How does an excellent girl with strong ability achieve this goal?

Opinion 1 Beauty and ability are both important.

Liu Ye, 2 1 year old, height 180cm, bachelor degree, model.

I feel like a beauty, it should be when I was a sophomore. That year, the art school recruited dancers, and more than 300 girls signed up in our school. In the end, only three girls were selected, and I was among them. Since then, I have been confident in my appearance. I didn't take the college entrance examination. I became a model as soon as I graduated from art school.

I have been used to the attention of boys of the same age since I was a child. When traveling, there are always strange boys rushing to help me move things and being attentive. Walking in the street, there are always many people watching me. Going out for dinner with friends, men like to hand me business cards. But I am a very self-disciplined girl, or I will be too busy at dinner every day. When I go out alone, if a strange man comes to talk to me, I will play dumb. I often hear people talk about me behind my back, saying that such a beautiful girl is unfortunately dumb!

There are good and bad feelings about being a beauty. Beauty will also be discriminated against. Many people think that "beauty is a vase". How can you say that? All beautiful women are vases. Do ugly people have to be smart? This view seems a bit one-sided.

In the modeling industry, whether a person is successful or not, looks may play a key role. In my opinion, beauty is hardware, which is not easy to change; Strong ability is software, which can be improved through hard work. But no matter what work you do, your ability must come first. If a person has no ability, no matter how beautiful he looks, he will not achieve anything great.

Beauty is an advantage, and the key is how to make good use of it. I am more rational in this respect. Since I decided to be a model, I don't want to eat this bowl of youth rice to the end, so I insisted on taking the self-taught economic management major and now I have got the undergraduate diploma. Beauty and ability, if I had to choose, I think I would want both, because both are very important in the workplace.

Viewpoint 2 because of beauty, performance has climbed.

Zhou Jin, 24 years old, height 160cm, college degree, beer sales agent.

To do beer sales, you must "show your face" when you travel through major shopping malls and hotels. Probably because I am "beautiful" and my customers accept me more easily, so my sales performance has been good.

In my experience, it is really important for professional women to look good, especially in sales.

I have felt like a beauty since I was a child. In middle school, I was the "grade flower" of my grade. When I was in college, I was upgraded to "tie flowers" and I also made jewelry advertisements. Subjectively speaking, I didn't think of using looks to achieve anything, and I never subconsciously used looks to complete sales tasks. But objectively speaking, it's not up to you. My appearance really plays a role in my work, especially in my promotion. I came out of school and changed jobs several times. Every job-hopping starts from the bottom, but it always leads to a quick promotion and a quick salary increase. Every time you go to a new company, you will be promoted for at least 3 months, and not more than half a year. I don't know which kind of beer I sell because I am beautiful, which is because I have a glib tongue and which is because customers really need it. At first, I thought it was my ability. Later, I thought it should have something to do with looks. It is estimated that looks will account for 40% of my sales performance.

Of course, there are times when beauty affects sales, for example, customers are also women. When a beautiful woman meets a female client, it is easy to die at once, and it is ugly. In our line of work, the competition is fierce, so I pay attention to making friends with women consciously and communicate harmoniously, hoping to eliminate the imbalance or hostility between them as much as possible.

In my future career planning, I don't intend to be linked with looks, and I don't want to continue to sell like this. It's too difficult. My boyfriend is not rich either. If I have the conditions, I will choose to start a small company with him and be my own boss. This has nothing to do with my beauty.

Viewpoint 3 is easy to get and easy to lose.

Yang Li, 23 years old, height 170cm, bachelor degree, advertising actress and image spokesperson.

I was actually a typical ugly duckling when I was very young. /kloc-at the age of 0/4, I suddenly became a white swan. No matter what occasion, I will find a boy peeking at me. A beautiful woman finds her beauty in other people's eyes, and so do I.

Beautiful girls have strong self-confidence, while unattractive girls have a strong sense of inferiority. It is an objective fact that looks are very different, especially for girls. This is the way society is now. Whether you can get many opportunities depends on how you look at it. Good-looking people always have more choices, not only at work but also emotionally.

But if a person wants to succeed, the decisive factor should still be ability. Without ability, no matter how beautiful things are, it is difficult to be particularly successful. My position today is not entirely due to my appearance. If I were not a college student, I might not even have a chance to take part in the competition. When I participated in the TV image contest, I was still an ordinary student in the university. After I got the ranking in the contest, I was different from my classmates around me. People took the initiative to come to me to shoot advertisements, to be plastic surgery models and to be spokespersons for real estate images. Although these are all related to looks, ability comes first.

