Reading Fang and Yuan have feelings.

The book "Fang and Yuan" tells how a person can start from strengthening his own quality cultivation, start from quality and skills, and move towards success through flexible life skills. The following is a sample essay on Fang and Yuan's feelings after reading, which I compiled for you. I hope it will help you.

After reading (1) Fang and Yuan, I have a deeper understanding of people, society and life, and taught me to be a man. Only by grasping the balance point can we truly grasp our own life and move towards success. Good skills can make people comfortable in work and life. We deal with people every day, understand all aspects of human nature, and then treat them separately according to the actual situation. This is the basic way to master skills. Especially for us young people, newborn calves are not afraid of tigers and will inevitably hit a wall. Instead of passively grinding off the edges and corners in the big waves of society, it is better to know how to adjust yourself from the beginning and take fewer detours.

The content of Fang Yu Yuan involves quality accomplishment, temperament accomplishment, humanistic accomplishment, social ability, communicative ability, speaking ability and so on. The purpose is to help you have a happier life and a more successful career. There is a sentence in this book that I like very much, that is, Carl, a famous American educator? A sentence from Rogers: "No one can teach anyone anything". No one can teach you knowledge. To truly master knowledge and turn it into your own wealth, you can only rely on yourself. The role of teachers and books is only an external cause, and it is always you who change, that is, the internal cause. At first, it introduced three aspects of how to succeed:

One: stimulate the desire for success; If people want to succeed, they must have an unswerving spirit of struggle. The strength of this spirit really depends on the size of your desire for success, and you must inspire the fire of desire to an incandescent state. Now we don't have it, which is not sad. Sadly, we dare not aspire to have it. The greatest tragedy in life lies in the disappearance of dreams. Once a person has no dreams, it indicates that the romantic drama of his life is coming to an end. Everyone should have dreams. Without dreams, life will be exhausted. Therefore, we should have a desire for development to stimulate our own strength. "To be a man, you must be famous and never be a beggar in life."

Two: use your head, which is the motto of every successful person; The brain is a very complicated thing, and it is also the most wonderful auxiliary machine for success in the world. We all have it, but how should we use it? It is conformity that makes one's brain adapt to the thoughts of the general public and makes one's brain mediocre; Or try to innovate when absorbing knowledge, break mediocrity and be unique? It depends on your choice. Any one of us who wants to succeed in any sense must think with his brain. Only by using the sword of thinking can we get opportunities and succeed.

Third, action can lead to success; It is useless to talk and think without practical actions, no matter how useful, beneficial and innovative your ideas are.

Practice is the best teacher. If you want to gain knowledge of life, you must practice it yourself. Action is a severe test of whether you really have confidence and courage. Ideological shock and emotional excitement are only short-lived. What really matters is action.

Reading Fang and Yuan's Essay (2) I accidentally read Mr. Ding's Fang and Yuan, and I was deeply touched. This is a book that teaches people how to be a man and how to be a man. Based on Fiona Fang's way, this book expounds the life wisdom of Fiona Fang's blending, Fiona Fang's utilization and Fiona Fang's mutual change, so that readers can understand what is the way of being a man and what is the circle of life. This book was selected by readers as one of the most popular books since the reform and opening up, with a national circulation of more than 5 million copies. I was surprised when I first started reading this book. It has neither profound philosophical theories nor gorgeous chapters. What attracted so many readers for such an ordinary book? But with in-depth reading, my doubts were solved and I was deeply attracted. The author of this book teaches readers how to be a man by quoting some common daily examples around him. Through these reasons, people can forge ahead and be positive. The article is easy to understand and concise, and has won the favor of millions of readers.

Reading this book has benefited me a lot and taught me a lot of philosophy of life.

First of all, be "square" for people. Interpretation in the book, "Fang" is the righteousness and excellent quality of being a man. To be a man, we must first grasp the "square". We should constantly strengthen our own quality and self-cultivation, so as to combine self-confidence, courage, enthusiasm and integrity, and always maintain a positive attitude. Especially, as a cadre in charge of cadres, party member in party member needs to cultivate self-cultivation, take strengthening his moral cultivation as the ideological basis of being an official, take strong party spirit as the guarantee, establish a correct view of power, status and interests, and truly become a fair, decent and righteous person.

