A special classic essay on understanding life

A special classic essay on understanding life

Don't miss the scenery along the way.

All my life, I always pursue what I like, no matter who it is, no matter what it is, I am eager to have all the beautiful things and don't want to lose them. It's just time that makes people. In life, there are always some casual losses. ...

Regret missing the beautiful scenery and delaying the pace; Complaining about missed opportunities and lost time; Resentment because of injustice has affected the mood; Feeling inferior because of setbacks makes life gloomy.

The more you care, the more you will be tortured; If you love too much, you will lose yourself; Followed closely, often looked down upon; When I can't let go, it is often night in my mind.

I want to cover everything, but I am at a loss; I wanted to be perfect, but I broke my dream; Too much honor, too much entertainment; The higher your status, the more you lose yourself.

The bow of life, stretched too full, will be tired, stretched too dissatisfied, will face elimination; On the road of life, you don't push yourself, you can't suppress your potential, you push too hard, or you become eager for quick success.

Life is monotonous and lacks passion; Life is changeable, and eventually there is helplessness; Life is full of applause, and life lacks peace. ...

Pain is often entangled in "gains and losses." Time is always putting on a drama of "gain and loss".

Loss, like the sand in your hand, can only be grasped, not too tight, and can't let go!

Don't hesitate when it's time to trot; Release it when it is warm; Relax your mind and tolerate all grievances and injustice; In the face of setbacks, learn to take a step back and broaden the horizon.

Treat life with a natural heart, life is not perfect; Listen to your heart, keep what you expect most in your heart, love when you love, and fight when you fight; Resist loneliness, stay prosperous, and be indifferent to the ups and downs of life.

Perhaps, those casual losses will disappear in reason and calmness …

The Rose of Life

Life, if it is a flower, I think it must be less elegant than peony, less spotless than magnolia and less romantic than peach blossom. Life, if it is really a flower, it should be a rose. Because roses have flowers and thorns, this is the taste of life.

Looking at a rose together, people's reactions are different, and their attitudes towards roses reflect different lives.

Some people, at the sight of flowers, are elated and intoxicated with the beauty and fragrance of flowers, and suddenly feel that life is a sea of flowers. They linger among the flowers and feel that life is so beautiful and lovely. If they are interested, they can't help picking flowers and putting them in their hair. However, when they pick flowers, their hands are unlucky, because they only see flowers, not thorns. It's like some of us, because of kindness, simplicity and kindness, treat everyone as a good person and treat the belly of a villain with a gentleman's heart. Therefore, they are often injured by a villain. For example, Mr. Dong Guo saved a wolf and bit a farmer like a poisonous snake. They will regret it and be indignant. But when the wound gradually heals, they will still be kind to others and still infatuated. They still feel that there are many good people in the world and their lives are very satisfying. They believe that heaven has no relatives and often works with good people.

Some people, when they see a rose, will like it for an instant, but they will soon find the thorn under the flower, and their happy heart will suddenly drop. He will think that flowers are good, but thorns are not good. His eyes will take away from the flowers, just staring at the thorns, endlessly, ignoring the existence of the flowers. He was melancholy for the thorn hidden under the flower, as if it didn't grow on the flower branch, but on his heart. In life, some people only see the negative side of things, just like that old woman. Because one of her two daughters sells umbrellas and the other sells shoes, she is afraid that her daughter's umbrella can't be sold on sunny days and her daughter's shoes can't be sold on cloudy days, so she is not happy on cloudy days. Because of this thinking and attitude towards life, his mood is always gray, and every day of his life is spent sighing and living.

There is also a kind of person who sees both flowers and thorns. In Shang Huashi, they don't get too close to flowers or touch them. Even if they want to pick one, they are careful not to let the thorn prick their fingers. They enjoy the happiness brought by flowers, but they don't touch, annoy or bother sharp thorns. They even think sharp thorns. Because it lets you know that there is a price to pay for destroying beauty, and the life of flowers also has dignity. It enlightens people that both a good mood and a good life are not so easy to get, and it requires painstaking efforts. It warns people that the life span of each flower is only a few days, more than ten days, so people should stop killing it cruelly and let bloom blossom and sing the song of life for a few days.

