Do you listen to your parents' arrangement or make your own decisions when looking for a job?

To tell the truth, I admire your parents very much, and at the same time I sympathize with them. More importantly, I don't understand their behavior. Your parents are more or less responsible for your situation today. Their love has gone bad, which is doting. Parental doting is the beginning of ruining a person's growth.

"Looking for a job is to listen to your parents' arrangement or make your own decisions? "I don't think this is your current problem. You have no intention of working at all. Not that it can't be done. It's that you refused before you started trying. You are a typical giant in thought and a dwarf in action. You have a morbid idea now. Is it possible that you want to stay at home and live a superior life? You really should reflect on it. Men in their thirties have no responsibility. You are afraid of this society, and you are even cynical. To be honest, you don't have this qualification. When you look back, do you think about your behavior? Do you have parents to rely on now? What about the future? When your parents are gray-haired and no longer able to take care of you and support themselves? Let them beg and come back for you to eat? I'm sorry I went a little overboard, but I was really angry.

You talk about self-esteem. What about your self-esteem? You live with your poor self-esteem under the protection of your parents. Is this self-esteem? You are afraid of hardship, fatigue and dirt. As long as you are working hard with your own hands, even picking up garbage is dignity.

I'm just a girl who still understands in her early twenties, but you don't. This is really ironic and tragic. No matter whether you are angry or sad when you see these words, no matter what your future plans are, no matter whether you plan to live forever or abandon these ideas and start over, this is your life, and no one can control it. But you should know that every life has dignity and every struggle is meaningful. I hope you can understand your life and what you should do.

Good luck! ! !