Looking for a nanny is worried and scared, and sharing the experience of interviewing and getting along with a nanny.

I'm worried and scared about finding a nanny, and share my experience in nanny interview and getting along with each other. My two couples are both taking care of the same nanny, because the difference between them is just 3 years old, so after my sister is in a small class, Chengdi also started sending them to the same nanny's house in the fourth month after her birth. Here, I'd like to share some experiences of myself and people around me, so as to provide reference for mothers in need in the future.

First of all, after six months, I began to prepare to re-enter the workplace and didn't want to be a full-time mother at home.

Step 1: First, find the Nanny Association in New Taipei City

Website: babyhouse.ieschool./

Because I want to say that it should be more secure to have association certification and related training, there will be about 2 minutes of interviews after you call, and you will ask a lot of your own needs. For example:

full day care (all day from Monday to Friday, and take it home on Friday night):

Suitable for parents who often need to work overtime, and the cost is about 23, ~ 25, yuan

Half day care (from 8: 3 to 19: on weekdays):

Take it home to sleep after work and go to work the next day. The cost is about 17, ~ 19, yuan

Then the Nanny Association will help you find a nanny near the area you want. At first, everything she provided me was very close to my home, but they may have a lot of cases and it will take about two weeks to call back.

Step 2: Ask friends to recommend you

You will have many friends after giving birth. Colleagues will be your sisters and give us a lot of advice. BOOK will copy it down. If it is close to my home, I will call first to ask if I can accept the entrustment.

*** Regulations: Although a nanny can bring four children, she can only take care of two children under two years old, and it is illegal to exceed that!

in addition, I also looked for this parenting music website:: ourkids./nanny/nannylist.asp? ZIP=22

It's just that the nanny above seems to have a low response rate and a low matchmaking rate.

Notes for visiting and interviewing

1. You can simply ask about the qualifications of some nannies on the phone first

For example, did you have any children? How old is your child? Boys and girls? How many years have you worked as a nanny?

how many children have you taken and so on? How many children do you bring yourself at this stage? Is there anyone else at home who can be an assistant?

In fact, these things are very complicated, and everyone cares about different points. For example, a friend of mine said that during the interview, he learned that the nanny had sons from two junior high schools, and he felt afraid of what adolescent boys would do to his daughter, so he didn't consider it. Besides being a nanny, my friend's nanny also does direct sales, and she often sells their products. I think it doesn't matter if I buy one or two times (after all, I'm afraid it will be bad for my children), but it's really boring to sell too often, so I have to change nannies later. The quality of the nanny's conversation, etc., at least on the phone, I feel that I don't agree with my Key.

2. Make an appointment to meet and visit

I have interviewed about 5-6 nannies myself. Perhaps there are many old apartments in our district, and several of them are apartments. Some of them can accept that you visit the site when she is raising children, while others hope to make an appointment with you to visit and interview the site after 8 pm in order not to affect the children's work and rest

.

I have met a very strong nanny, and I feel that my novice mother just doesn't know anything and is very dominant. I also met a nanny TV who came into the house, and it was a live broadcast of the stock market. Because my child was only a few months old, I asked where the little Baby was going to sleep. He just pointed to a wooden bed and said he could sleep here. Moreover, at that time, he also took two other children over 2 years old, which was when he loved to play ... I was extremely afraid that I would step on my sister while playing ~ < P > I also met retired couples who were very enterprise-run, and both of them had a nanny license. Together, they could take 7~8 children, which I think was legal, but both of them were old, and I was extremely afraid that they would have no spare capacity to take our Baby. Why did I choose this nanny myself? Because she is relatively young, and one of her daughters has gone to college ... She is a single mother who lives with her mother. Usually, she has her own mother who can help buy food and cook non-staple food ... or an elder who can help when the children are too busy.

Actually, I had a period of engagement with this nanny at the beginning ... My sister was almost returned. By the way, don't think that the nanny will definitely accept your children and earn your money ~ NO! NO! NO!

I have a friend who asked for a nanny after six months of parental leave. At this time, the baby can recognize people, and all four nannies were returned. The next day, I asked her to take the child back ... the longest lasted for 3 days ~ < P > When I sent my sister to the nanny's house, she was already 7 months old. Before these seven months, BOOK took care of her at home, and then she was "very afraid of life". I cried all the time when I first went there. Only three days later, the nanny got a little cold feet. I was working very close to my babysitter's house, so I wanted to say, why don't I come over at 12 noon to accompany her and let the children think that mom will come back? Or should I add more money on the 6th so that I don't lose sight of the nanny for two days, and then go on Monday and start to be afraid of strangers again?

However, my nanny refused both my suggestions, and then she also thought that I was a slow child because I couldn't climb at her house ~ So I took it to Taian Hospital for evaluation, which also bothered me for a long time, and was also thought by the boss of the company at that time

that I took too many leave ... At first, because I had never given birth to a child myself, I always thought that the nanny was prejudiced against our children

, but later I thought that the nanny was actually looking at the child attentively, because her own daughter was also slow in those years, so she paid great attention to this ~ I was afraid that parents would miss the "golden treatment period of ~2 years old", and at that time she suggested that it would be better for me to take care of the children myself ~

Fortunately, the evaluation of doctors and rehabilitation technicians at Tai 'an Hospital was all right. I think we should observe

again, and then I tell Peng, who is more than seven months old, every day that Ma Ma has to work, and you can play with your little brother at the nanny's place ... Ma Ma can accompany you all day on holidays or something ... Then she got used to it inexplicably and was willing to play with another brother.

Postscript

In fact, it's really hard to take care of children. I suggest taking the nanny as our teammate. I think the reason why my nanny hasn't returned the goods for such a long time is because her family has a mother to help, otherwise, according to my friend's experience, if there is only one person, she will surrender in about three days.

Of course, if our child is an angel and is not afraid of being born, it will be fine. For example, another friend of mine asked a nanny to wait until the end of six months' parental leave, but the nanny suggested that it should be sent immediately after four months, otherwise it would be really difficult to take care of her if she was afraid of being born. If she cried, she would have other children at hand and could not take care of them.

Share the nanny's daily diary

In addition, you need to sign a contract with the nanny (but this should all be the version of the nanny association), and you can add it if you want to discuss other matters.

monthly fee for nanny: $17,+non-staple food (for two meals and fruit) $1,5 = $18,5

(If you want to prepare your own meals or are still drinking milk six months ago, you don't need to pay an additional 1,5 for meals. )

Bonus in the second quarter: an additional bonus of $3,6 is required for the Dragon Boat Festival and Mid-Autumn Festival

Year-end bonus: one month (which can be calculated proportionally)

Parents should bring their own other articles: milk powder, diapers, wet paper towels, bottles, bottle brushes (which need to be replaced regularly), shower gel and laundry detergent.

Starting from August 218, the nanny subsidy in New Taipei City can receive $8, yuan, but only if the nanny you signed up must join the community nursery league, and this fee can be paid until the age of 2. I think there was only a subsidy of 3 yuan in my sister's time. The form of child care in New Taipei City can refer to: expanding the child care allowance for -2 years old and the quasi-public * * *, cooperative alliance child care area. For women returning to the workplace, a good nanny is really important, just like our god teammates. If the economic conditions permit, I suggest looking for a nanny directly, because after all, it is a paid employment relationship, and many words can be said clearly.

Although it can save money for the elders in the family, sometimes the relationship between them will be very tense. We have seen that the relationship between several mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has deteriorated because the mother-in-law has helped to bring up her own children.

The elder has brought up her own children, so she should also have her own space to enjoy the rest of her life. It is better for professionals to bring up children.