How to be a self-respecting, confident, self-reliant young man

How to be a self-respecting, confident, self-reliant and self-reliant young man

As heaven moves forward, a gentleman strives to constantly strive for self-improvement. The terrain is kun, and a gentleman carries things with kindness. A gentleman is a man who is indomitable, not deterred by difficulties, and not afraid of power. A gentleman should be virtuous, tolerant of all things, resolute and determined, and striving for strength.

① Specific methods to build self-confidence

(1) Choose the seat in front to sit

Have you noticed that no matter in teaching or in various gatherings in the classroom? , how come the seats in the back row are filled first? Most people occupying the back seats hope that they will not be "too conspicuous". And the reason they are afraid of being noticed is because they lack confidence.

Sitting in the front builds confidence. Try it as a rule and sit as far forward as possible from now on. Of course, sitting in the front will be more conspicuous, but remember, everything about success is conspicuous.

(2) Practice looking at others squarely

A person’s eyes can reveal a lot of information about him. When someone doesn't look at you, you will intuitively ask yourself: "What are you trying to hide? What is he afraid of? Will he be bad for me?"

Not looking at others usually means: I feel inferior next to you; I feel inferior to you; I am afraid of you. Avoiding other people's eyes means: I feel guilty; I have done or thought of something that I don't want you to know; I am afraid that you will see through me as soon as I touch your eyes. This is all bad information.

Looking others in the face means telling you: I am honest and aboveboard. I believe what I tell you is true and I have no guilt.

(3) Increase your walking speed by 25%

When David Schwartz was a teenager, going to the center of town was great fun. After finishing all the errands and getting into the car, my mother would often say, "David, let's sit for a while and look at the people passing by."

My mother was a wonderful observer. She would say, "Look at that guy, what do you think is bothering him?" or "What do you think the lady over there is going to do?" or "Look at that guy, he seems a little lost."

It's really fun to watch people walking. It's much cheaper and more enlightening than going to the movies.

Many psychologists associate slouching and slow walking with unpleasant feelings about yourself, your work, and others. But psychologists also tell us that by changing posture and speed, we can change our mental state. If you observe carefully, you will find that the movements of the body are the result of the activities of the mind. Those who have been beaten down and ostracized often drag their feet and have no self-confidence at all.

Ordinary people walk like "ordinary people" and confess "I'm not very proud of myself."

Another type of person shows extraordinary confidence and walks faster than ordinary people, like running. Their pace tells the whole world: "I'm going to an important place, doing something important, and more importantly, I'm going to succeed in 15 minutes."

Use this "walk fast" 25%” technique, hold your head high and walk faster, and you will feel your confidence growing.

(4) Practice speaking in public

Napoleon Hill pointed out that there are many people with sharp ideas and high talents, but they are unable to use their strengths to participate in discussions. It’s not that they don’t want to participate, it’s just that they lack confidence.

People who are taciturn in meetings think: "My opinion may not be valuable. If I speak it out, others may feel stupid. It's better for me not to say anything. Besides, others may be better than others." I know better, and I don't want you to know that I am so ignorant." These people often make very vague promises to themselves: "I will speak up next time," but they know very well that they cannot fulfill this promise. Every time the taciturn man fails to speak, he is poisoned by a lack of confidence, and he loses it more and more. From a positive perspective, if you try to speak up, you will gain confidence and make it easier to speak up next time. Therefore, speak more. This is the "vitamin" of confidence.

No matter what kind of meeting you are attending, you must take the initiative to speak every time, whether it is a comment, a suggestion or a question, without exception. And, don’t speak last.

To be an icebreaker, be the first to break the silence. Don't worry about looking stupid, either. No. Because there will always be someone who agrees with you. So stop saying to yourself, "I doubt I'll dare speak up." Instead, focus on getting the meeting chair's attention so you have a chance to speak.

(5) Grinning.

