A letter from parents of adult etiquette in Liuzhou Tieyi Middle School to their children.

When you are about to enter the 18 age and adult society, we will respond to the requirements of the school and write you a letter before May 18 as a gift from parents to their children at the adult ceremony.

Maybe you don't know, your father 1979 only got 29 points in the Chinese in the senior high school entrance examination, so you can imagine how many points your father got in his composition. (Not to mention your mother) Isn't it more difficult for us to express such complicated things in this activity than in heaven? It really embarrassed us! After reading it, please point out the wrong sentences and typos for us ...

Jing, this year's165438+1October 20th is your18th birthday! 18 years old, what a special age! It means that you bid farewell to your shy childhood and step into the ranks of adults; It means that you enjoy the rights conferred by the Constitution, and at the same time you have to fulfill the obligations stipulated by the Constitution. It means that you will truly appreciate the efforts and gains, success and failure, happiness and hardship on the road of life!

The growth process of you 18 years is also a process that we feel proud and gratified.

Because: Your children have grown up-

At school, you have been praised by teachers. Because you strictly abide by school discipline, study hard, unite your classmates and respect your teachers. Due to excellent performance. Almost every semester, I have proof of going home. (Especially in the quiz in 2007, I got a good score of 207.5, so I won the 650 yuan Award from the Student Growth Fund of Zijin Garden that year, and I also spoke on behalf of the winning students. )

In life, you have a strong independence when you are very young. Only four years old, dare to sleep alone. Unlike many children around us now, they are teenagers and dare to sleep with their parents. Since the first grade, you have walked more than 2 miles to school by yourself. Only the preschool class and Aunt Yu Mei go to school by bike. ) You can cook some simple meals in the fourth grade. These little things seem simple. But for many children, it is not easy. But impossible or impossible. This makes many neighbors' uncles and aunts amazed and envious.

In spare-time study, practicing brush calligraphy is also very rewarding. This is inseparable from your hard work, seriousness and persistence. Before the first volume of Grade Three to Grade Five, you can insist on writing several pieces of Mi Zige's calligraphy every day according to your father's requirements. Many things happen, and you finally have a hand that looks a bit like China's calligraphy (compared with many people). No wonder people come to our house. When they see the calligraphy hanging on the wall, they are full of praise. They say it must be terrible to go on like this. Later, because of the heavy learning task, I stopped writing. I hope I can find time to continue my internship in the university in the future. )

You, with the praise of teachers at school and uncles and aunts in your neighbors, how can you not let your parents feel gratified and proud?

There is really no reason not to let parents feel at ease and beautiful!

In these eighteen years, your study and life have been smooth sailing. But the road of life in the future may not be so smooth. After all, the future life path involves all aspects and is much more complicated. For the future road, we can't point out how to go, we can only give some of our experiences for reference:

1, learn to deal with people.

There is a pair of couplets written by myself. Last year, there were four students in my graduating class who got full marks in the sixth grade math midterm 100. Therefore, I bought them four books. To commemorate, I wrote on the second page of the book) the first part "Exam 100, only for the past history", the second part "Being a perfect person is the pursuit of the future" and the second part "Learning is endless". Colleagues all appreciate the good writing of this couplet. Can you see the meaning of this couplet? It is nothing more than emphasizing that dealing with others is the highest knowledge of life cultivation.

Eighteen means maturity and responsibility. When a person reaches the age of eighteen, he should not only learn to write the word "I", but also start to write "we". This "we" includes parents, teachers and classmates, including our imperfect country, a society full of vitality and hope. A person who only cares about himself is by no means a kind and upright person; A person who has no relatives, teachers and friends and no others in his eyes is by no means a person with a sense of responsibility and mission. And such people can't win the love and respect of others, can't get social recognition, and of course can't realize their own value. Whether a person is over 18 years old doesn't mean anything. Some people are naive and selfish children even when they are twenty-eight. Only when a person starts to think about others, care about others, and use his own ability to help care about others, can he be considered a real adult.

Jing, you are kind-hearted, caring, United and friendly. You have a certain foundation and experience in dealing with people. I believe that through continuous self-improvement, you will gain a higher level of self-cultivation and the quality of dealing with people.