In the prime of life, all good things will come, but they are all for the good. Being a beautiful woman is really lucky. I once felt this kind of luck strongly. But beauty is limited, and charm is only temporary. If a beautiful woman is too beautiful to care about anything, it is very dangerous. A beautiful girl can get a lot of things easily. Because of this, it is difficult for beautiful women to work hard and struggle like normal people, and they don't cherish what they already have. Many things are like this, too easy to get and easy to lose, which is also the most common mistake made by beautiful women.

Viewpoint 4 It is not a good woman to take a shortcut by looks.

Xiao Ji, 25 years old, height 168cm, bachelor degree, employment specialist of training center.

The beauty in the workplace is popular everywhere. Many people want to see you often and even make friends with you right away. My job in the training center is to often go to some large enterprises to make employment recommendations. When the director of the training center hired me, he told me clearly that everyone had the ability on the work list, but my appearance was not available to others. Maybe it's because I'm beautiful I'm looking for a job smoothly. Although I graduated from normal school, I love performing arts very much. I don't have a chance to be a professional actor, and it feels good to be an employment Commissioner.

There is a big difference between beauty and ugliness in this job. If a beautiful person comes to the door, even if the other person is busy, he will immediately put down what he is doing and let you finish; If a girl looks very ordinary, she will not be treated so well. In employment promotion activities, personal image is very important, and the cultivation of internal quality is the release of long-term cultivation, but the appearance image of each appearance can not be ignored. Steady, capable and reliable image-building is an important aspect of my smooth communication with people and winning partners in my work.

If a person wants to succeed, the most critical factor should still be personal quality. I must do the work on my own. The most important quality is the ability to communicate with others. Looks are also important, but not so important that you can't work without being beautiful. If a girl wants to take a shortcut by her looks, it's sad. As long as it is not a face-to-face occupation such as modeling and acting, one's success can't play too many important roles. Besides, beautiful girls should also be strict with themselves. Not everything can be done well because of their beautiful faces.

Many girls will use their looks to cut corners in order to achieve their desired goals, but I won't do that. Of course, I also hope my career can be successful, but I will never take advantage of my appearance to take shortcuts. If a woman can't stand on her own feet, there will be no good result in the end.

You say, I say.

Beauty pai

Support index: 32%

Reasons for support: It is human nature to love beauty, especially women. The beauty and ugliness of appearance play an important role in the development of career. Physical natural advantages can be transformed into survival advantages. Girls with beautiful faces and good figure are more likely to make their eyes "charged" and give people pleasure, thus winning the priority of survival opportunities.

Delegate's speech: In today's "beauty economy", when beauty is combined with social production factors, wealth will be generated. The entertainment circle is a typical example. Beauty is a scarce resource that advertisers are looking for, and the income of beauty is always proportional to its beauty. From modeling to film and television acting, to various spokespersons and image messengers, they earn more money in a few hours than the average person does in a few years.

Beauty has a strong affinity, especially in the workplace, beauty can definitely get more development opportunities than the average person. If there is anything unfair in this, it is because it has been widely recognized by society, so it has become fair. Beautiful people use society, are popular everywhere, and their material benefits are much higher than ordinary people. Economists call this difference "beautiful discount". An American university professor investigated and analyzed thousands of families in the United States and Canada. The results show that, other things being equal, ugly professional women earn 5% less and beautiful women earn 20% more. Facts have proved that beauty is affecting social life more and more profoundly, which is independent of human will. (Cheng Ping, female, 32 years old, creative director of advertising company)

Zhongli school

Support index: 27%

Reasons for support: This issue should be viewed objectively. On the one hand, we should face up to the advantages of beautiful women in the workplace compared with ordinary women, but we should not exaggerate this advantage. The charm of women in the workplace lies not only in beauty, but also in strength. Nothing is absolute, and not all beautiful women can succeed.

