Self-discipline in the circle of friends: the so-called success is just trying to let the opportunity meet you.

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Recently, the topic of "self-discipline in friends circle" has been hotly searched, which reminds me of my friend Zijun. She is a model of self-discipline in the circle of friends, and she never falls behind in the morning and evening;

At one o'clock in the morning, her circle of friends is: "Working overtime, I don't know what time it is tonight."

At six o'clock in the morning, she updated: "I finally finished reading Wan Weigang's Master."

There are always photos of the gym or "Starbucks is more suitable for overtime" on weekends to show her status.

She is so self-disciplined and hard-working, but after a few years, she has become a grass-roots clerk. Last time I got a raise, my boss saw that she had worked in the company for five years and won her a raise from 300 yuan.

Zijun complained to me: life is so unfair. I worked so hard, but I never got a chance!

Is there really no chance?

I have observed those people around me who seem to be working hard and really successful, and they are really different: truly successful people, their efforts are silent, opportunities will always be met, and their achievements are obvious to all; And those who show off their efforts, their efforts are obvious to all, the opportunity will never come, and the result is always silent.

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If you don't work hard, the result is under control.

The new media big coffee porridge Zuo Luo once shared one thing. When he was recruiting, a senior HR suggested: "But anyone who works overtime in a circle of friends, you should be careful. It is best not to. "

At first, porridge was quite strange: isn't it hard to work overtime? Not enough effort?

HR then told him about his colleagues who used to like to work overtime. Judging from the exposed circle of friends, they can be rated as model workers, but judging from their working ability, they are simply terrible. HR concluded: "The more ostentatious, the more lacking."

Adults know that there is no credit book in the workplace, only transcripts. Leaders recognize you because you can create value for the company, not because you work hard.

A few months ago, the company took on a big project, and time was tight. Two schemes must be given within 10 working days. The manager asked Dayong and Xiao Li to prepare separately.

Dayong accepted the task and started the posture of desperately saburo. He works late every day and has no time to eat rice. When he is hungry, he eats instant noodles. Friends circle sent: "Have you seen Hangzhou at one o'clock in the morning?" I often feel in the tea room: "I only slept for six hours last night, and I have to rely on coffee to continue my life."

Where is Xiao Li? He got off work on time as usual. The plan was handed in within five working days.

Dayong didn't hand in the plan until the eighth day. Just when we thought that the plan of brave and slow work would be valued, the manager's office roared: "Do you see what you wrote? The data is inaccurate and the information is not authoritative. Do you work hard? "

Time was tight, so the manager had to ask Xiao Li to do both plans at the same time. As a result, the company successfully won the project.

Afterwards, other overtime colleagues quietly revealed that Dayong worked overtime every day and spent most of his time brushing his mobile phone. When the phone rang, he picked it up and read it. Wechat information is going back. Hot spots in Weibo should not be missed. Tik Tok's friends have been updated again. ...

Every day after work, Xiao Li goes to the scene to investigate and get back the first-hand information.

Whether you work hard or not, the result will give the fairest answer.

The real effort is not to abuse yourself worse than anyone else, but to devote yourself wholeheartedly. If you really participate, how can you tell everyone?

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You just push a little harder. Everyone else did their best.

Efforts are also graded. It seems that "working hard" doesn't necessarily mean doing your best, it may just be a little hard.

Interestingly, people who "seem to work hard" and "work a little hard" always feel good about themselves, and even are moved by themselves. And those who do their best are often tireless and carefree.

A friend who took the postgraduate entrance examination went to the library to review for two hours at eight o'clock every night and said to me, "After reviewing many times, I saw the dark sky and empty streets and felt that I would succeed if I worked so hard."

At that time, I had a question mark in my mind, because she didn't know how those who really worked hard turned off their mobile phones and devoted themselves, how to learn to forget hunger, how to set goals and then break through one by one. ...

Sure enough, my friend fell out of Sun Shan again after the score came out. My friend cried, "Why did I try so hard and still fail?"

Because your efforts are only a little effort, others are trying their best.

20 19 the most popular online celebrity-lipstick brother Li Jiaqi.

How red is it?

In a word, a lipstick can be out of stock, and a live broadcast can bring 3.53 million goods. In two months, Tik Tok rose by 1, 400+ 1 10,000, and even defeated Ma Yun by 1 in Taobao Live.

Many people say, why is he so angry? He should be lucky, right? I'm trying. I'm also studying how to bring the goods. I often stay up late to work overtime. Why am I not red?

You only see the results, but you can't see the efforts made by others.

How hard does Li Jiaqi work?

He began to study the selection preparation at noon 12 every day, and broadcast live from 7 pm to early morning 1 point. After the live broadcast, he also had a meeting with the team to study the selling points and climbed into bed at 4 am. 365 days a year, he made 389 live broadcasts.

He had a high fever for 7 days, because he was afraid of losing powder, he still insisted on broadcasting live every day; He used to work around the clock for more than 40 hours; He once tried 189 lipsticks in a live broadcast, until the whole lip was seriously short of water, and the torn lip was as unconscious as anesthetic; He hasn't been out shopping once in half a year, and he has made an appointment with a friend.

Is there a gap between your so-called efforts and such efforts?

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When you keep working hard, opportunities will come to you.

Even if we try our best, some people can only persist for a day or two, while others can persist for five, ten or even twenty years. Ten or twenty years of hard work and dedication will be internalized into a kind of ability. A little enthusiasm, a little opportunity, can make a brilliant spark in generate.

Lei Jun, who said, "As long as you stand in the wind, pigs can fly", gave up the habit of taking a nap and studied hard since he went to college.

When I was a freshman, I got the first place in the whole grade, and the program I wrote was compiled into the textbook. In his sophomore year, he completed all college courses and won almost all scholarships.

After joining Jinshan, I worked 16 hours a day, seven days a week without rest, from programmer to CEO.

Later, when he learned mobile phones, he could take out eight or nine mobile phones from his bag at any time. In order to persuade a hardware engineer to join Xiaomi, he made more than 90 phone calls and talked for 10 hours.

Lei Jun can go today. Do you think he is really standing on the tuyere? He worked hard for decades and let Fengkou meet him.

Only by making continuous efforts can one meet opportunities. Because he is constantly growing, until he is seen by the opportunity and met by the opportunity.

Lang Lang, who got married not long ago, once again burst into a circle of friends because of a decent marriage. Some people say that Lang Lang was lucky and hit a good time. Only when he has a chance to play in Carnegie Hall can he become a "winner in life".

There are so many people who play the piano in the world?

Why is he the only one who has this chance?

Because he has been working hard for more than ten years. He began to practice the piano at the age of two, and the hardships were unimaginable to ordinary people.

When Lang Lang was two and a half years old, he was attracted by Tom Cat's "hungarian rhapsody 2" in the cartoon Tom and Jerry, so Lang Lang embarked on the road of piano.

Lang Lang hasn't slacked off a day since he was two years old. At the age of two, he was put in a chair to practice. His old father made him practice the piano almost all the time. If there is no piano outside, he will also practice fingering on the floor. Such high-intensity devil training has been going on for decades.

All natural successes are day-to-day efforts and years of persistence.

People who really want to succeed have no time to feel sorry for themselves.

He will be extremely self-disciplined and tireless;

He will have a clear goal and make progress step by step;

He will try his best to support himself constantly;

He will continue to work hard until the opportunity comes.

The so-called success is just an opportunity to meet your hard work.

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