Life is a rose, fragrant, delicate and beautiful, but at the same time, inconspicuous thorns are hidden in it. We don't want to be that blind optimist, but the flowers are missing and the thorns are hurt again and again. We should learn from one mistake and not trip over the same stone twice. Don't be so pessimistic. I can't see the flower when I see the thorn, but I think of falling before it opens. You are always entangled in that thorn and ruin your beautiful life. We should be the wise man and treat thorns correctly.

Life is a rose, flowers and thorns always coexist at the same time. We should not think that only flowers have no thorns, which is contrary to the laws of nature, nor should we just look at thorns without looking at flowers, which is even more undesirable. There are pains and joys in life, smooth roads and bumps, and even more pains than joys, just as there are always more thorns than flowers. Understand this, when the flower of happiness blooms, don't get carried away. You know, the thorn is there, staring at you, and it will sting you if you are not careful. And when we are devastated by wind and rain, when the flowers are green, fat, red and thin, we should not be blindly sad, or even painfully unable to pull them apart. Because that flower, the rose of hope, sprouted quietly when you were pessimistic and disappointed.

Life is not perfect.

A young man saw Chekhov's words, "If only his life was a draft, it would be nice to write it out earlier." Fascinated by this passage, he typed a report to God and asked to do experiments on him.

God agreed.

So, the experiment began:

At the age of marriage, he met a beautiful girl, and they fell in love and got married soon.

Soon, he found that although the girl was beautiful, she was rude and knew nothing. Their hearts could not communicate, so he erased the marriage as a draft.

His second marriage was not only beautiful, but also capable and clever. However, it didn't take long for him to find that this woman was bad-tempered, strong-willed and clever, which became her "sharp weapon" to satirize him and "means" to play tricks on him. He is not like her husband, but like her cattle and horses, her tools. He can't stand such torture. Since life can have a draft, please allow him to have a third draft.

God smiled and agreed.

When he got married for the third time, his wife's advantage, besides the above, was that she must have a good temper.

After marriage, the two were close and harmonious, and they were both satisfied with each other. Unfortunately, however, half a year later, my wife became seriously ill.

Morally speaking, he should take good care of her and accompany her for life; However, from the perspective of life, he is undoubtedly very unfortunate. He was very sad and asked God if he could give him another chance to write the manuscript as soon as possible.

God was unhappy, but thinking that he was allowed to do the experiment, he agreed to his request.

After the ups and downs of these marriages, he has become much more mature and has more problems to consider.

Finally, he chose a young, beautiful, gentle, lovely, as good as possible "angel" girl. He is very satisfied and wants to report the news of success to God. When he thanked Chekhov for his wisdom, the girl refused. She said that such a man who constantly changes his mind and even ignores his wife's illness can't commit himself to life.

God had no choice but to know that "a twisted melon is not sweet" and agreed to the girl's request.

Today, he is still wandering on the road of marriage, choose! However, I can no longer choose my own happy marriage. Because all the girls in the world already know what an unbearable man he is.

He was walking alone on the edge of the desert. Suddenly, he saw another sentence that Chekhov said, "Perfection is an ideal. Even if you are allowed to modify 10 times, you will not regret it. "

Such a sentence makes his confused mind suddenly enlightened. It turns out that life, like this, can never be satisfied. The so-called perfection can only be a fictional plot in our hearts. There can be no perfect people in the world. Perfect things are impossible! It turns out that I have been chasing an illusory shadow and hoping for an illusory dream all my life, and I have never treated my marriage and life well.

