Are there any children who have been neglected since childhood? How are you now?

Thank you for inviting me! Tell the story of my good friend.

We have been classmates since primary school and live very close. We went to school and played together until we graduated from high school. We haven't been in touch for a long time.

Later, we contacted again. At this time, we are all adults, with families and businesses, sons and daughters, and she has also become the head of the army and senior colonel level. The only regret is that I have been hospitalized twice because of my health problems. When she talked about her illness, I realized the difficulties she had never said before.

She said: "After I was admitted to the hospital, I only told my sister, not my parents. Even when the doctor informed me of the operation, I told my sister never to tell my mother, not to worry her, but because I didn't want to see her. "

She was surprised and asked, "Why don't you want to see your aunt?"

She continued: "When I was a child, she never loved me, never looked at me with her eyes, and I never wore new clothes, only took my sister's little old clothes;" My mother never praised me, and of course never criticized me, because she never saw me, and even paid little attention to me when she was eating and talking. Even the three of us do our homework together. She came to check and only looked at my sister's, and then lectured my brother. Even if I raised my notebook and shouted "I'm finished", she just snorted casually and continued on her way. " At that time, I swore that I must go far when I grow up, forever.

I advised her, "You may be oversensitive and exaggerate these unhappy little things. How can a mother not love her children? "

She said firmly, "She may love, but she doesn't care. I have never eaten her milk since I was a child, because she gave birth to me and had a serious illness. I was sent directly to my grandmother. I grew up drinking grandma's sheep's milk, and goat's milk is not often replaced by paste. I didn't return to my parents until I went to primary school. My brother was four or five years old at that time. I was treated as an outsider by my mother, so I chose to be a soldier.

I finally understand why I haven't seen her for so many years! She is a child neglected by her parents, and now she is ignoring her parents in the same way, but her heart is very painful!

Too many children are neglected to grow up!

My aunt's two children, the daughter is only one year older than the son, and almost no one cares when growing up.

Seemingly forced, Xiao Yan gave her daughter to her mother-in-law. At first, she went back to see her every once in a while, and then she almost forgot about the children. Aunt didn't realize the seriousness of the problem until her daughter went to college and went directly to her grandmother's house every time she came back. Daughters seldom live with them unless grandma is away.

One summer vacation, the family was going home after eating in a restaurant. My aunt's daughter naturally shouted, "Milk, grandpa and I will take a taxi first. We will wait for you outside. You have to hurry! " If aunt gets to her mouth, she will be blocked back!

Until now, it has been like this. Fortunately, Xiao Yan's mother-in-law has good financial ability and good health. Aunt doesn't know what to do now, but every time she sees us, she sighs about her daughter. I have been advising my aunt not to interfere by force. After all, she didn't care much for so many years. I suggested that she let her little uncle talk to his mother. For the sake of children's future, such a knowledgeable old man may be blinded by love. He should know how to be really good to children!

However, it is gratifying that the aunt's son and sister have a good relationship, and the happy relationship between the two brothers and sisters makes the aunt's heart a little relieved!

I was neglected when I was a child, because most people preferred sons to daughters at that time, so I gave it to my biological parents as soon as I was born. It happened that my own foster mother also gave birth to a baby in the hospital, because the foster mother came to the hospital late and the child taken out was no longer good. It happened that I was born and my foster mother wanted me. Maybe it was fate, so I became the daughter of my foster mother, but as far as I can remember. I never knew that they were not my real parents, but one thing is that my father has always been unfair to me. My brother gave me more money. My brother has small change. I never have change. My brother has new clothes. I always wear the old clothes my grandmother gave me. If my brother quarrels with me, my father always hits me and never scolds my brother once. My warmth only comes from my grandmother. I am unhappy. When I was in the fourth grade, I went to my grandmother's house with my mother during the Spring Festival. My mother's sister, my name is Xiao Yan. She said to me, why did you come to my house? This is not your grandmother's house. I cried as soon as I listened. I ran home by myself, because my home is close to my grandmother's. I remember what she said to me all my life. I am sad. I cried all the way home. I found my grandmother and told her I was at home. Because my grandmother told me to keep it a secret, I don't remember the warmth of my parents. That's how I grew up. In 20 16, my father was ill and hospitalized. I always serve him. I always ask him about my life. I really want to know my biological parents and meet them, but my father never told me. He always said I was my own. My grandmother said that only my father knew their names and the people there. Because my mother couldn't get out of bed after the operation, my grandmother took care of my mother, because my biological parents were in the next ward and the same doctor delivered the baby. The doctor introduced them and my father talked to them, so I don't know my biological parents yet. My father has passed away. My mother asked her if she didn't know, and my husband said forget it. If I hadn't met my adoptive parents, I don't know if I still exist.

