Why can't you stay in a first-tier city for a long time and stay in a third-tier city?

The blink of an eye in 2020 suddenly passed, and when the date was handwritten, it was still written in 202

Why can't you stay in a first-tier city for a long time and stay in a third-tier city?

The blink of an eye in 2020 suddenly passed, and when the date was handwritten, it was still written in 2020. 2020 is destined to be an extraordinary year, and the sudden epidemic has disrupted everyone's life and plans! I'm at a loss.

The epidemic did affect many people's decisions at that time. Maybe looking back, I decided to stay in this city, but I had to stay in my hometown because of the epidemic. Maybe I should get married at the beginning of the year, but I have to postpone it until the end of the year; Maybe I will pay off my debts this year, but the epidemic company suffered serious losses, and its salary could not be paid or halved! Will make us make the choices we have to make at that moment.

It was also at that time that I chose to go home! This is also the final decision for many reasons.

Someone summed up the reasons why they generally don't go back:

(1) unofficial second generation? Think connections and relationships are everything?

2 Non-rich second generation? Wages in small cities are too low. If it is not the rich second generation, the pressure of buying a house, repaying loans and supporting the elderly is unbearable!

People with ambitions and dreams? When it comes to going to first-tier cities, the place that is said to be a first-tier city is the place where you can see the future changes.

(4) Some specific professionals? In third-and fourth-tier cities, there are no related industrial resources that can monopolize first-tier cities, and there is no way to develop in all aspects!

Free and independent people? I can hear the cordial condolences from my family every day. I went to a big city and at least lived more freely.

6 people who follow the wind and live with petty bourgeoisie? Third-and fourth-tier cities can watch nationally synchronized movies, but they can't see concerts and dramas.

⑦ People with friends in first-tier cities? After graduating from college, people you know are all in big cities, and the basic topic is established, instead of going out and not finding familiar people and earning money to buy a house and have children all day.

People who aspire to the center of the world? These people always want to go to some big cities in the center to see what that place looks like.

? To sum up, basically most people can't come back to the third-tier cities. I've seen too much here. In terms of employment, except for occupations such as civil servants, other jobs in these cities are just tasks. Wages are generally much lower than those in first-tier cities. You go to the interview, maybe the boss thinks you should be grateful for giving 3000! A salary increase of 50 a year is already a high welfare! You haven't worked for five years, so you can't have multiple jobs. Basically, it's a dream for you to expect a higher salary! Looking through the recruitment information on the recruitment website requires that a design job requires you to know all the software, and then you should be competent for everything arranged by your superiors. It allows you to do planning, most operations, etc. And you can intercept the video and ask for a salary of 3500. At this rate, there must be 1800 in first-tier cities! ! ! So when you are either rich or expensive, ordinary people can't come back! There is a saying: there is still the possibility of fighting in first-tier cities, but you can't fight in third-and fourth-tier cities!

Let's talk about the objective status quo of the whole city first. /kloc-in the past 0/0 years, the price increase in the country has been amazing. I can't imagine that my room price in this third-tier city has reached nearly 2W/ flat, and county-level cities can reach nearly1w. Under normal circumstances, if the general income of everyone in your city is around 3,500, and the proportion of migrant workers who go home to buy a house is relatively small, then the annual income of the couple is 84,000, and the house price is less than 504,000, which is more reasonable, corresponding to 6300 yuan for 80 square meters of two families. It's almost impossible now! Therefore, how desperate young people are about the current housing prices! Now the whole city is almost supported by the GDP of real estate, and this crazy real estate dividend will also lead to endless "bite back". As we all know, when the proportion of real estate in GDP is too high, the proportion of other industries will inevitably decrease or even be difficult to develop. So I came back to see that there are many consumer food industries, few industrial industries, and the corresponding industrial chain is not complete. As a result, the corresponding upstream industries have hardly developed; You will see recruitment information, such as telemarketing, insurance, loans and so on. , followed by factory workers, catering industry personnel, take-away personnel. It is even more difficult to find a better job in the industry. It is said that people who make financial loans can earn more than 10 thousand a month. You haven't heard that internet workers can earn more than 10 thousand a month in this place. If the programmer is here, it won't smell good! The impact is too great.

Finally, your work environment may need to adjust your mentality. Maybe you are in a small bungalow, maybe you are in a factory office, or in an office building. The glamorous office buildings may not be as high as those of suburban factories! Then every day, most of you are married. Talking about parenting has nothing to do with you. Can we only meet by chance after work and say hello? There is no possibility of knowing and becoming friends! Most of them are around family and children, so it's hard for you to get in touch with them!

Finally, I say: ordinary people, for no special reason, staying in big cities is your challenge and opportunity. Third-and fourth-tier cities are temporarily unbearable souls! I would rather wander in a big city than stick to it in a small city. Even though I have to come back. There is nothing to support, only to adjust your mentality and get ready! When the shackles are untied, the sky is vast, and where is not your home! Come on! Workers! Ollie, here!