sincerity in treating others. It is also very easy to be accepted by others and will win you reputation, favor and potential opportunities. Stretch out your fingers and calculate, this is really an excellent "investment project" that has no risks but has rewards, and is well-deserved to make a huge profit. Think about it carefully. If you really think it is a good deal, then learn to smile from now on. , remember it and make good use of it all the time.

A smile is a natural expression that makes others feel happy. A Chinese company once wrote in its advertisement: It costs nothing, but produces a lot; it benefits the giver, but does not harm the giver; it happens in an instant, but the aftertaste is endless; no rich person does not need it, and no poor person Do not own it; it brings joy to your family, prosperity to your career, and pleasure to your friends; it allows the tired to rest, the disappointed to see light, and the sad to see hope. It is a natural medicine to eliminate pain. It cannot be bought, begged, borrowed, or stolen because it has no value until someone owns it.

It can be seen that smiling plays a role in interpersonal relationships. It is polite to smile to others in a timely manner. Mr. Hilton, the founder of the world-renowned Hilton Hotel in the United States, when he was distressed about his failed career, his mother once said to him, "Son, if you want to succeed, you must find a way that meets the following conditions: First, you must It’s simple; second, it’s easy to do; third, it doesn’t cost anything; fourth, it can be used for a long time. “What exactly is this method? The mother smiled but did not answer. Hilton repeatedly observed and thought, and finally realized: it is a smile, and only a smile can fully meet these four conditions. "Don't open a store if you don't know how to smile." Later, he used the golden key of smile to open the door to success and created a hotel that is famous all over the world. Here, smile is a visualized philosophy, a secret wisdom, and a ray of sunshine that illuminates a confused mind.

A company recruits employees from the society. Many young people apply for the job, including many with high academic qualifications. However, they are all unexpectedly defeated by a girl in the end. The girl has an average appearance and simple experience. She only has a technical secondary school diploma and is quite an ordinary person. Someone unconvinced asked the HR manager in charge of the interview. The manager calmly said that if a girl can often send out friendly smiles, then I am willing to hire her even if her education level is lower. But a master's or doctoral student always has a straight face. Even if he comes to work for free, I don't want him.

Chinese people believe most in harmony and good fortune. Kind expressions and words will bring good luck to people. Whether a person is happy or not does not depend on what you have, who you are, what status you are in, or what you are doing. As long as you smile often and treat others kindly, you can gain the trust and love of others.

Hugo once said: "Smile is sunshine, it can eliminate the winter color on people's faces." "All prejudices, estrangements, resentments, and suspicions can be expected to be dissolved in a smile."

A friend of mine was always frowning in the past few years. Asked her why, she said the family was not harmonious. After she got married, she had no house and lived with her mother-in-law. It is difficult to get along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and she is not immune to this. After living in Lulu for more than ten years, she and her husband finally bought a house and moved out. She thought that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law would definitely improve, but unexpectedly it was still as tense as before. Someone advised her to go to a marriage expert for consultation, but she hesitated and went anyway. When I met her again recently, she told me with a smile that she got along very well with her mother-in-law and asked her to talk about her feelings. She said that because she learned to smile . Yes, who wants to see a tense face? Smile itself is tolerance.

Our daily lives are trivial and busy. We have to bear a lot of pressure and deal with all kinds of people every day. When I walked into the office early in the morning, my colleagues greeted me with a smile: Hello.

We will be relaxed and happy at work throughout the day. When I returned home in the evening, my lover smiled and greeted me: I'm back! No matter how cold the night is, we will feel as warm as spring. Smiling with neighbors can enhance feelings and close relationships, so you can get along harmoniously and harmoniously with your neighbors. On a lonely journey, walking with strangers, smiling and nodding, the mutual wariness is suddenly eliminated. Drinking alone outside, smiling and toasting to the person next to you, you may have an extra friend to talk to...

Smiling means tolerance, understanding, confidence, and strength. It can shorten the distance between people, is the "catalyst" for career success, and is the driving force for overcoming difficulties. Smile is gold, and its most precious connotation is sincerity. Always maintain a sincere smile, which will leave a friendly, bright, smart, healthy and tenacious impression on people. It is also a highlight of your own temperament and charm. A smile symbolizes tolerance, optimism, generosity, strong adaptability, and not easily destroyed by setbacks. collapse.

Everyone will encounter unsatisfactory things. At such times, whistle, sing, give others a smile, and keep yourself relaxed, then the ordinary life will be full of fun. If we greet life with a smiling face every day, it will extend our life.

A foreign friend who has lived in China for more than 20 years was interviewed by a reporter. When asked what do you think is the biggest change in the Chinese people over the years, he pondered for a moment and replied: There is a change in the face. Smile. The Chinese smiles left such a deep impression on him. It seems that smiles do have a special charm. If you want to be successful, respected, and understood, you might as well start with a smile. It is simple, easy, cost-free, and can be used for a long time. Everyone knows that flowers are most delicate and beautiful when they are not fully open. Then I remembered Zhu Ziqing's words: A smile is a half-open flower. I seem to be able to hear the music of poetry and painting flowing there, and I seem to be able to see your smile full of vitality and charm.

Learn to smile and you will shorten the distance between you and strangers in social activities, become friends with them, and make you popular with everyone in social activities.