Most people know that laughter can give them a very practical motivation, and it is a good medicine for lack of confidence. But there are still many people who don't believe this because they never try to smile when they are scared. Real laughter can not only cure one's own bad emotions, but also immediately resolve the hostility of others. If you smile sincerely at a person, he or she can no longer be angry with you. Napoleon Hill told a personal experience: "One day, my car was parked in front of a red light at an intersection. Suddenly there was a 'bang' sound. It turned out that the driver of the car behind had his foot slide off the brake. , his car hit the bumper behind my car. I saw him coming down from the rearview mirror, and I got out of the car, ready to give him a scolding. "But luckily, he came over to me before I could get angry. I laughed and said in the most sincere tone: 'Friend, I really didn't mean it. ’ His smile and sincere explanation melted me. I could only whisper: 'It doesn't matter, this happens all the time. ’ In the blink of an eye, my hostility turned into friendliness. ”

Grinning widely, you will feel that the good days are coming again. To smile, you have to smile “bigly”. Half-smiling without smiling is of no use. Only by showing your teeth and smiling can it be effective. We often hear: “Yeah, but when I’m scared or angry, I just don’t want to laugh. Of course, no one can laugh at this point. The trick is to force yourself to say, "I'm going to start laughing." "Then, laugh. You must control and use the ability to laugh.

(6) When you have stage fright, you might as well tell the truth and you can calm down

Vipassana is the study of psychology One of the main methods is the idea put forward by William Walter, the father of experimental psychology. This method is to observe your inner situation very calmly, and then reveal the observation results without any concealment. If you can imitate this method, If you express the psychological secrets that are changing all the time in words without any concealment, then there will be no room for trouble. For example, when you go to a strange place for the first time, you will inevitably be filled with doubts and fears. At this time, you might as well use this idea. The uneasy emotion was clearly expressed in words: "I was almost stunned, my heart was beating uneasily, my eyes were even black, the tip of my tongue was frozen, and my throat was so dry that I couldn't speak. "In this way, not only can the inner tension be driven away, but also the mood can be unexpectedly calm. Let's give another very practical example. There is a salesman ranked fifth in the United States. When he has not yet When he was familiar with this line of work, he once met the American car king alone. As a result, he was really timid. He couldn't help but say it honestly: "I'm ashamed. When I first saw you, I was so scared." I was so scared that I couldn't even speak. "As a result, this eliminates the sense of fear, thanks to the effect of confession.

(7) Using a positive tone can eliminate the feeling of inferiority

Some women face When she sees her own figure or skin color in the mirror, she can't help but feel a certain sense of happiness. On the contrary, some women are troubled by a sense of inferiority. : “My skin is a wheat color, almost comparable to black hair. "And she must be secretly happy in her heart. However, a woman who lacks self-confidence is in agony because of this: "What's wrong, my skin color is so dark. "The mood of the two people is completely different. Some women lose confidence when they see the mirror, and even break the mirror in anger. It can be seen that the standard of value judgment is very subjective and vague. As long as you think you are beautiful, you will look good. If you think it is beautiful, if you think it is annoying, it will not look pleasing to the eye. In particular, inferiority complex is often affected by language. Therefore, negative language is harmful to a person's mental health.

The author of "On the Nature of Things" is the great ancient Roman poet Lucretius. He advised people all over the world to praise dark-skinned women: "Your complexion is like a walnut. charming. "As long as you continue to praise the other person in this way, then the woman will not care even if she looks in the mirror again and again to do her makeup, or even if she knows that her skin is dark. In this way, she can concentrate on her makeup, and she will always feel that she is a charming woman .

Next, Lucretius advised us to change the word "skinny" to "lovely antelope" and "chattering" to "eloquent talent". Different languages ??can completely change the same facts and give people different psychological feelings.

In short, using positive or negative words can describe the same fact with completely different results. It can be seen that in the matter of wording, he is indeed a magician unmatched by any genius. In any case, as long as valuable wording or narrative methods are often used, the same fact can be completely changed, of course, the feeling of inferiority will be eliminated, and people can enjoy a pleasant life.

