Counselors are the guides of ideological education.

Counselors are the link between schools and students, and they are the people who educate students to be human beings. Everything a counselor says and does will affect students. I combine years of work practice, strengthen the positive guidance to students, and cultivate students to establish a correct outlook on life and values; Be a caring person for students; Pay attention to poor students; Attach importance to mental health education; Summarize the characteristics and work rules of students' management style, and explain how to do well the work of counselors. [Keywords:] Counselors Student Management Counselors are the backbone of students' ideological and political work. They are engaged in students' ideological education and behavior management. They are an important part of the teaching staff. They are the mentors of every college student's thought, study and life, and bear the great responsibility of helping students grow, become talents and succeed. In particular, the implementation of "Opinions of the Central Committee of the State Council on Further Strengthening and Improving Ideological and Political Education for College Students" puts forward new requirements for the role orientation of counselors, from a single political guide to a mentor who guides students' growth, and integrates the roles of educators, managers, servers, coordinators and researchers. Therefore, as a bridge between college and students, counselors play a key role in college students' lives. More than five years of student work experience has made me deeply realize that it is not easy to be a good counselor. It contains a lofty sense of mission, responsibility and selfless spirit, which makes me conscientious. In summing up experience again and again, I also gained a lot. Now I will talk about my experience in student management. For freshmen who have just entered the university, they are not mature physically and psychologically, and their ability of self-adjustment and self-adaptation is weak. In particular, the university is a brand-new environment, which is significantly different from the primary and secondary schools in the past. Great changes have taken place in the campus environment, classmates, residence, pace of life, learning requirements, interpersonal communication, social activities and so on. In this case, some students will change to varying degrees in different aspects. How can we do a good job in student management, make ourselves a good teacher and friend of students, and constantly guide students to mature in study and thinking? First, pay close attention to study and let students form the good habit of diligence and persistence. Learning is the main task of students and the main theme of college students' life. College students' learning is diverse. They should not only learn knowledge, but also master the formation process of scientific knowledge and research methods, and keep abreast of the development trends of their own professional disciplines. However, after entering the university, some students relax and do nothing all day in a relatively relaxed learning environment, lacking autonomy, initiative and enthusiasm, which leads to various bad habits such as slack study, lazy life, mental emptiness and depression, low self-demand and poor independent ability, which brings great resistance to the management of college students. Therefore, the cultivation of college students' study and living habits should start from enrollment. As a counselor, we should always check classes, make attendance records, hold regular class meetings, comment on the learning situation, conduct discipline education before the exam, summarize in time after the exam, urge students to pay attention to their studies, and educate them to cherish their college time. We should always put learning first and establish a good class spirit and style of study. At the same time, helping students to establish the beliefs of autonomous learning, diligent learning, comprehensive learning and lifelong learning will be their lifelong wealth. In addition, in view of the common problems in students' study, a research group was set up to break through one by one. For the problems in students' study, we should give timely guidance to help students solve related problems. For example, all majors in our school are both liberal arts and sciences, which makes some liberal arts students very laborious and even tired of learning when accepting scientific knowledge. On the one hand, it needs to coordinate with teachers to slow down the teaching speed and improve the teaching quality without affecting the teaching process; On the other hand, science knowledge study groups are established to help some liberal arts students. If a series of interference factors are excluded, academic performance will naturally improve. Second, it is one of the important working methods for counselors to give full play to the positive role of party member cadres, cultivate the cooperative consciousness of student cadres and highlight the "guiding" role in their work. Here refers to "guidance", "guidance" and "guidance", which is a harmonious working method, aiming at implementing the educational content more smoothly and allowing students to receive more education and learn more knowledge in a harmonious environment. Many counselors, as the secretary of the student grass-roots Party branch, shoulder the heavy responsibility of the development of party member University, and can fully mobilize party member's enthusiasm in student management. After sophomore year, many cadres are party member, so it is necessary to gradually form party member cadres to take the lead in class daily work, and form a three-level defense mechanism for party member, cadres and party activists. In the daily management of the class, they can take the lead, actively report the various situations of the class and maintain the normal teaching order of the school. Counselors can deal with the problems found in time and respond, so that all kinds of emergencies can be eliminated in the bud. For example, in the school's daily safety inspection and hidden danger investigation, party member cadres play an active role, which can actively publicize the knowledge of safety, fire prevention and theft prevention, and prevent party member dormitory from using high-power electrical appliances in violation of discipline. Gradually form an effective mechanism for party member to promote league members, party member to promote party activists, and party member to promote ordinary students to serve students. Counselors should constantly improve their working methods, cultivate collective consciousness, and effectively improve their comprehensive abilities such as communication ability, organization and coordination ability and positive coping ability through long-term careful guidance to cadres in party member. At the same time, it has achieved the effect of students' management and service, which is conducive to improving the self-reliance and self-management ability of party member cadres. Third, constantly sum up the characteristics and laws of student work and master the methods of student management. With the complicated social development situation, the characteristics of college students are increasingly lacking, especially the post-90 s students, who are active in thinking and outstanding in individuality. How to carry out student work better and more comprehensively has become a difficult point for counselors. As a counselor, we should not only manage students well, but also educate them well, and learn to make use of the characteristics of post-90 s students to do a good job in student work. 1, take the initiative to understand students. As a counselor, we should achieve "four haves". Love, carefulness, patience and responsibility. Instructors are required to actively communicate with students and establish various platforms and channels for communication with students. Give them long-term care, really go into their inner world, understand their ideological trends, and become real friends with them after work. Know yourself and yourself, and your work will be better. 