Think of yesterday in a hurry; Thinking about yesterday, it is always in the choice; After thinking about that choice, yesterday, for which he was never responsible, will disappear from his life forever, "just like yesterday when the Yangtze River died in the east and ran to the sea, never to return"!

Indeed, many people, like him, have been pursuing some empty fantasies, some mirage.

In fact, there can never be perfect people and things in the world. Everyone has shortcomings you don't know about. It's just that what people show in the eyes of others is all advantages, and the shortcomings are just buried deep in their hearts. Everyone is "the incarnation of the devil and the angel". It's just that what we do is to expose the bright side to the public, but our hearts are not good.

This is the weakness of human nature, and it should also be the advantage of human nature. Think about it, who wants to put all their shortcomings in front of others? I can't bear this naked display, and others don't want to see it!

You see: the rose in the garden is so bright and beautiful, but if you want to pick it, there will be sharp thorns behind its flowers and leaves, which will hurt you deeply. Behind the autumn, there will be helpless sighs!

Life is always full of regrets. ...

Because of regret, we will yearn for more beautiful things and pursue some beautiful things in hope. Such an idea is also a kind of human nature. Happy people don't have much and care less. Happy people don't see a mountain as high as another mountain. They just silently cultivated their own "responsibility field of marriage life" and enjoyed the blooming of spring flowers in such a home; Lotus leaf field in summer; Affectionate romance in autumn; The warmth of winter ... in the four seasons of life, in my warm home, something called "happiness and satisfaction" is cultivated. On a beautiful morning, they greet the sunrise with a smile; At the busy noon, they arranged separately; In the warm dusk, they held hands and enjoyed the beautiful sunset.

Now he finally understands the simplest truth in this world: life is full of regrets, because regrets are beautiful. However, we should know how to be content and cherish; Know how to pay without expecting anything in return; Know how to be considerate and caring; Understanding tolerance ... is the eternal meaning of a happy marriage!

the ladder of success

A company is looking for a marketing manager. After the competition, Zhang, Wang and Li entered the final round of assessment presided over by the general manager of the company.

Surprisingly, the boss drove three young people to an orchard, pointed to three tall apple trees full of fruits, and said to the puzzled three people, "Look, each of you has a tree. Whoever picks the most fruits is the final candidate for the marketing manager of our company." After the boss finished, the three men went straight to the fruit tree and started the final round of contest. Zhang Jun, a tall man with long arms, stood under the tree, busy eating up and down, and picked a lot of fruits in a short while. Wang Jun didn't have Zhang Jungao, but he was vigorous, climbed trees like a monkey, drew his bow left and right, and gained a lot in the blink of an eye. Only Li Jun is short and fat. Although he was sweating profusely, his performance was obviously behind that of Zhang Hewang. "If only there were a ladder. By the way, there may be one in the guard room. " Li Jun used his quick wits and quickly ran to the guard room. He smiled and explained the situation to the doorkeeper sincerely. Just now, when the boss led three people in, only Li Junhe, the doorman, greeted him. The master obviously has a good impression on him. Without saying anything, he quickly moved a foldable aluminum ladder from the back of the house. Li Jun thanked his master and ran back to the orchard with a ladder. With the ladder, Li Jun became very comfortable and could pick up the fruit at will. At this point, Zhang and Wang met a difficult problem. Although Zhang Jun is very tall, he can't reach the tall fruit. Although Wang Jun is agile, he dare not climb to the twig to pick it. At this time, they also thought of borrowing a ladder. How can I find the shadow of the ladder after a big circle? When they came back panting, the boss solemnly announced, "The game has stopped and Li Jun has been hired as the marketing manager. Li Jun is taller than Zhang Jun and smarter than Wang Jun, but in the face of difficulties, he can quickly find a solution to the problem, persuade the doorman, borrow a ladder, turn disadvantages into advantages and open up the situation. This is the most valuable quality of a marketing manager. " At this moment, Zhang Hewang bowed his head in shame and loss.