(8) Confidence cultivates self-confidence

If you are lacking in self-confidence and keep doing things that seem to be lacking in self-confidence, you will become less and less confident.

When you lack confidence, you should do something confident. When you lack confidence, instead of telling yourself that you have no confidence, tell yourself that you are very confident. In order to overcome a negative and negative attitude, we should try to adopt a positive and affirmative attitude. If you think you can't do it and ignore the things around you, the situation will gradually become what you think. There is a certain student group that advocates that college students select the most modern and beautiful college student every year and hold a competition. Here's what the staff there said. When they go to universities or on the streets and see beautiful people, they show them brochures and invite them to participate in this competition. From local to central level, various competitions are held again and again. However, everyone is becoming more and more beautiful, which is almost invisible. The staff there said: "Maybe I am becoming more and more confident!" This is absolutely correct. Because the positive attitude of "I want to participate in this competition" makes these people look so beautiful. This life-affirming attitude of "I'm in this game" generates confidence and makes these people appear more beautiful. There is a saying in Denmark: "Even if good luck comes, a fool knows how to invite it in." If you have a negative and negative attitude, even if good luck knocks on your door, you will not invite it in. When the opportunity comes, you should put aside your negative and negative attitude. Luck not only comes from the outside, but also from the heart. "Don't say mean words all day today." These things may seem easy, but they are not. But if you put your mind to it, you can do it. If you can express a smile in your voice, your life will become brighter day by day. Because if you have a friendly smile in your voice, people will want to talk to you and be energized by the human contact. When talking on the phone, if you speak in a smiling voice, the other party will feel comfortable listening to you, and you will also feel happy. Having a sad face or speaking coldly will not only make the other person uncomfortable, but will also make you unhappy. When you use words to conflict with the other party, you are using words to conflict with yourself. Your attitude towards the other party is also your attitude towards yourself. We should lay bricks one by one to pile up our positive and affirmative attitude towards life. Even if you can't like everyone, you should still try to like one more person. If you like someone, you will also like yourself, and then you will overcome unnecessary fear of others. Because, self-confidence breeds self-confidence. A small achievement will bring us confidence. If you immediately want to do great and extraordinary things, you will become less and less confident.

(9) Do what you can do

When you do what you can do, your personality will emerge. The important thing is that instead of trying to fix your image, find what you can do now. By knowing what you should do and then doing it, you can be liberated from your own image. In short, try to write down what you can do immediately, and then practice it. It does not have to be a great or extraordinary action, as long as it is something within your ability. Because we just want to reach the sky in one step, we can’t find anything to do. "Today's work is done today." The work that can be done easily today will become very heavy if left until the next day. If you think "How annoying!" and leave it until the next day, the work will become relatively heavier. If you put off what you can do today until the next day, those delayed tasks will increase your burden. I have never met anyone who said: "I will quit smoking from tomorrow!" and quit smoking. I have never met anyone who quit drinking by saying, “That’s it for tonight’s drinking!” The following is a short story from a photographer. Once, the photographer attended a party.

On the way to the reception, the photographer said: "I quit drinking" and asked him: "When did you start?" He replied: "I just decided to quit." He quit smoking and drinking. Most people will answer: "After this cocktail party" or "This cocktail party will be the last one." "Forever" is also accumulated hour by hour, because if you take away one hour, there will be no forever. Try making two cards, one that says "Go ahead!" and the other that says "Do it later." Keep these two cards with you and when you feel less confident, pull out one of them. At this time, the one that says "Go ahead!" should be drawn. We can first write "Be confident" on the back. Always pull out this card when you don't know whether to do something. Because today is related to the next day, if you don’t do what you can do today, it will become more difficult to do it tomorrow.