2. Intentionally cultivate and be an independent person.

Marx said that man is the sum of social relations. In life, it is impossible not to have various relationships with others and society, and it is impossible not to be influenced by good and bad factors. While trying to maintain a good relationship with the outside world, we should always maintain an independent personality, and we should not be subservient to Nuo Nuo, flattery or drag out an ignoble existence. Be good at learning without losing yourself, be good at unity without giving up principles, and be a self-respecting, self-reliant, self-reliant, self-loving and self-respecting person. You may be surrounded by snobs and flatterers. This kind of person is often unsociable, and it is a feeling to flatter him with those rich and powerful people. You must pay attention to this aspect of cultivation.

3. Insist on being a hard worker.

You must have known this for a long time, but we still can't help but say a few more words: there is no one in the world who doesn't yearn for the success of career life, but not everyone has the perseverance and ability to work hard for success. Although success depends on many factors, persistent efforts are the most fundamental, effective and reliable. Heaven rewards diligence, and opportunities always favor those who are prepared. Hard work may not be rewarded, and no effort will be rewarded. In today's society where competition is so fierce, you can't do it without hard work, only for a while and five minutes of blood. After nearly half a century's life experience, I know that success is not an ultimate goal, but a gradual process, a process of doing everything right and well, and a dazzling "golden thread" connected by such trivial "points".

Your diligence and hard work in front of you are obvious to all teachers, classmates and parents. Otherwise, you did so well in the quiz and the senior high school entrance examination, which is already a grade higher than your parents' generation. I am convinced that as long as you continue to work hard, a victorious tomorrow will surely come!

4. Become a happy person

There are many attractive wealth in this world, but no wealth is as intoxicating as spiritual happiness. Perhaps you will say that in a commodity society, there is no spiritual happiness without material wealth, which certainly makes sense. However, many people lost themselves in the pursuit of material wealth, gave up their responsibilities, violated morality and alienated themselves into material slaves. Although they may eventually become rich, they are not necessarily really happy. And some people, although they don't have enviable material wealth, are full of energy and mental health, and they are also very happy. We hope that you will become a person with equal material and spiritual wealth, and be a happy person first.

On the other hand, we should also be optimistic about academic performance. I remember once you called back and said that you didn't do well in the exam, and you cried while talking. It is good that you attach importance to your study, have strong self-esteem and feel ashamed of your parents' failure in the exam, but you don't have to blame yourself too much. In this case, we should seriously reflect on it in the future, find out the problem, and then confidently tell our parents not to be too sad, otherwise their parents will not be at ease. Parents know very well now that you are very close to a line in every exam, which is already very good. You and I both know that how many children of our relatives, friends and colleagues can reach your level? Very little, very little. Everyone envies their parents for having such a clever, intelligent and sensible daughter. Whenever we hear these compliments, we feel so sweet and proud, and your mother smiles from ear to ear. You are our pride and happiness. You're amazing! You are sure to succeed!

We hope you will always be a happy person.

5. Develop a good habit of loving sports.

Health is the capital of revolution. A healthy body comes from exercise, and exercise is also beneficial to mental health. The ancient Greeks said: the spirit of health lies in a healthy body. Chairman Mao also said: Educate its spirit and savage its body. A person with exercise habit is usually a person with strong will and quality. And a strong-willed person can usually achieve something. Needless to say, you have shortcomings in this respect. You haven't formed the good habit of loving sports. Although the pace of your study and life is very tight now, there is almost no extra time, but you are tired of learning. It's ok to spare 20-30 minutes every day, such as running a few laps in the track and field or doing other sports before taking a shower. It is very beneficial to exercise, improve physical fitness, and also relieve fatigue and relax nervous nerves. Why not enjoy it? Why does your head teacher play ball every day to exercise? Maybe she has realized the joy and interest brought by sports. Dad, I feel sorry for you. I hope you can cultivate your interest in sports as soon as possible.

Don't forget, whether you are eighteen or eighty, in the eyes of your parents, you will always be a child. We hope your study, work and life will be smooth sailing. However, life is always unsatisfactory. When you encounter setbacks and setbacks, your parents' arms will always be open to you, and home will always be a warm harbor. With these, we believe that you can always face life happily and confidently and meet challenges positively and optimistically. I believe that you can become a person who is worthy of the sky, the ground, yourself, parents, teachers and society, and become a happy person.

Love your mom and dad: written in Longjiang primary school

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