In Ode to Joy, Qiu Yingying revealed her love affair in public at the job fair and slapped Supervisor Bai. Why did some people say that Qiu Yingying deserved the beating?

In Ode to Joy, Qiu Yingying exposed her shortcomings in public at the job fair and received a slap from Supervisor Bai. From a woman's perspective, this man lacked gentlemanly demeanor. Slapping a woman in public showed her violent side, but from a woman's perspective, From a social perspective, some people say that Qiu Yingying deserves the beating. Why? Because he exposes other people's shortcomings in public, which is a sign of extremely low emotional intelligence. Even if others have shortcomings, we should not talk about other people's shortcomings in front of everyone. This will only make others angry. The correct approach should be It’s on a small scale, don’t let many people know