I was an idle child when I was a child. Because my father prefers boys to girls, I have never seen pocket money since I was a child. Both my younger brothers have pocket money. After I finished junior high school, I was not allowed to go to senior high school. My brother went to a vocational school, and my younger brother failed to go to high school. Then 16 years old took over his father's class.

After graduating from junior high school, I was assigned a job. 1992 started to take care of children, cook and be a nanny in Yangjiatan. 50 yuan spends a month every month. Later, because the store was out of stock, the proprietress said she didn't need it and went home.

1993, I worked in an imitation gem processing factory in Lian Gang. Because of youth and ignorance, piecework is progressing slowly, so that the living expenses are not mixed.

1On March 30th, 994, under the guidance of an appearance aunt, I embarked on a train going south to Shajing Town, Shenzhen, and entered Xinhe Electronic Toy Factory. Work 8 hours a day in 8.5 yuan, overtime 1.5 yuan/hour. The factory pulls overtime every day, and I look forward to working overtime every day. Because I worked overtime before, I worked overtime for about 300 months a month and didn't eat a glutinous rice chicken for breakfast. At noon, rice should be cooked in 1.5 yuan/bag (in plastic bag or with its own pot) in our canteen, and only 1.2 yuan/bag in another canteen. Call 1.2 yuan at ordinary times and 1.2 yuan at night. I worked overtime until 10 or 1 1 0, and went back to the dormitory. There is a tricycle vendor selling rice noodles and 50 cents next to my dormitory. The monthly living expenses are almost 60 yuan.

I didn't go home for the Spring Festival in the first year, so I sent 1 and 600 yuan came back. After the Spring Festival, I quit my job and went home to study computer. I go back by bus, and the fare is 1.30 yuan. Then I took a 5-yuan local train to Loudi. I studied computer in the College of Humanities and Science (formerly known as Loudi Teachers College), studied typing for a month, and returned to Guangdong. I didn't have a fare, so I asked my father for it. Only you know the pain in the middle period.

Write back to Guangdong tomorrow.

Being neglected since childhood. After my parents gave birth to me, I went into business and always supported each other in business. I grew up with my grandparents and wandered around my uncle and aunt's house. When I was in the fourth grade of primary school, my account was almost changed to my uncle's house, with my uncle's surname! When I was a child, I liked painting very much, because there were not enough teachers at that time, and I had to take a bus to a place four stops away from home. My grandmother gave up because her legs and feet were not good, and now she wants to continue studying! Nobody cares, and hobbies are not cultivated!

/kloc-When I was 0/2 years old, I went to the airport to meet my mother. She cried, hugged me and said, "I won't go, I'll take care of you at home." Later, I asked her, "Why are you crying?" She said to me, "It hurts to see me like a wandering child." .

In the same year, I just graduated from primary school, and my mother took me to travel to Yunnan. I mentioned this the other day. ) My mother is not feeling well. I got off to buy a box lunch. The bus is about to leave. I haven't got on the bus yet. She is very anxious. "Mom, it doesn't matter. I'll get on the bus from the back." These self-care abilities are unconsciously learned when they are not around.

