If you don't get into 985,265,438+065,438+0, will your life be over?

1 exaggerates the importance of 985, and 2 1 1 will only make college students more confused.

There is an atmosphere now. If you don't get into 985,211,your life will be ruined. Some time ago, there was a news that the waiter in the hot pot restaurant was a 985 graduate, graduated from an ordinary university, and HR didn't even read his resume. Being treated unfairly in the workplace is not the most tragic thing. Now it has evolved to the point where parents can't go to 985,211and children can't go to a good school.

The news said that a well-known kindergarten and primary and secondary school students were required to graduate in 1985, 2 1 1. So many people are talking about how important the education is and how awesome the connections on 985,211are. When I read these articles, I felt very sad. I felt that we didn't get into 985,211,and people didn't want to do it. This kind of life is going downhill. This college entrance examination has changed fate, and it will not be so thorough. Comparable to plastic surgery. Even if it is cosmetic surgery, you should maintain this face in the later stage. Education is really important. People who tell you that education is not important are probably plastic friends. The people who passed the college entrance examination in 985,211are indeed a little higher than others, with the best resources and good connections, but I don't agree with 985,211.If you fail the college entrance examination, your future career choice and vision will be greatly affected. I don't rule out that the resources of 985,211colleges still have a good learning atmosphere. If your college entrance examination score or postgraduate entrance examination score can reach 985,211institutions, then try your best. What I reject is that everyone has put 985,211on the altar and feels that they are "gilded" when they go.

Many people think that after being admitted to 985,265,438+065,438+0 universities, life will reach its peak once and for all. This idea is like: you look at the food on the table, and you are also full. But seeing it doesn't mean eating and still hungry. A good school can change a person's outlook on life and values, but it is not the only way out. Giving you a bad card doesn't mean you will always be a bad card. The key is what you want from yourself. Just like the attitude of life conveyed in "Chivalrous Rice"-even leftovers, discounted beef, canned food, and food that looks worse, as long as the method is proper, it can be made delicious.

02. Many people become exam machines and don't cherish their talents.

The youth campus TV series "Hello, Old Times", Yu's deskmate Zheng, is a person who doesn't get good grades in culture class, but draws well. His dream is to be a cartoonist. But when he filled in his volunteer, he filled in the Finance Department of Beijing Technology and Business University.

Teacher Wu, the head teacher, asked Zheng: Why did you choose finance? The reason is that finance scored the lowest last year.

It is difficult to go to college with Zheng's grades. Teacher Wu asked, "haven't you considered the art test?" Zheng said: "Family members are not allowed to say that Zhenhua key class is a disgrace to the art test." Teacher Wu directly retorted: "Aren't many painters and musicians very successful?" Some poor students want to take shortcuts through the art exam, but you are different. You love painting. I have seen your paintings. They are very talented. Don't you know how to cherish your talents? " Later, Zheng chose to repeat one year, and the teacher persuaded his parents to choose the art test. Although the plot doesn't say whether Zheng finally became a cartoonist, I think at least he will apply for art schools and choose the road of painting.

Zheng didn't take 985,265,438+065,438+0, but he has the ability to draw and is willing to draw. Will his future career path be worse than the 985,265,438+065,438+0 exams? Not exactly. Every 985,265,438+065,438+0 student has a label: graduated from a prestigious school. Labels determine the starting point, but life is a marathon, and ability determines how far you can run. The hope of life is ultimately in your own hands. The environment will affect people, but it can't determine your future path.

As the best-selling author Liu Tong said, "What matters is not where you come from, but where you can go. What matters is not what university you graduated from, but what kind of life you can live after graduation. What matters is not who you know, but who will know you. What matters is not how good you are now, but how long you can be good. "

03. Many people failed to get into 985, 265, 438+065, 438+0, and did not do badly in the exam later.

There are many bosses in business, some of whom didn't graduate from 985,211college. A boss I met told me her experience when she consulted me. After graduation, Daxie went to the top 300 foreign companies in the world, and the company with the largest industry in the world recruited. She competed with Daxie for graduation in 1985, 2 1 1, and even foreign high-quality schools, but she didn't graduate in 1985, 2 1 1, so she didn't have a strong background. As a result, she lost hundreds of graduates with the worst school background and became the national studies of that year.

Now she is an expert in the professional field, and the comments from people who consult her are: strong practicality and full of dry goods. Why did she get the job in the first place? The secret is to prepare more excellent graduates. Before the interview, all her self-introduction and questions that the interviewer may encounter are written down word for word, and then polished and practiced repeatedly.

There are many such examples. You said that after a friend in your circle of friends was admitted to 985,211college, his life changed, his vision broadened and his career was good. Then I have countless examples to disprove that there are talents in colleges and universities without 985, 2 1 1. Shen Congwen graduated from primary school and later became a famous writer. College students studying in 985, 265, 438+065 and 438+0 colleges and universities are very confused and unsuccessful in finding jobs. They didn't say that the monthly salary immediately reached 65,438+10,000 or 1 10,000, and then it reached its peak. I don't want to argue with you, but I want to say that no matter what level or bad school, the school will never limit our learning possibilities. Everything will help us succeed as long as we are willing.

Famous universities do have rich resources and opportunities, which we have never experienced before, so we should redouble our efforts to make up for this gap. Nietzsche divided the human spirit into three realms: camel, lion and baby. The camel of the first realm bears the burden of humiliation and passively obeys the arrangement of celebrities or fate; The lion in the second realm changed from passive to active, and took the initiative to take responsibility for life; The third realm baby, this is a state of "I am", living in the present and enjoying everything in the present. Many people are still in the first realm, and feel that they have failed in the college entrance examination, and the road ahead is slim and they will never be able to turn over. This kind of mentality will not be cherished even if they really attend 985,265,438+065,438+0 universities.

If we can get closer to the second field, we can succeed at least half way. As Yu mentioned in Let's Talk, a college education is like buying a platform ticket for a train, which only gives you a chance to enter the platform, but getting on the bus, which direction to go and which stop to get off are entirely your own business. Everyone's life will not be smooth sailing. They all fell down, shed a little blood, shed a little tears, then patted the dust on their buttocks, stood up and walked on, instead of saying, "My life is over."

The society we live in is a university. No matter where we are now, only by constantly improving and exercising ourselves can we have a chance to change.