Recruitment in Andhadhun

I think that being bullied, manipulated, looked down upon and excluded by newcomers in the workplace is telling them that the adult world is treacherous, slippery and cunning.

There are all kinds of people in this society, and they are used to meeting people who are lofty and low, especially when you are fledgling and fragile.

A student who graduated from class 15 often gives me feedback: I have worked very hard to do one thing, and I have paid 120% of my efforts, but I have not been recognized by the leaders. On the contrary, some bad guys were beaten by them, blocked and framed by them, and reprimanded and criticized by them. This is very sad.

He said that when you first entered the new department, you were not allowed to leave too early after working overtime. When you are free, you will find many things that suit you. Obviously, your attitude of helping is still very poor. If you don't do it quickly, you will be reprimanded. If you forced it, it's obviously not his fault. In the boss's office, he is always the one who steals the show.

What saddens him most is that in order to consult a senior privately, he has to pay for a dinner party respectfully, sit on a stool and wait on him like a grandfather, and love to take reason.

Take the small achievements in the project as an example. Colleagues will rush to treat guests, and after making achievements, small-scale and small-scale private letters will gather.

On another occasion, the company went out to travel at public expense. In order to save money, the company arranged for two employees to live in a room. Another colleague disliked him and discussed with the personnel department to secretly change the list. After he knew the gossip, he was silent, smoking a cigarette in the bathroom and fiddling with the faucet repeatedly.

He becomes sensitive and afraid, but when he wants to show it, he is often rejected. Enthusiasm, initiative, and sometimes caution.

He sent me a message saying that he also knew his limited ability and the helplessness of human feelings. The workplace is always full of too many probabilities and too many collisions. Even human feelings are unpredictable clouds. Serious tolerance is the only best thing he can do.

The weak can only accept compromise, tolerance and cruelty. If you are really good at bullying, you can continue to be bullied, and bullying you will not be dangerous.

02

A Dai was the first musician I made after work. 15, we organized a large-scale chorus at the end of the year and invited the tutor of Shanghai Conservatory of Music. The tutor's assistant is A Dai.

A Dai has been engaged in music creation since graduation. He is still a newcomer. When I first entered the circle, I felt that the faces in the circle were very friendly and I could talk to them. I thought I could speak, so I think I am very capable. But the people behind me only regard him as a spring onion.

A Dai's greatest wish is to make his own record. There is no money to pave the way, no resources to rely on, and no one is willing to help him, because he neither wants to recognize michel platini nor dopted mother.

I don't want to give up my major because of stubbornness. I have been working silently in the circle. I went to Qiu Lai in the spring and became a prospective uncle. With the meager human feelings of running errands, I have no face to ask for my first statement.

People are like this, and they can't restrain the joy of sharing after making achievements.

A Dai bought nearly 100 records at his own expense, lost half a year's salary, looked happy, and attached his signature to run errands for all his friends. On the one hand, it is for advice, on the other hand, it is for appreciation.

In fact, everyone is very busy and has no leisure time to listen to music. They greeted each other face to face, got the record behind them and threw it away with a straight face.

After a few years of mixing, the circle has squeezed into the younger generation, and the former newcomers have become elders.

These years are not easy. I have been debugging and proofreading for a long time, and I have also worked as a musician, recording engineer and Andhadhun. I gradually got in touch with the arranger and producer, and it took me a long time to become an assistant music director.

Those who had been alienated from him gradually began to pay attention to him. He made unremitting efforts to make those people more and more friendly, and they were willing to share their business cards with him. E-mails and mailboxes are full of their concern and greetings.

This may be the standard of biological evolution. Only when it is strong, it has the right to choose actively and the right to be respected.

03

I think everyone has days of fear, fear, helplessness, despair and panic, but some people just can't protect themselves, but they still try their best to bully others and indulge in them.

A few years ago, I was unemployed for a while and couldn't find a job. I shuttle through the job market every day, and I feel like selling meat at a low price if I want to work.

If you have no money, you can work in a restaurant and pack lunch. Sometimes I meet my former colleagues and bite the bullet and serve them. Their faces are full of disgust and groans, and they only hear: "It's embarrassing to have no money."

Reluctant to eat, wear or live. Instant noodles, rags, cheap rooms, nothing standard. In the most difficult time, I went to the vegetable market and bought 30 Jin of sweet potatoes and 20 Jin of potatoes. I made three in one day, one in the morning, one at noon and one at night. In the meantime, a friend came to see me and saw me mixed up like this. I left without saying anything.

I was still whispering when I came, and covered my nose when I left.

After a while, I passed the interview of a big company and found a job.

It didn't go well when I first entered. I have been an intern for three months, and my life is always filled with work.

Once the supervisor came back from a business trip in Shanghai, and there were more than a dozen people in the department. The supervisor prepared snacks such as Chenghuangmiao pear candy, Shanghai Gao Qiao muffin and Shanghai lobster slices for everyone. Everyone stood up from their posts, so did I. When it was my turn, he directly bypassed me.

Very direct, without any hesitation.

Everyone gathered around the supervisor, just like thanking the Lord for his grace. They saw my embarrassment and turned a blind eye.

At that time, I didn't care about a gift, I only cared about a minimum of equal treatment, that is, personality courtesy.

I am particularly unbalanced. Am I weak? I have no position, no qualifications, no rank, so I can make a fool of myself?

At first, I felt very angry. I thought people should be human and face to face. After clarifying this cruel logic, I found that my weakness can't do him any harm, so I don't have to worry about the embarrassment and unhappiness hanging on my face.

04

People in the world are bullies. The weaker you are, the stronger your opponent is, and the more you like to push your nose and face; The stronger you are, the harder it is for the other person to stay away.

Just like after that, I worked hard, two-thirds of the time was at work, and the remaining one-third of the time was either resting or sitting on the toilet thinking about the plan. There are nearly 20 days in a month to prepare materials.

Because of the effort, it is really rewarding.

Because I don't want to be weak, I'm really strong.

When I was able to compete with my supervisor, the balance of interpersonal relationships around me was also broken by my rise. In the past, they could yell at me at any time, and the information slammed on my desk. Now they are all respectful.

It is really low to the dust to bloom.

That graduate is doing well now. After applying for transfer, I went to work in a remote place, and my salary was not much higher, but I soon became the backbone. I was promoted to two levels in a year, and once came back to be a representative at a meeting. Those colleagues are all asking questions around him, and they are as enthusiastic as old friends.

So I understand that sentence: patiently do the present things, explore your own strengths, try more possibilities, and complete your brilliant breakthrough alone after repeated failures and setbacks.

The logic of efforts should be like this:

Never feel comfortable without hard work, but feel more comfortable with hard work.

Try to live with dignity and don't bring cowardice to any corner of the world. No matter where you are, those bad guys will bully you and abuse you in different ways.

I quite agree with what Mix said: Anyone who is played by this world should pretend to be cynical, be a good person and try to make himself stronger every day.

The unique self, so hard, is for the right to say "no" in the face of cruel reality one day.

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Text | Lei Lei

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