35 years old is a watershed in life

Indeed, if a person is 35 years old, some things have basically been finalized. Some people may be able to basically tell it when they are twenty-seven or eighty years old, probably around thirty years old, and the highest is forty years old. At least it is a key point. If there is no exponential growth in career or work, or the income is low, a person's life will basically be like this.

Even though some people may be late bloomers, the chances are slim. And even if there is, at least at the age of 35, you can roughly see it. Therefore, it is very common for general companies or enterprises to encounter age discrimination in recruitment. This is the same for both men and women.

At this age, it is generally "old and young", and it is difficult to devote all your energy to your career. If you are a woman, you will basically pay more attention to your family. Therefore, women who are generally housewives go to work after a few years. Not only is it seriously out of touch with society, but it also no longer has enough advantages in the recruitment market. If you really want to find a job, you will have to compete with those who are younger, which may be difficult.

Therefore, people still need to work hard to improve themselves, because many positions have age restrictions. Especially for that kind of physical work, you can still do it well when you are young, but as you get older, your physical strength and energy cannot keep up. When it comes to looking for a grassroots job, if it is for livelihood issues and you are a little younger, then that is fine. But if a person has reached the age of 35 and is still doing a grassroots job and earning the minimum wage, I am afraid it will not work.

Indeed, I have not yet entered into marriage, so some things should be planned in advance. Sometimes time waits for no one, especially during the transition period in the past two years. Some things cannot be prepared in advance now, as they may be too much to handle by then. In that case, the road of life will become narrower and narrower, and we will be in a passive tendency, often unable to control ourselves.

For a woman, the type of marriage she chooses is basically finalized for the rest of her life. Therefore, sometimes marrying late is not necessarily a bad thing. Ignore marriage for the time being and practice in society for a few years to broaden your horizons and increase your experience. In this case, it will be easier to choose a high-quality man, thus making the marriage more stable.

Therefore, in today's society, both men and women need to work hard. There are no real "shortcuts" in life. Even if there is one, you still need to be able to show your strength. Especially when we are born at the bottom, with no background, no education, and no resources. For first-tier cities, we all belong to the "three noes".

Because no matter which item it is, there are many people, and the range of choices is very narrow. But we have no skills, so we can only work as general workers, earning the lowest wages, day after day, year after year. Time is running out, and the most suitable age is wasted. Even if you really think about it at that time, you will probably lose the motivation to change.

Because I was basically surrounded by my family at that time and my age had reached that stage, it was probably impossible to achieve exponential growth. Therefore, if you look for a job at that time, the possibility of unemployment will be much higher than when you were in your early twenties. There are many people who have been unemployed for a long time, and even if they can barely find a job, the salary will not be high due to lack of ability.