The second is to be round. The book explains that the circle is the smoothness of life, so make good use of skills. The book quotes a short story: Kuang Meiyun, a famous Hong Kong singer, took part in the Miss Hong Kong beauty pageant and won the third place. During the campaign, the reporter asked a tricky question, "Are you stupid?" This question is very difficult, but Kuang Meiyun's answer is thought-provoking.

Kuang Meiyun replied, "Have you noticed what people with top academic performance are doing after graduation? May be engineers, lawyers, doctors; And what do second-rate students do? Many of them have become the bosses of those engineers, lawyers and doctors. " From this story, we can see that students with top grades often pay attention to professional knowledge and ignore the skills of dealing with the world. Therefore, they only develop unilaterally in their studies and skills, while students with second-rate grades develop themselves in many aspects; Success depends to a great extent on the correct ways and means, which can be a booster of success, and vice versa. For example, in organizing work and doing mass work, we should go deep into the masses and observe the people's feelings. From the perspective of the masses, we should pay attention to giving full play to the role of cadres in party member, improve their ability and quality, and better serve the people. These all need to adopt targeted working methods and skills. In order to achieve better results, it is important to have a solid working ability as a youth league cadre, but if you don't pay attention to skills and take effective measures in your work, everything will be zero. Therefore, we should apply Fiona Fang in our work, first firmly base ourselves on "square", and then skillfully use "circle" to improve work efficiency.

Square and circle gave me confidence, courage and wisdom, and pointed out a road to success for me. In the future, I will face the work with a more positive attitude, face life with an open mind, face the society with a grateful mind, and meet new challenges with a brand-new mental outlook.

Square and circle (3) Square and circle, these words remind me of the copper coins of the Qing Dynasty, which are round outside and have a square hole in the middle. Really, it's strange, isn't it! Why is it round outside and not round inside? It's square inside, not square outside? After reading the book Square and Circle, I found the reason.

Copper coins inspired us to be a man: to be a man, we must be outside the circle and inside. Party is the righteousness of being a man and has excellent quality. Round means sophisticated, smooth and skillful. Just like people walking, you can't go straight ahead, you can try your best to bypass it. If a person is too square, just like pig iron, it is easy to break when it curls; But if a person is exquisite and smooth and always wants to take advantage of others, who will deal with him? Selfish people are naturally losers in life. To be a man, there must be a square in the circle and a circle in the square.

When I was a child, my father liked to watch movies, so I followed him. Some movies just tell people to be honest and kind. I think they are stupid. What kind of society is it now? The world is cold. If you are honest, you will naturally hit a wall everywhere! Being a man is to be honest and kind at heart, so being a man is the foundation of being a man.

People should be smooth, so that they can be closer to success, and they must master the methods of dealing with interpersonal relationships to have more development ability.

Being a man, like copper coins, can find a shortcut to success.

Fang and Yuan always like the golden mean. What is enough between Fiona Fang and how to define it is also a long-term study. It took a weekend to finish reading this book, which was concise and slightly absorbed, but it was also understandable. The square is the principle and the circle is flexible. The two complement each other and see how to apply them.

Some time ago, I was also very upset because of my work, and my colleagues were very wronged at work. I should have solved the problem for my colleagues, but I could do nothing because of the muddle of my superiors. On the one hand, I yearn for fairness and hope to be consistent with my own standards of behavior. On the other hand, I can only comfort my colleagues, and I can only learn to accept the right and wrong in my work after fighting for it. I don't know if I did it right. After reading this book, I feel a little relieved. As the saying goes, "Change yourself before you want to change the environment." It seems that it will be easier to change yourself than to change the present environment. Work is not always fair. Facing the pressure of all aspects of work, forbearance, progress and adaptation are inevitable processes. The solution to the problem is not necessarily theorizing with reason. There are many ways to achieve the goal, but the original intention has not changed.

In life, I am often described by others as a person who is too upright. I don't know when it started. That's not a good word. I often wonder why it sometimes seems inappropriate to stick to the obvious truth. After all, I still don't know how to get along with people in society. People get along with each other, focusing on human nature and changing methods. The truth is square, and in my heart, it is only the basis for my own flexibility, not the argument with others. I have also doubted whether I want to settle down in this society or go against my heart and be a "bad guy" because of other people's comments and my own loss. But after reading this book, I am more determined. My three views don't have to cater to or even change. We can seek common ground while reserving differences in life, and we don't have to envy or even deny ourselves for the short-term interests of others. Compared with getting material gains, being a recognized person and working hard step by step until the end of this life may be called perfection.