2. Do a good job of "guiding". Including study guidance, life guidance, communication guidance, personality guidance, activity guidance and so on. Guide students to improve their ability of self-education and self-management. The key to self-education is to give full play to the exemplary leading role of student Party organizations, student party member and league members, and actively guide students to make progress and grow up healthily. Self-management is mainly embodied in advocating good study and living habits, enabling students to better manage their own behaviors and thoughts, strengthening students' recognition and support for school management, and changing passive acceptance of management into active participation in management. 3. Strictly manage the way of speaking. Counselors should not only care, help, encourage, spur, guide and guide students, so as to make the relationship between teachers and students harmonious, but also strictly demand and discipline students. Students who repeatedly make mistakes and refuse to repent should be managed and dealt with boldly in strict accordance with school rules and regulations. In addition, pay attention to the way of working. College students are mature adults and should not criticize in public like children. We should give them enough "face", criticize them privately and guide them positively. Pay more attention to problem students in life and reduce the rate of violation of discipline. 4. Change the concept of work. Change work concept, from management to guidance service. The core of student work is students. Therefore, to educate students well, we must respect, care, educate and guide every student, and meet the needs of every student's growth to the greatest extent. Always take students' happiness as pleasure, take students' troubles as worry, and achieve educational effect in service. 5. Pay attention to the special group (1) poor students. In recent years, due to the improvement of the national financial aid system, the financial aid for poor students is increasing. How to do a fair job of poor students requires our counselors to pay more attention to understanding whether poor students are really poor. We should pay attention to the study life of students with real family financial difficulties and understand their life and study situation. Do a good job in selecting, identifying, subsidizing and arranging work-study jobs for poor students, and help them establish a correct outlook on life, values and self-confidence and self-improvement. Concentrate all efforts to help students with difficulties, further do a good job in mutual assistance, give play to the spirit of mutual assistance and friendship among students, and promote and improve each other. (2) Children from single parents and divorced families. With the development of economy and social progress, the number of single-parent and divorced families has increased year by year. We should pay full attention to the children of single-parent and divorced families, understand their study and living conditions, guide them to treat life positively, establish the concept of self-reliance, establish a correct outlook on life and values, and cultivate their understanding and perception of society. 6. Mental health education for college students. Under the new situation of reform and opening up and market economy, social competition is becoming increasingly fierce. College students are faced with various pressures such as study, life and employment, but they often lack the ability to cope with them. Many college students have different degrees of psychological problems or psychological obstacles. Academic pressure, poor adaptability to the environment, emotional problems, employment pressure, internet addiction, disharmony in interpersonal relationships and students' own personality characteristics have become the causes of psychological problems of college students. Learn to analyze the psychological causes of beating students and formulate corresponding strategies to guide the healthy growth of college students. 7. Do a good job in student employment guidance. At present, the problem of college students' employment has become the focus of the whole society, and the difficulty of college students' employment has become an indisputable fact. As a counselor, we should care about students' employment and guide them to do a good job in situation education and college students' employment guidance. Strive to open up a new world for graduates' employment, hold special job fairs for college students on a regular basis, strive to create a good job-seeking environment for college students, provide more employment opportunities, and actively guide graduates to establish a correct job-seeking concept. At the same time, strengthen the ideological and political education of graduates, educate graduates on world outlook, outlook on life and values, guide graduates to aim at the employment direction, find out the employment coordinates, and make their career intentions match the social needs. In view of the situation that college students are prone to mental disorders and mental diseases, vocational guidance should be strengthened to help students face up to reality, find the right direction, and face career choice and employment calmly. Fourth, improve the quality of counselors. In college, counselors become the first teachers that students come into contact with. From the day when freshmen report for duty to the graduation ceremony when graduation certificates are issued, counselors are the people who have the most contact with students. Counselors are also the targets of many students' unannounced visits and unannounced visits. Their words and deeds will have a subtle influence on students, and even the mental outlook of counselors will affect the enthusiasm of students. Therefore, in order to adapt to the diverse and complex roles, counselors need to improve their comprehensive quality, professional ability and humanistic accomplishment in an all-round way, become "charming" counselors in students' minds, show "noble personality image including high moral character, high knowledge and strong ability" in front of students, and make this image play a subtle role. First of all, as a teacher, a counselor should have a good ethics. Counselors themselves should have excellent qualities, love their jobs, be willing to contribute, work hard, and influence students with their own words and deeds, instead of making repeated demands at will, which will not have a good effect of "behavior preaching". Secondly, counselors should have high political and ideological quality. Counselors should pay close attention to and fully understand international and domestic current affairs and politics, be good at grasping domestic and international hot spots and focus issues, guide the situation according to the situation, tell students profound truth in simple terms with real cases, and improve students' ability to distinguish contradictions of different nature and distinguish right from wrong. Only in this way can we guide and educate students with correct and firm thoughts. Thirdly, as college staff, counselors must constantly improve their professional ability. Including investigation and research ability, organization and management ability, coordination and communication ability, language expression ability, etc. Only with solid professional quality can we handle all kinds of complicated problems in student work with ease. Therefore, counselors should strive to improve their working ability according to the new situation.