Not bad money-can't be a reason not to work!

0 1 and in July, my friend Amy and I jointly opened a small shop specializing in discounted products. In our own community, the store is not big and the investment is not big. After half a month's tossing, it is considered to be a normal opening.

We have officially started a "new job" and can take care of the children at the same time. It can be said that we are satisfied with the status quo. A small goal every day makes you feel more fulfilled.

But Amy's husband is not very supportive. He is a pure northern man, not as serious as male chauvinism, but still very traditional. Their family is in good financial condition. The man is a senior engineer and has his own company. Family conditions are superior to those of his friends.

His idea is still: our family doesn't want you to earn that money, and your husband can afford to support his wife and children.

02. This makes Amy very upset. Child 10 years old, attending private boarding school, so she is a little relaxed. Usually, like other mothers in the community, they play cards, go shopping and beauty salons, and they don't stick to each other. When they are bored, they want to find something to do for themselves.

However, she has been out of the workplace for many years, and her previous experience is useless now. Many job recruiters are also stuck in their age.

I can't help it I can't find a job. Just sum it up, open your own shop and arrange work for yourself [snickering].

But her husband really doesn't like this, saying how much money can you earn by opening a shop? How much did you invest? Why not use it to buy things?

Last time my husband and I were invited to his house for dinner. After a few drinks, her husband naturally talked about this topic, but he still didn't support it. I wanted to communicate with him about this problem, but before I could speak, my family Mr. Chen actually took the initiative to talk about it.

Mr. Chen said, eldest brother, I know your family is not poor and your wife doesn't need to work to make money, but why do I still support their work? Just like the reason why he supports me to do this.

First, she has something to do, and she is very busy herself, so she won't always focus on you and the children. Will you hear a lot less complaints? Will it be easier for you?

Second, she does it herself, regardless of profit or loss. She takes responsibility independently. If she does well, she will feel more valuable. If she doesn't do well, you can give her a hand, but you must let go and fully enjoy the process. What if she really surprises you?

Third, if she has something to do, she will have a new circle. She will be exposed to many things outside her family life and will not be out of touch with society. Your husband and wife's ideas will be closer and easier to communicate.

Teacher Chen deserves to be a training teacher. Whether what he said was reasonable or not, Mr. Amy's family didn't raise any objection after listening to it.

04. Actually, this topic is a very old one. There are also many inspirational women on the Internet. Being accused by men, there are also many strong women who try their best to make a career.

But some housewives, such as my friend Amy, are not short of money. What she lacks is friends, what she lacks is the affirmation of others, and she needs to prove her value through some things. ?

In life, only women who go out can gain more respect and security. Only one person's inner strength is truly powerful, and there is no need for all kinds of storms in life.

I also hope that all female friends can find what they like to do, and that their other half can clap their chests and say, Let go, I have everything!