Delegate's speech: China Women's Daily once conducted a questionnaire survey on "Beauty and Talent, Who do you choose?". In order to make the survey results reflect the actual situation more accurately, the questionnaire gives the most basic definitions of "beauty" and "talented woman": beauty-outstanding appearance, average intelligence; Talented woman-superior intelligence and plain appearance. The survey results show that in the private sphere, beautiful women are more popular than talented women, and most men still prefer beautiful women. But in the field of public affairs, the advantage of talented women is obviously stronger than that of beautiful women. For "beauty and talented women have more advantages in the workplace competition?" More than half of the votes were voted for "talented women"; Suppose you are a business owner and need to take an assistant to the field to sign an important contract. During this period, the assistant will independently undertake the negotiation task and accompany you to the reception. Do you bring beautiful women or talented women? " In this scenario, 54.8% of the voters chose "talented women". (Yang Yuan, female, 26 years old, magazine editor)

Ability school

Support index: 4 1%

Reasons for support: The key to success lies in the cultivation of strength. Ability is the main factor for any unit to measure whether an employee is qualified. Some positions (such as receptionist, etc. There may be image requirements, but it can never replace professional quality and personal ability. Ability is forged by knowledge, experience, experience and other factors, and it needs a deep foundation and connotation, which seems to have little to do with beauty.

Deputy speech: I admit that beautiful women in the workplace have more development opportunities than ordinary people. Success is inseparable from opportunities, but success is inseparable from opportunities and strength. Can a beautiful woman give up other efforts? Should an unattractive woman give up the pursuit of success? Not really.

There are two girls around me, both from their hometown. One is beautiful, the other is plain. They both joined a company at the same time. The beautiful one was surrounded by a group of men as soon as she arrived at the company, and she was trapped in emotional games all day, spending a lot of money and crying a lot. The ordinary-looking one has to concentrate on his work, take the self-taught exam in his spare time and finish his undergraduate and graduate studies. After several years, the gap between them widened. Ordinary-looking people were sent abroad for training and came back as managers. Beautiful, she wandered in the whirlpool of feelings, and found nothing except the scar that fell on her heart.

Beauty is an advantage. Without a good mind and proper handling of the relationship between beauty and ability, beauty will also become a disadvantage. There is a female colleague in our unit. She was born beautiful since she was a child, became famous as a student and had many suitors. After entering the workplace, she flaunted and overbearing, causing psychological pressure to the plain or ugly people around her, making these people feel inferior and jealous. So everyone United to make things difficult for her and isolate her, and she soon lost. A beautiful woman like this can hardly stand on her own feet. How can she succeed?

(Song Qiang, female, 28 years old, translated by foreign trade company)

Expert reminder

Beauty phenomenon is essentially a kind of culture. Beauty in the workplace should be a professional first. Regardless of the unique gender characteristics of men and women, any enterprise needs loyal, diligent, innovative and cooperative employees. A professional beauty in a complete sense should construct her overall beauty from three aspects: talent, virtue and appearance. To this end, career counselors remind beautiful women in the workplace to pay attention to the following aspects of cultivation:

First, don't show off your arrogance. Beauty should respect the women around her, don't talk about appearance in front of them, and don't show off your posture. Try to avoid deliberately attracting male praise in front of other women. As long as beautiful women are generous, modest and polite, and beautiful, they will bring a lot of convenience to study, work and life.

Second, treat the opposite sex in a measured way. Usually, beautiful women have more communication activities and a wide range of communication, and most of them are between the opposite sex. Beauty is really easy to lubricate interpersonal relationships and improve work efficiency in communication, but if she is not serious, vague, or even plays with other people's feelings with ulterior motives, she will inevitably be criticized and accused by others and bring trouble to herself. Therefore, in dealing with the opposite sex, beautiful women should be generous, rigorous and moderate, making people feel that you are beautiful but not frivolous. They like you and respect you.

Third, don't give the impression of a vase. Beautiful women are born with a sense of superiority and receive special care everywhere in their work and life. Even if you make a mistake, it is a "beautiful" mistake, which easily leads to the degradation of all aspects of your ability. In addition to properly showing the gentle side of women, beauty in the workplace should try to show your rational and strong side. Let your male boss, colleagues and clients know that you are not only beautiful, but also smart and capable.

Fourth, improve inner self-cultivation and strive to be consistent in appearance. Due to the prejudice effect in social cognition, many people have various prejudices against beautiful women, one of which is that most beautiful women are just precious stones. In addition, from the perspective of cognitive psychology, the greater the contrast, the stronger the contrast, and the easier it is to attract people's attention. The shortcomings of beautiful women are like stains on white paper, which are very conspicuous and easy to be magnified. This requires beautiful women to have higher self-requirements than ordinary people, especially to improve their inner cultivation in knowledge, ability and moral quality, and strive to be consistent in appearance.