What should I pay attention to when looking for a nanny?

Perhaps most treasure mothers choose their own mother-in-law or mother-in-law. Of course, some precious mothers may be afraid of unnecessary conflicts because their elders are too old to take care of their babies, or because they have different parenting concepts. In particular, many treasure moms think that the mother-in-law will definitely encounter the eternal problem of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so they will find another way and choose some professional nannies to help them take care of their babies. After all, there are such professional nannies now.

Then the problem is coming. Is it really safe and reliable to find a professional nanny to take care of the baby? No, recently, Ms. Liu from Weinan, Shaanxi Province met a bad thing that she regretted. What happened? Let's get to know each other.

The baby is always pestering the baby's mother but won't let the nanny hold it. The mother at work pulled the quilt to find out the reason and cried. Ms Liu gave birth to a little princess six months ago. Because of work, when the baby is three months old, Ms. Liu will become a working mother and work hard to earn money to buy milk powder for the baby. Therefore, the question of who will take the children has become a big problem. Ms. Liu's mother-in-law has no way to take her granddaughter because she is sick all the year round. Although Ms. Liu's mother-in-law is in good health and has no housework, Ms. Liu married in Weinan, Shaanxi, and her mother-in-law is far away in Shaanxi. In desperation, after discussing with her husband, Ms. Liu hired a nanny in a professional institution.

Because of the influence of some online news, Ms. Liu has been observing for the first few days to see if the nanny is taking care of the baby, whether she is attentive, and how professional skills are. After several days of investigation, Ms. Liu found that the nanny she hired was not bad in terms of professional skills or personal love. Only then did she relax and devote herself to her work.

However, a few months later, as the child grew up, Ms. Liu found a strange thing. Every time she comes home from work, she will hug the child, but every time she hugs the child, the child is especially pestering her mother and hugging her tightly. At first, Ms. Liu thought it was because the baby didn't see her mother for a day, and she might miss her mother too much, but later, Ms. Liu found that this was not the case, because all she had to do was put the child in the crib or give it to the nanny. After several times, Ms. Liu felt a little strange. In order to find out, she opened the quilt on the crib for the child and found out the reason. The mattress originally laid for children has been soaked and dirty, and there are signs of mildew in some places. In addition, he found many rashes on the child's buttocks. Seeing this scene, Ms. Liu understood why children always like to haunt her.

In fact, in the current social environment, for various reasons, it has brought a lot of pressure to the lives of many new treasure mothers. At this time, I want to be a working mother, including myself. I also worked as a working mother for a while when I gave birth to Dabaoyiyi, but I always thought about my children when I went to work every day, so I finally started to be a full-time mother, so I could actually grow up with my children and feel more at ease.

However, many treasure mothers may have to be working mothers, so how can we choose a professional and reassuring nanny to avoid the situation of Ms. Liu's family? Next, I would like to share some points with you, hoping to help novice mothers.

Looking for a nanny for a baby, three precautions are indispensable. It is very important for working mothers to understand the "parenting strategy" 1.

We often say that people know their faces but don't know their hearts. In general, acquaintances who know them may not know who they really are, let alone the nanny you suddenly found. Therefore, as a novice nanny, it is best to find a nanny for your baby in your familiar circle, such as the person introduced to you by relatives and friends, or the nanny she once hired in some parenting groups, and the information introduced by such acquaintances.

2. Understand the nanny's physical condition.

This is very important, because babies are delicate and adults themselves carry a lot of bacteria. If you are in good health, touching your baby every day is likely to bring many diseases to your baby. Therefore, treasure moms must know her physical condition before hiring a nanny, such as asking her to show her work permit and health certificate. Of course, if necessary, they can also have a physical examination with the nanny, which is more reassuring.

Step 3 hire a nanny in advance

Finally, when we are ready to hire a nanny, we must postpone our working hours by 1-3 months. During this period, please invite a nanny in advance, because on the one hand, you can inspect and evaluate the nanny for such a long time, and on the other hand, you can communicate with the nanny, so that the nanny can integrate into the family as soon as possible, deepen the relationship between your and take better care of the baby.

In fact, every novice nanny may encounter the choice of work and children. Some may be taken care of by elders at home to reassure them. But sometimes, they have to find a nanny to take care of them. At this time, we must understand these parenting knowledge and give the child to a reassuring person to avoid the situation at Ms. Liu's home. If the child suffers, the nanny will especially regret it.

I also want to tell you that before the age of three, children develop rapidly. If you can, you should try to stay with her and grow up with him. This may also be a very happy thing.