Parents scrimp and save for their children to study abroad, but their children are extravagant abroad. How to treat this phenomenon?

I think such children lack gratitude. They don't know how much efforts their parents have made for them. They only care about their own enjoyment and happiness. When they face life alone, problems will follow.

For the sake of their children's future, many parents would rather be a little more tired and bitter and send their children abroad to study, hoping that their children will get ahead one day, but many children can't understand their parents' wishes. They feel that parents should provide all this for themselves, and they will not feel guilty if they squander their parents' hard-earned money, which also highlights another serious problem.

It is the parents who spoil their children too much, and try their best to give them the best resources, so that the new generation of young people lack exercise. Although parents have good intentions, they should also pay attention to doting on their children and let them feel the hardships of life at a certain period.

I have a child who was spoiled by his parents since he was a child, so he was very paranoid and even wanted to drop out of school when he reached adolescence. His father is just an ordinary migrant worker and doesn't understand those high-sounding words. In order to let the children continue their studies, he asked the teacher for a few days off and took my children to the construction site, saying, "If you don't go to school, just follow me."

In just one day, I told his father that I would go back to school when I was young. Since then, he has been honest and studied hard. He was admitted to the best high school in the county, and later he was admitted to a 985 college in the college entrance examination. Later, I chatted and chatted. He said he was really shocked. I didn't expect his parents to suffer so much for themselves.

Therefore, children should be properly allowed to experience the maladjustment of life, so that they will cherish what they have at present.