When running a marathon, because the body will tire, we cannot be more motivated every time we pass a telephone pole. However, as long as it is not entirely physical exertion, achieving goals one after another will give people more motivation. Therefore, the big goal should be divided into several small stages to achieve it. Every time a stage is reached, new motivation will be generated. This will then create the motivation needed to reach your ultimate goal. Thinking to myself: "It must be difficult!" People who fall into depression are succumbed to their goals from the beginning. Moreover, these people will set a goal that they cannot achieve, which shows that their hearts have been twisted. A healthy soul will yearn for what it can do. A person who is mentally immature will constantly adopt a very self-centered attitude. With this type of expression, once a self-centered person sets a goal, it must be the goal that immediately attracts everyone's attention. Then, because he is obsessed with that goal, he loses sight of what he should be doing here and now, and ends up going alone. , unconventional. People who like to be unconventional when they are young tend to live in depression when they get older. This is why. When you are young, you are unable to overcome your self-expression and self-centered personality. When you get older, it becomes depression. There is a saying: "As the wild geese fly, the turtle also stomps its feet." That is to say, people who "can't find what they want to do" don't do things like the turtle in this sentence? Suppose the turtle sees the wild geese flying across the sky and he Isn't it strange that the turtle also wants to fly? There should be things that turtles can do but geese cannot. Examples of self-esteem, self-confidence, self-reliance and self-improvement

Children should strive for self-improvement

During the Kangxi period, Liu Yinshu, the governor of Guizhou, told his old man to return to his hometown and wanted to use his life savings to build a bridge for his hometown. But his children objected to him: "You have been a high-ranking official all your life, but we have not received any glory. It is so easy to look forward to your return home, but you ignore us." Liu Yinshu was very sad. He felt that although he was innocent, he had neglected education for children. So, he spent all his savings and spent five years building the bridge and named it "Yuxiu Bridge". After the bridge was repaired, he said to his children: "The reason why I used all my savings to build the bridge is to tell you with facts that you can walk your own path and create your own life. It is better to rely on yourself than relying on heaven and earth." In order to To completely eliminate the children's dependence on their parents, he sold the bridge to the government for fifteen taels of silver.

What Liu Yinshu did deeply moved his children. His children would later become pillars of the country.

It should be said that Liu Yinshu's emphasis on cultivating children's self-improvement spirit is far-sighted, and he spends his life's savings to educate his children, which can be said to be a relationship of good intentions, self-esteem, self-confidence, self-reliance and self-improvement

Self-esteem is self-affirmation—feeling good about oneself and approving of oneself. In psychology, self-esteem can be an individual's subjective feeling of self-image, which can be excessive or unreasonable. Generally speaking, mentally healthy people have higher self-esteem, believe that they are a valuable person, feel that they are worthy of respect from others, and are more able to accept personal shortcomings. The elements that form a sense of self-esteem include a sense of security, a sense of belonging, a sense of accomplishment, etc. These factors are all related to the individual's external environment. The psychological quality of self-esteem is not innate, but is gradually cultivated in life, study and work.

To cultivate correct self-esteem, you need to do the following: first, find the fulcrum of personal self-esteem (the fulcrum refers to your outstanding advantages and strengths); second, have the right direction (to cultivate personal self-esteem, you should know how to elevate personal self-esteem to Collectively, the country has self-respect); in short, we must continue to inherit and carry forward the glorious tradition of the Chinese nation, consider the interests of the motherland in every word and deed, and in dealing with foreigners, we must respect ourselves, love ourselves, neither be humble nor arrogant, and under any circumstances , no one can damage the honor of the motherland and the dignity of the nation with their words and deeds. This is the national self-esteem that every Chinese should have

Expressions of self-esteem:

1. Self-esteem is A good psychological state, which first manifests itself as self-respect and self-love.

2. Self-esteem also includes the expectation of respect from others, the collective and society.

Confidence is Self-affirmation and belief from the heart.

Confidence is very important in both interpersonal communication and career.

As long as you believe in yourself, others will believe in you.

