A brief discussion on finding a nanny (1)

I was diagnosed with a short cervix when I was five months pregnant, so I needed to stay in bed to preserve my fetus. My teammates were working and didn't have time to take care of me all day long, so I started looking for various aunties during the epidemic. At the beginning, I posted recruitment information on forum websites and local groups, but very few aunties came to inquire, so I chose an agency to find aunties. A common problem among all intermediaries is that the intermediaries themselves do not have their own aunties. They also send messages to various groups through a wide net. The intermediary groups and traffic are relatively large, so they can reach more aunties. The specific quality of the aunt still depends on luck and interviews. Although the agency I used has common problems with agencies, the agency itself has a pretty good attitude and is quite patient. Next, I will talk about some of the aunties that my family has used in separate chapters.

The first aunt, Aunt Jiang. Aunt Jiang stayed at my house for two weeks. 150 per day, responsible for three meals a day, taking care of pregnant women, and simple cleaning.

In terms of cooking: Auntie was very active in the first three days. She made wontons and pasta on the first day. We were very lucky to find Auntie Angel, but she started cooking a meal on the fourth day. Let us eat for two days, each meal is just reheated leftovers, and in the morning we will bask in the sun in the room and listen to self-media. My aunt's cooking taste is very poor and she can cook very few dishes. She said she doesn't know how to cook and needs to watch videos every day to learn how to cook. It takes two hours to make a lunch of two dishes and one staple food. I negotiated with my aunt many times, and each time she had many reasons, and she said we were too picky and wasted leftovers. Hair growth occurred twice during meals. My aunt complained that I didn’t have a shower cap to wear while cooking.

In terms of cleaning: Auntie can't see the crumbs of vegetables and rice that fall on the floor every time she cooks. Auntie burned a pot while cooking and the pot base was burnt, so she asked us to clean the pot base ourselves. Auntie often forgets to clear the pot, wash the dishes, and put away the leftovers at night because she is playing with her mobile phone in the room. My aunt's work was very rough, with vegetable soup all around the bowl, the bottom of the cup sticking to the table, and the knives she used were not washed.

Other aspects: Auntie plays with her mobile phone at night and goes to bed very late, and she has no energy to work during the day. The aunt said that she is old and has poor memory. She cannot remember the requests we made. Auntie can't say anything, she has ten sentences waiting for you, and she is quarreling with her parents. I signed a contract with the aunt and the agency. The aunt did not follow the contract and said that the contract with the agency was a p. On the day she left, she was yelling and quarreling at home, almost rolling on the floor. In the interview, the aunt said that her more than ten years of experience was actually in raising grandchildren, and the aunt cleared up everything that happened at her former employer's house. The aunt kept sighing and crying, saying that if her family hadn't been poor, why would she have worked as a waiter. Auntie often sows dissension, quarrels and talks back with Mom, and pretends to be wronged by Dad. When we talk to Mom and Dad, we find that what they say is different.

Physical condition: During the interview, my aunt said that she was in good health and strong. When she came to my house, she said she was anemic and needed to eat more beef and drink more milk, and asked her mother to buy more. She has suspected cataracts so she cannot see clearly. She has undergone knee surgery and cannot climb stairs. She has a lumbar disc herniation and cannot hold packages. The aunt said that from now on she will only take orders from older children, because it is relatively simple.