As a woman, do you think it is better to get married and have children before 30 or after 30?

At present, only women can have children and give birth to the next generation, because they have a special part-the uterus. Although there is no explicit stipulation that women must have children, most women will choose to have children, perhaps because maternal love is innate.

But now many women will also work hard in the workplace, and they will postpone their marriage and childbearing age for work. 30 is also a dividing line, but many women over 30 are not married, let alone have children. But for a woman, having a baby is also an important event in her life. Is it really sooner rather than later?

Since someone asked: As a woman, do you think it is better to get married and have children before 30 or after 30?

Then let's discuss it. Personally, I think there is definitely no fixed answer to this question, because everyone's situation is different, and only the one that suits you is the best choice. What's more, although 30 years old is also a watershed, in fact, getting married before or after 30 years old has its own advantages and disadvantages.

They are as follows:

? Good physical fitness and strong fertility before the age of 30.

The best childbearing age for women is between 23 and 30. During this period, the L fetus has the best quality and is easier to conceive. Even after pregnancy, because of being young, the secretion of hormone levels is relatively stable, and various diseases will be less, which is more conducive to the growth and development of the fetus in the uterus.

After 30 years old, especially after 35 years old, ovarian function has begun to decline. At this time, the quality of eggs will also decline. Moreover, pregnant women over the age of 35 will have a higher risk of various births than before the age of 30, and the probability of chromosomal abnormalities will increase with age.

If you look carefully, you will find that many women over 35 years old find it really difficult to get pregnant after opening their second child, and thus embark on a long road of seeking pregnancy.

? Before the age of 30, the body recovered quickly and the learning ability was strong.

Women before the age of 30 are healthy, and because they are young and have a fast metabolism, they are more likely to recover even if they are injured during childbirth.

Taking care of the baby is a long-term physical activity, and it is easier to eat when you are young. Even if you are tired, you can easily recover your strength as long as you have a proper rest.

When taking care of the baby, although I am also a novice mother, my young brain is also very fast and easy to learn.

Women are getting older and older, and the functions of all aspects of their bodies are naturally not as good as when they were young. They are more likely to feel tired during childbirth, childbirth and baby care, and they are not easy to recover.

For this, lazy mother really has a deep understanding. I was only in my twenties when I gave birth, and my morning sickness was particularly serious until I was born. Because she didn't know anything when she was confined, she often had low back pain at that time, but this situation disappeared after going to work. This is really because she is young.

She was in her thirties when she gave birth to her second child. I feel more tired than others during pregnancy, not to mention not sleeping in the second month. In addition, I also found low back pain, hand pain, hand numbness, heel pain and other situations. Shortly after I was born. It's really not an exaggeration. I often sleep until midnight, and my hands are so swollen that I can't make a fist, use chopsticks, and often shake my hands. Until now, Bauer is only four years old.

There are many treasure moms around me who are about the same age and say so. I believe that if I had given birth to Bauer a few years ago, none of this would have happened.

? Having children before the age of 30 is more likely to get help from the elderly.

If you have a baby in your twenties, your parents are usually in their early fifties. If you have retired, you can just help with the baby, and your physical strength is ok. Even if you don't retire, it means that you have a normal income, and it is estimated that you can give some financial help (of course, these are voluntary, but I believe you are generally willing to help).

If you have a child in your thirties, the old people on both sides will be older. Taking care of a baby is a physical activity. Don't expect the old man to help take care of the baby. Maybe they can take care of themselves. Of course, this possibility is not great. After all, the elderly may only be around 60.

? Having children before the age of 30 is easier to return to the workplace.

For a woman, if she has to take care of the baby by herself, it will take several years, at least three years, before giving birth to the baby. She won't want to work until the baby goes to kindergarten, and then the baby will have to pick up and drop off. Without the help of the elderly, it is almost impossible to find a job at the same time.

So, have a baby early. When the baby goes to kindergarten, you are still young. Even if you have fallen behind in your work, you still have some time to study and catch up.

If you are old when you give birth to a baby, you will find it really difficult to find a job when you come out to work again, because the recruitment notice may say that you are under 35 years old, and at this age, you can't sprint to work with a baby at home. Maybe you often have to take time off to take care of the elderly and children, so people will definitely not give priority.

If there is not enough financial support at home, it is really terrible to think about it.

? After the age of 30, the personality is more calm and more conducive to educating children.

But it is also good to have children after the age of 30, because many people will be impetuous before the age of 30, even in educating children.

After the age of 30 (including the prospective father), people have experienced more things. After precipitation, people are more mature, more able to control their emotions and have a broader vision. This improvement in quality is more conducive to educating children.

? After the age of 30, the material conditions are more abundant.

After the age of 30, women have worked for a certain period of time and the economy has accumulated to some extent. At this time, it is easier to get married and have children, at least in terms of material conditions.

Simply put, you can buy your baby any milk powder you want, which clothes do you want to buy for your baby first, diapers you want to wear for your baby, the month you want to live in, and the month center you want to live in. I don't have that much scruples in my heart.

Unlike when I was young, I didn't know anything, my economic ability was not so strong, and I naturally didn't speak so hard.

Speaking of which, lazy mom, as a woman, thinks it would be better to get married and have children before the age of 30 from her own point of view. Of course, there are many people who give birth at an advanced age, especially stars, but the specific choice is best decided according to personal circumstances, and others' may not be suitable for you.

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