Self-improvement is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Self-improvement is a spirit, a belief, and a state of mind that supports the Chinese people to stand on their own among the nations of the world. It is the endless blood flowing in the veins of Chinese civilization and a treasure passed down from generation to generation by the Chinese people. After liberation, the Chinese people inherited the traditional virtue of continuous self-improvement and, encouraged by the Communist Party of China's call for "independence and self-reliance", achieved great success in socialist construction. Today, when we are developing a socialist market economy, we must also carry forward the virtue of self-improvement and adapt to the increasingly fierce competition.

The moral code of self-improvement is what Confucius repeatedly emphasized: "seeking for others." The so-called "constant self-improvement" and the so-called "seeking for others" mainly emphasize the following content:

First, self-improvement first requires independence, establishing the concept of relying on oneself rather than relying on others, and the slavish mentality of blindly relying on others. Make a complete break with the fluke mentality of relying on the gifts of others, and put the pursuit of personal interests and happiness on the basis of your own efforts. Fight for your own interests by yourself, do not ask others to do it for you, and do not ask for favors from others. This is because the interests obtained by others are not personal interests in the true sense. The dependence relationship formed by the domination of the world complex will eventually transform into a dependency relationship and form a new servitude relationship. Therefore, self-improvement standards not only require oneself, but also require others not to overstep their bounds. The autonomy required by self-improvement is to be responsible for oneself, to assume one's own responsibilities, and to control one's destiny in one's own hands. Of course, the autonomy we are talking about does not mean self-enclosure, but rather emphasizes that the main aspect of the contradiction lies with oneself, and the main responsibility lies with oneself. In striving for self-interest, friendship and assistance are secondary and auxiliary. At the same time, only by being self-reliant and self-reliant can we win friendship and assistance.

Second, the norm of self-improvement requires self-confidence, having confidence in yourself, fully understanding yourself, and believing in your own strength. Only confident people can be independent and have no illusions about others. People who are dependent on others are often those who lack self-confidence. Confidence is power, and power comes from confidence. People shrink because of losing confidence, and people become self-reliant because of having confidence. Self-confidence is not about arrogance or self-admiration. Self-confidence is based on a comprehensive understanding of oneself. Confidence is not about thinking that you can do anything, but trust in your courage, confidence and perseverance to overcome difficulties, and trust in yourself to do the best you can. The essence of self-confidence is a self-declared determination. Confidence is not distrust of others. On the contrary, only those who fully trust their comrades and their environment will have real self-confidence. A full awareness and understanding of the surrounding conditions and environment, and respect for friendship and support are the conditions for building self-confidence. Only those with self-confidence will maintain their sense of autonomy and develop their own potential. Self-improvement norms rely on the support of self-confidence, and self-confidence is an essential element of self-improvement norms.

Third, the norm of self-improvement must require self-encouragement, self-encouragement, self-encouragement, and self-motivation. In other words, you can stimulate your own enthusiasm, use yourself as your own source of motivation, start yourself, and start yourself. Whether it is independence or self-confidence, it must be based on action, a positive and enterprising attitude towards life, and a life full of hope and excitement. A promising philosophy of life, an optimistic attitude towards life, active pioneering actions, and a high-spirited and enterprising spirit are the true meaning of "continuous self-improvement".

Don’t be pessimistic, don’t be decadent, don’t give up on yourself, mobilize the activity energy contained in your entire life to create life.