I have never blamed my parents. I was like this when I was a child. When I was a child, my parents' company made it easier for me to grow up, right? Or maybe it's pampered? Everyone has everyone's life track, and I am very grateful to them for giving me room to grow up independently, taking my own path and building up the thinking ability of independent thinking.

Parents just gave us life. Life is our own. Work hard.

I have studied with my sister since I was a child. Her grades are better than mine in all aspects. Every time the teacher talks about her, my father is extremely proud. Although my grades are good, my sister's aura is too big to completely ignore me. When I was in the third grade, my parents quarreled every three or two days because my sister had no money to pay the tuition. I didn't take the graduation exam and ended my study career.

I was less than 17 years old that year, and now I have been wandering in Guangzhou for more than ten years, married for eight years and have my own children. I feel fine. Nobody took care of it since childhood, and grew up comfortably. I don't need to be too dazzling. Being an ordinary person is actually very happy. Although I haven't studied or received education, going out to work is also doing some manual work, but I am satisfied and won't complain about anything.

Compared with my sister, her life is ruined. Soon after she came out of school to work for HSBC, her spirit was stimulated. She has been crazy for almost ten years, with too much aura and too much pressure!

I am the child who was neglected since childhood, and now I have grown up smoothly. When I was a child, my mother didn't like me very much, saying that I was eccentric, sensitive, crying and ignorant. In fact, I also want to be sensible, but my father only buys things for my brother and sister, saying that I don't have to buy them for me. I can only cry for things.

I have done very well since I was a child, but I am ok in the eyes of my parents. No praise, no encouragement. Once, I said that someone praised me for being smart and severely criticized me.

When I was a child, I liked to grow things and watermelons with farm tools. My father severely scolded me, saying that I was a disaster, lazy, greedy and stupid.

When I was a child, I used to pick up my sister's old clothes and wear them until I went to college. My bedding was bitten by a mouse, and my mother patched it directly.

After graduating from college, I went to Jinan to look for jobs everywhere, mainly recruiting and selling insurance. I don't like not going

Later, I went back to Yantai and rented a house with my classmates. My monthly salary at that time was only 1200. Once I paid a day late, and there was only 90 yuan left in my card, so the ATM couldn't get it out. I sat in my office and didn't go to eat. My colleague asked me why I didn't go, and later lent it to me 100 to get through.

That was ten years ago. Now the children go to primary school, buy a house, buy a car, and have their own business with their husbands. Maybe compared with our peers, we are not rich or expensive, but I am satisfied. I earned every brick and tile, and I feel at ease.

By the way, I used to think that my parents didn't care enough about me. Later, I had children and experienced a lot. In fact, considering that they are also suffering and have so many children, I can follow them now. I'm going to take my mother on a trip during the Spring Festival (my father is gone), and I want to spend the rest of my life with her.

The problem of family background can also be attributed to China's parents. As the youngest in my family, I have a brother on it. My family has always preferred boys to girls, so I was completely ignored and didn't feel love at all! Can't feel the warmth of home! This also makes me independent, strong and hard-working, because I know I have only myself and no one behind me. I will solve anything by myself. The problem of family background also makes me feel that I lack self-confidence, security, love and cowardice, and always want to be recognized and affirmed! Now I have some material life of my own through my own efforts, and then I will work hard, come on, and make myself better tomorrow!

I happen to be such a child. I grew up in a single-parent family. My mother is often absent from my education and life because she wants to make money. At that time, I became a punk, fighting all day and smoking for fun. Now, although I no longer fight or keep company with cigarettes, I am seriously insecure. And I can't give myself a sense of security, which leads me to look for others and become more and more fragile. I associate my emotions with other people's emotional "charity" and often burst into tears. I often have nightmares, sometimes I will be awakened by nightmares, and then I will look at the ceiling blankly. Now my biggest wish is to have a house of my own, and my heart can stop wandering.