Are you ready for work?

Are you ready for work?

Are you ready for work? In life, many people return to the workplace after giving birth, but it is not easy to balance family and work, so be prepared when entering the workplace. Let's share whether you are ready for work. Let's take a look. Are you ready for work? 1

As a modern woman, everyone hopes that career and family are not mutually exclusive. If you want to achieve success in your work, you should also take care of your family. You can imagine the pain. Even if a woman like Yang Lan is willing to challenge, when answering a reporter's question: "If you were given a choice between career and family, which one would you choose?", she said without hesitation: "If I have to make a choice, then I have to give up my career."

such an answer must be moved by men and envied by women.

So, faced with the same question, what should you and I answer? Are we brave enough to give up our career and become a "full-time wife"?

Think about doing housework at home during the day, taking care of children, brushing off the dust for men who are running around at night, serving hot meals and putting away the bath water ...

Isn't that a vassal of her husband and losing the dignity of an independent woman?

it shouldn't be a problem for a man to support a woman and a child, but I'm afraid it's difficult for you to be a full-time wife with relish. A full-time wife is easy to be, but it is not easy to enjoy herself. The unhappiness hidden in this kind of sacrifice and abandonment will grow with time, and then it will breed more unstable emotions.

Society judges women by the conflict between traditional and modern qualities. A "good woman" should be a woman whose career and family are equally perfect. The burden of women's multiple roles has been passed on to us from our mother. Fortunately, when we are mature and firm-minded, we have been in a civilized and broad pluralistic space, and we have gradually learned to grow naturally.

Let nature take its course. You become a full-time wife at home and have fun. That is another standard and realm.

Open the computer network, and you will see a brand-new world. Modern household equipment provides you with a SOHO (Small of Fice & Home Office) zone.

At home, you can not only get a career gain, but also enjoy life easily.

all these things, we are experiencing, or will soon be realized. The point is, are you ready?

Workplace tip: Draw a "network diagram" of interpersonal relationship, showing your diversity in this resource and the characteristics of deep interpersonal network. If you can keep the latest version of the interpersonal relationship diagram, it is not difficult to know how to take yourself as the protagonist and make good use of your interpersonal resources at this moment. Are you ready for work? 2

Adjust to the best working condition

Adjust the mentality to dispel "fear of going to work"

Psychologists have found that some office workers feel anxious and fearful when facing work after a long vacation, accompanied by symptoms such as headache, abdominal pain, poor appetite and general weakness. Young white-collar workers suffer from "phobia of going to work after holidays". Experts believe that "fear of going to work after holidays" is an emotional disorder. Although it has different manifestations, the fear of going to work is the same. There are many causes of post-holiday job phobia, such as separation anxiety, changing work units to adapt to the new environment, and difficulties in interpersonal communication, or failure, frustration or experience of being wronged and humiliated in work or other activities. According to medical experts, fear at this time is just an emotional disorder. Although it has different manifestations, it all has symptoms such as headache, abdominal pain or poor appetite and general weakness. Some people feel uncomfortable psychologically and physically, except for work pressure, but also because of the adjustment of personal self-mentality. Some people will have a rest, arrange the seven-day long vacation in an orderly way, visit relatives and friends, party and entertainment without delay, and have a good rest themselves, and they will be refreshed when they go to work. However, some people are very casual and never make any vacation plans. When they have a holiday, they completely disrupt their original biological clocks, drink and stay up late, and do whatever they want. When it's time to go to work, they simply can't lift their spirits. If people really have anxiety and fear, don't blindly deal with it, so as not to cause more fear. You can think about what you should do after work, make a work plan, and make your mind slowly return to normal track. In addition, if the symptoms of anxiety are very obvious, you should seek help from a psychologist.

Be careful when driving. Don't treat the road as a racing field

During the Spring Festival, many foreigners go back for the Spring Festival, and most citizens stay at home in the "sloppy year", and the road suddenly becomes much empty. Some car owners who visit relatives and friends during the Spring Festival naturally raise the speed, and some novice drivers even take this opportunity to practice their cars. Some friends are brave enough to regard the road as a racing track. After the long holiday, although the school hasn't started yet, the street has resumed its usual excitement. The habit of "racing" developed during the festival has not changed at work, and I am afraid it will cause a big mess. It is a very conspicuous thing that "one's own family" has become a "novice" to go to work, but we must put safety first. The vehicle is still in the running-in period and the road conditions are not very familiar. Drive as slowly and steadily as possible, and don't stumble for the sake of publicity. Also, God has always shed "sentimental tears" recently, and the road is slippery in rainy days, so the visibility is low, so special attention should be paid to driving safety. Drivers slow down to "save gas", cyclists and pedestrians obey the rules and "wait a few more seconds". Everyone goes to work happily and goes home safely.

Don't be greedy to keep "sub-health" away

Eating, drinking, and having fun are inevitable on holidays. When you think of a seven-day holiday, some people lack restraint. Every day, you can eat fish and eat meat, and mahjong is played all night. After a few days, indigestion and mental fatigue are written on your face. When you go to work, you can't enter the working state for a while, which affects your work efficiency. What's more, I went to work in the eighth grade and went crazy at the end of the seventh grade, which made my physical condition "worse". The Spring Festival holiday, which was supposed to be a "recuperation period" of the body, turned into a "sub-health period" in the end. It really shouldn't be. A new atmosphere in the new year, maintaining a healthy physical condition, will help to complete the work better. If you keep your physical condition well, keep it up, which is good for yourself and your work; If you are too tired and in poor health during the Spring Festival, you should pay attention to "rest and recuperation" from today. Try to eat a light meal, let the stomach full of fish rest, keep enough sleep, and resume the daily schedule at work. It's natural to be in good health and spirit. When you work, you feel labor-saving and have a strong sense of accomplishment.

Workplace Tips: I think it is very important to submit your resume and interview. Don't just submit it when you go up. You can watch what the recruiter asks other students, and try to figure out the recruiter's personality characteristics: what you like and don't like, and what to ask emphatically, because there are plenty of campus recruitment that can be decided directly, so you must submit your resume when you are ready.