Fourth, the norm of self-improvement requires self-blame. Self-blame means self-blame and the courage to take responsibility. In social life, there are successes and failures, gains and losses, honors and disgrace, good fortune and misfortune. The norm of self-improvement requires that successes and failures, gains and losses, honors and disgrace, luck and misfortune should be attributed to oneself, not to blame God or others, but to find the reasons from one's own aspects. External factors are the conditions for change, internal factors are the basis for change, and external factors work through internal factors. Although this principle is understood by everyone and has become common sense, when it comes to specific issues related to personal circumstances, especially when they encounter unsatisfactory and unsatisfactory situations, some people will blame their leaders, colleagues, and objective conditions, and put them Personal setbacks are attributed to objective circumstances, either from resentment to hatred, shifting anger to others, suspecting others of stealing axes, and creating suspicion; or from resentment to depression, giving up on oneself, breaking jars and falling, willing to fall without knowing it, Thereby destroying one's own future. Blaming others in the face of difficulties and setbacks is a sign of fear and cowardice of difficulties, doubt and distrust of one's own abilities, and a way of boosting others' ambitions and destroying one's own prestige. This kind of understanding and attribution will cause you to feel frustrated and shrink yourself. Those who are self-improving must be those who have the courage to blame themselves; only those who are brave enough to blame themselves can achieve self-improvement.

The norm of self-improvement is not just a norm of personal cultivation, it is usually used at three levels. First, a country and a nation must have the spirit of continuous self-improvement. Second, self-empowerment norms are used at the group level. Every unit must strive for self-improvement in order to remain invincible. Third, self-improvement norms should be used in personal morality, and self-improvement should be achieved throughout the journey of life.

To have backbone is self-respect, to feel that everything one does is capable and successful is self-confidence, to learn to take care of oneself is to be self-reliant, and to stand out through one's own efforts is Self-improvement. In fact, the meaning of these four words depends entirely on your own understanding. Materials related to self-esteem, self-confidence, self-reliance and self-improvement

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Where there is a will, things will eventually come true. Can swallow Wu. ——Pu Songling

Without wind and rain, it is impossible to grow into a big tree; without being tempered, it is difficult to become steel. ——Lei Feng

The glory of life lies not in never giving up, but in being able to rise again and again. ——Napoleon

My highest principle is: no matter what difficulties, never give in. ——Marie Curie

Difficulties are like springs. It depends on whether you are strong or not. If you are strong, it will be weak. If you are weak, it will be strong. ——Anonymous

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Self-improvement means not relying on others. Self-esteem means respecting yourself and not looking down on yourself. Confidence, believe in yourself, yourself. Self-reliance has the same meaning as self-improvement. Frustration is not necessary. Frustration is not something you can control or predict. People are in frustration all the time. How to do it? There is no other way, but to do more, experience more, and think independently, and slowly you will have the skills. You can't learn by pretending. Looking for a speech about self-esteem, self-confidence, self-reliance and self-improvement

Confidence leads to a successful future

"Youth Digest" published an article like this: A 15-year-old junior high school student spends every day He hangs around in school ignorantly, fights, smokes and skips school. He is a complete bad student. Even the teachers are a little afraid of him. He never feels that there is anything wrong with him. At the age of 15, it was the age when love first emerged. That year, he fell in love with a female classmate in the class. He wrote her a love letter. She looked at him with contempt and actually posted his love letter on the school bulletin board. inside.

Although his self-criticism was posted on the bulletin board no less than 20 times, this time, for some reason, he felt a stabbing pain; the next year he entered high school, and in the next three years of high school, he was like It seemed like he was a different person, he studied hard and was admitted to Hunan University.

At the age of 22, he graduated from college and successfully entered the *** organization. Living in the office with a cup of tea and a newspaper every day, he felt that his life was not bad. Once, when he went to the countryside to visit his relatives, his relatives and friends actually kept a wolf at home like a dog. He was surprised and asked why, and his relatives and friends told him that the wolf had been domesticated together with dogs since he was a child. They all look a bit like dogs, not to mention wolfish. He looked at the wolf and thought about himself, and suddenly felt a little frightened. Not long after, he resigned amidst the pity of others and went to Shenzhen.

After arriving in Shenzhen, like many others, he began his job search. His way of applying for a job is different from others. Others follow job postings in newspapers, but he doesn't. He specifically looks for jobs at famous foreign-funded companies, and he always finds ways to send self-recommendation letters to foreign managers. . This made all the foreign managers confused: "We don't need to recruit now!" He smiled and told them: "One day you will need to recruit. When that happens, then I will be the first person to apply. "Not to mention, he was actually hired by a company. That year, he was 24 years old.

