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Some of our mothers are out of control, and blood pressure rises when a group of children do homework. This is a contemporary disease.

According to a CCTV statistic, at present, 80% of parents suffer from phobia!

How can a child be angry with his mother if he doesn't do his homework well?

At the end of last year, in a group of doctors, a screenshot of hospitalization records was sent:

I believe that many of our parents who help their children with their homework have a deep understanding:

If you don't do your homework, your mother will be kind and filial, but when you do your homework, chickens fly and dogs jump. Accompanying children with homework is becoming a "high-risk occupation" for contemporary parents!

"ke Xi!"

Do you think that only parents in China are "crazy" because they accompany their children to do their homework, and foreign children don't have to worry about their studies?

Don't! Don't! Don't!

Recently, an American father gradually collapsed while helping his 7-year-old daughter with her homework. Because his daughter was playful when she was doing her homework, the father rushed to the table and shouted in Chinese, "Ke Xi (write quickly)!" " "

It is reported that this is a multinational family. My mother is from China, so I often speak Chinese, and my father can also speak simple words.

After netizens know this, they will simply "explode":

@ Jingjing Jingjing: When the child graduates from primary school, the father can rap in Chinese.

@ Today's Treasure: It barely looks like the way I do high numbers.

Someone wants to say: then let the children do their own homework, don't accompany them!

However, in the face of fierce educational competition, other children are working hard. How can my family fall behind?

"Are you old?"

Doing homework with children almost killed them. Is it really so exaggerated?

Don't worry, look at the children's homework that our parents are drying, and you will understand!

Doing the problem is to be confident ▼

You don't have to ▼

Seeing this answer, parents have to "sweat" ▼

I can see that all the children are curious about their mothers ▼

Full score of word-making ability ▼

Young, very social ▼

Quite confident ▼

You are welcome ▼

Nothing wrong ▼

Dad cried so loudly ▼

There is a saying ▼

Don't let dad see this ▼

What did the chicken do wrong? ▼

Children write homework, parents cry, saying that homework is the biggest enemy of parent-child relationship, there is nothing wrong!

When children do their homework, our parents will get angry for the following reasons:

1, children have no concept of time, procrastinating, and five application problems can be solved in one night.

Homework on weekends, from Friday night to Sunday night. The 7-day National Day homework was postponed from September 30th to June 7th, 65438.

2, the child's concentration is not enough, drink water for a while, and go to the toilet for a while. There are also distractions such as suddenly looking through art textbooks when writing Chinese homework.

There is nothing wrong with the children. We adults get angry when we are tired or in a bad mood.

Let's not talk about the third situation. Let's talk about how children don't have a sense of time and don't concentrate.

Ding Dong made three suggestions for your reference:

1. For children who procrastinate, you can discuss with them how to arrange the time for doing homework first.

For example, do your homework after school, and then you can watch TV and play iPad. Still want to "sweet first, then bitter" and watch TV for a while before doing it. Of course, our parents can emphasize that if we choose the latter, we must ensure that we can't make mistakes, otherwise we will revise and punish plagiarism. To increase our sense of urgency.

In the early stage, our parents accompanied and supervised. Later, I believe that most children will taste the sweetness, because they finish their homework in time (have more time to play) and will form their own habits.

2. Make a simple timetable according to the homework.

For example:

China 20 minutes.

Math for 20 minutes

English for 20 minutes

For reference only, children above grade three should not be able to finish it so quickly. )

Have such a plan before you do something, and then get into the habit of finishing something within the specified time.

It is best to make a form, print it out and stick it on the child's desk, which is conducive to long-term implementation.

And in the implementation, don't arrange the time too full. Let the children do their homework all night.

Sometimes, parents will ask their children to do their homework for several hours, complete the homework assigned by the school, and parents will arrange it. In short, they want their children to study all night.

On the surface, children have studied for a long time, but they will feel that doing homework is endless: instead of finishing it quickly, they should write slowly, and they can't go out to play anyway, which will aggravate their procrastination in doing homework.

3. Keep your child's desktop simple.

There is nothing unrelated to study on the desktop. Pencil boxes and erasers are the most basic styles to buy, and colorful stationery is not used to distract children.

There are simple pens, notebooks, desk lamps, pencil cases, etc. On the desktop. In this way, children are not easily distracted by colorful stationery, and work efficiency can be improved.

In fact, when our parents are taking their baby to do homework, which one is not on the verge of collapse and saves himself?

But growing up has troubles, and education has methods. As long as the right medicine is given, Xiong Haizi, no matter how difficult, has the opportunity to become a smart schoolmaster!

what do you think?

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