In the following days, how should we learn to live a good life and live a life that is neither long nor short?

? My work hours have been postponed again, and I will continue to stay at home next week. I can only say that my mood is neither sad nor happy. Life has to go on. I just live. It's a bit insensitive.

? Of course, all plans and arrangements have been postponed. Recruitment, examinations, and job hunting have all been pushed back. I don’t know exactly when the recruitment and teaching qualifications will be tested, and I feel very upset. I am a person who doesn’t like to push everything back. I feel that the longer I delay, the more trouble it will cause me. But in this situation, this is the only way it can be.

? The biggest stimulation brought to me by half a year of work experience is that money and ability are the basis of your survival. Without these two things, nothing else can be discussed.

? Talking about "money" may be a bit vulgar, and you may even feel that your whole body is full of the smell of copper, but when you have experienced being forced to move forward by money, you will understand how important money is.

? I have experienced it, I know. After graduation, I spent all the savings I had saved since school in order to take the college entrance examination. The 5,000 yuan I earned from part-time work during the summer also helped my family pay off their debts. So in the first month of work, I had only a dime in my wallet, WeChat, and Alipay. I don’t have any money, and sometimes I have to ask my mother for money to take the bus.

? I remember that time I went to work part-time on the weekend. I had just finished taking classes at another place and was about to go home when I received a call from my boss, asking me to take a taxi to the next training institution to replace my temporary leave. A teacher takes a class. After hanging up the phone, I looked at the only two yuan in my pocket for taking the bus. I was really helpless. I called my mother and asked her to transfer 20 yuan to me using WeChat. But my mother I didn’t know how to use WeChat to transfer money, so I called my dad and my brother. They were both at work, and no one answered the phone. In the end, I had no choice but to send a message to a friend and borrow 20 yuan before rushing to class.

? 20 yuan is really not much, but at that time, it forced me to make no move. It’s not that I was too stupid to borrow the 20 yuan, it was just because you didn’t have the 20 yuan yourself. You can only borrow money from others, which is really uncomfortable.

? The most direct feeling of having no money is that I can’t straighten my back when walking. My whole body feels light and fluffy, as if I fell over if I was blown lightly by the wind.

? Let’s talk about “ability”. It is a measure for others to judge whether you are valuable. After going to work, I suddenly understood what the instructor said to me during the military training. He said: "After work, don't make friends with the leader out of the blue. You have to do your job well first, and then you can talk to the leader about other things." , I feel that this is the most real experience after I go to work.

The leader will not see whether you have failed in school before or how many honorary certificates you have obtained. What he wants to see is whether you are qualified for your current job and whether you can stand alone. On the basis of managing students well, it is very realistic to teach one's own classes well, one carrot after another.

? This is the most profound lesson that my half-year work experience has taught me after graduation.

? How should I live in the coming days? I really don’t know. After 16 years of schooling, if you ask me to take the exam, there will be absolutely no problem. But if you ask me to learn "life" from now on, it will be really difficult.

I feel like a giant baby who knows nothing, let alone life skills. Although I have help from my parents for the time being, one day I will have to learn to live by myself and learn to be alone. Hit the road and accept the tests that life throws at me.

? I once thought that I would be completely free after graduation. I fantasized about my own poems and distant places, and fantasized about the beautiful life in the plot. But reality slapped me hard and made me feel like a dream. When you first wake up, you know that poetry and distance are not something you can reach yet.

This life is both long and short. I don’t know how to live it well. This question can only be left to the future.

? We can only work hard to live the life in front of us. If we look at the longer term, we will live the life well at this stage. Make a timeline for yourself, a five-year timeline. Achieve a goal every year, no matter what the result is, try your best to achieve it.

? February 28, 2020 ~ February 28, 2021 ? Timeline:

? Goal 1: Get admitted to teach and enter the school to work.

? In recent years, it has been really difficult to recruit teachers. There are only a few hundred places in the province, but it is better to have a chance than no chance. I didn’t pass the exam last year. Give yourself another chance this year. , try your best to take the exam.

Goal 2: Learning skills - sand painting and calligraphy

? I have been engaged in the art education industry for 5 years and have accumulated some experience, but I cannot just focus on painting. A skill will only be eliminated by the industry. Only by constantly improving and exploring other skills and improving your abilities can you gain a foothold in this industry in the future.

Goal 3: Postgraduate entrance examination

This plan may have a long time span. Failure to take the postgraduate entrance examination in my senior year was indeed a big blow to me, but this has always been the same in my heart. A goal is also an obsession of mine. I will start taking the postgraduate entrance examination after finishing the teaching qualification examination. Otherwise, I will pile them all together and really have more than I can do. But whether it is one year, two years or three years, I have to take the examination. superior.

? Goal 4: Make a good public account for Yingzi Children’s Creative Art Classroom

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? We have already started building this public account, but we have not taken it seriously. I want to do it, try to be able to do it within this year, and want to practice my new media operation skills. It can be regarded as a side job in the future.

? The above are my four timeline goals for 2020. No matter what the results are, just do your best and it will be useless to think too much.

? I don’t know what my future life will be like, so just set a few goals for yourself to achieve and imitate other people’s life trajectories. Maybe one day you will find what you want. Life.