At the age of 27, he was transferred to the U.S. headquarters in Denver because of his outstanding performance. On his first day at work, he invited his new American colleague *** to lunch according to Chinese custom. However, just when he was about to check out, his colleagues unreasonably insisted on paying their own bills. I felt very embarrassed at the time, but at the same time I understood something, so I worked harder.

This is the real experience of a person, his name is Wang Qishan, who is now the technical director of the world's fourth largest computer company located in Denver, USA, and is very highly regarded by the company. When he returned to his alma mater to give lectures, he talked about several short episodes in his life. He said that his experience at the age of 15 made me understand that if a person wants to be accepted and respected by others, he must first respect himself; at the age of 22, I began to understand that the reason why a wolf loses its wolf nature is because it has not learned to be independent. ; At the age of 24, I knew that if you want to succeed in job hunting, you must first be confident; and at the age of 27, on the first day of working in the United States, I understood why Americans implement the AA system: because everyone cannot expect others to end their lives. Well, if you want to succeed, you have to work hard on your own, and you can't count on others at all. This is called self-improvement.

My classmates, we are already 15 years old or about to be 15 years old. The stories I tell may be helpful to your growth. In fact, each of our lives is composed of such fragments, and self-esteem + self-confidence + self-reliance + self-improvement = success. This is the formula for success and the philosophy of life. Wang Qishan's experience is proof. I hope that the students can draw some nutrients from it and gain some insights from it, so that they can avoid detours in the course of life and move toward maturity, success, and success as soon as possible!

As long as the confidence is not broken

If someone asks me: What is the most indispensable quality for a person to gain a foothold in society? I would say without hesitation: confidence.

There was once a young man who loved sculpture and wanted to become a sculptor. However, just as a sculptor treats his own works, the conditions for recruiting apprentices are very harsh. For five years, every time the young man completed a piece of work, he would show it to the sculptor, but the sculptor would smash it into pieces mercilessly without even looking at it. Many people thought that the sculptor was unkind, but his wife did not think so. Instead, she said a meaningful sentence: "As long as the confidence is not broken." As a result, the young man finally got what he wanted, and he was better than his predecessor and surpassed him. Became his mentor.

Life in this world cannot always be peaceful and smooth sailing. We will always encounter unexpected difficulties of one kind or another, but we cannot be without confidence. As long as we cheer up, make up our minds, and overcome all difficulties, we will definitely have success. hope. Zhang Haidi is full of confidence in life, studies and lives happily with tenacious perseverance, and realizes the greatest value of life. She lived out her own beauty and her own excellence. She is a strong person in life.

One night more than 80 years ago, a fire ruthlessly destroyed Edison's research and development factory.

The next morning, the 67-year-old Edison stepped on the ruins of millions of people and said optimistically: "Now we can start again." Edison's heart burned with the eternal fire of confidence, and he struggled all his life on the journey of science. , he is a strong man in his career.

"Look at success or failure, life is heroic, just starting from scratch." This song is sung so well, it sings my heart. The moment I heard this song for the first time, my spirit was lifted, and my heart immediately resonated with the lyrics. I also had the experience of starting over from scratch several times in the first half of my life. Thinking about it now, it made me understand: "Once you fail, you should stand up without hesitation and start over again." This is confidence. Confidence is the "cradle" of winners and successes.

"The glory of life lies not in never failing, but in being able to rise again and again" (Napoleon's words). Especially in this increasingly competitive society, even if life ruthlessly breaks our struggles and efforts into pieces, as long as our confidence is not broken, as long as we can keep the fire of confidence in our hearts, we can ignite it again and again The passion and vitality of life, bravely fighting against the God of fate, risks and crises, let life shine with the brilliance of wisdom and strength.

As long as our confidence is not broken, this sentence should become our life motto. In this case, we will become an invincible person and can create miracles on earth.