Square and circle are like the golden mean. There are too many combinations of the two.

The title of the book is taken from an ancient coin with an outer circle and an inner side, which reveals the truth that a person must be "outer circle and inner side". The book says that "square" is the foundation of being a man, and "circle" is the way to establish the world. If we can properly grasp the "square" and "circle" in people's quality cultivation, temperament cultivation, humanity, handling skills and communication ability, we can make our lives happier and our careers more successful. The so-called Fiona Fang cannot live without rules, which is the conclusion since ancient times.

"Fang" is indeed the foundation and spiritual backbone of being a man. Man's exterior is a reflection of his interior, and what is not in his heart cannot be revealed. If you have it inside, it will naturally show up outside. A person's mind is outstanding, and his behavior is outstanding; A person's heart is beautiful, and his temperament will be beautiful. People's temperament and ability are largely determined by people's internal qualities. Just like the army, a staff officer only needs to have a plan, but the decisive commander must have prestige, courage and excellent quality. For life, skills are only methods and means, but it is quality that determines the success or failure of life.

Maturity means tact, sophistication and skillful use of skills. Circle is the road to success and a powerful guarantee for success. Good life skills can make people comfortable in work and life. What does a person's success mainly depend on? To a large extent, it is because they are good at dealing with people, can speak effectively and can sell themselves. For example, a happy family is not necessarily a beautiful wife and a handsome husband, but a happy family lies in mutual respect and understanding and harmonious relationship. Dale Carnegie, a famous American interpersonal expert, once said: Only 15% of a person's success depends on professional skills, while 85% depends on soft science skills such as interpersonal communication and effective speech.

Through reading, let me know more about human nature, society and life, and teach me how to be a man. As the old saying goes, being a man should be "outside the circle and inside the circle", that is, inside the circle; There are sharp edges and corners, and there are skills to deal with the world. Only by grasping the balance point can we truly grasp our own life and move towards success. If you want to succeed, you must have confidence, courage and enthusiasm.

Don't you think so? Many problems and difficulties in life actually stem from your lack of self-confidence. Once you gain self-confidence, many problems will be solved. Self-confidence can keep you at your best and help stimulate your potential. Self-confidence will bring you vitality, glow, make you talk freely, and produce a charm that unconsciously infects people; And losing self-confidence will make you look petty and unable to play your own level. As the book says, deliberately changing yourself to master a certain skill will never succeed, and excellent quality is the decisive factor for success in life.

A person's inner cultivation and personality are the most important. Properly improve some skills in dealing with people and life, and constantly learn and adjust in work and communication, and you will benefit a lot from these changes. I want to remind myself that if you smile more in front of the mirror every day, you will see a confident, happy, energetic and successful self.

After reading Fang and Yuan, I came across a book on the shelf with the cover of an eagle spreading its wings. Open the cover and see a sentence: "I would like to dedicate this book to those who have a strong desire for life and are ready to fight for it." Curiosity keeps me turning over. After reading this book, I understand a lot of truth.

"Square and circle" is the inside of the outer circle. Party, is to be honest, to have excellent quality. Round means sophisticated. Have skills and make good use of them. "Square" is the foundation of life, and "circle" is the way of life, but if a person is too square, like pig iron, it is easy to break when he is depressed; If a person is tactful, he always wants to let others suffer and take advantage of himself. Over time, who wants to deal with such people? Therefore, to be a man, we must have an outer circle inside and an outer circle inside.

Marx said: "man is not a thing, he is a living body in the process of continuous development." At every moment of his life, he is changing, but he will always be. " Yes, success is everyone's dream In the ever-changing world stage, countless outstanding people have emerged. They are just ordinary people like you and me. So, what factors determine that they can achieve extraordinary achievements?

Knowledge, everyone thought that knowledge was the most important in the early days, and our education also emphasized learning knowledge. Therefore, since the 1980s, we have emphasized the cultivation of ability, believing that ability is the key to success. But the acquisition of a person's ability depends on the tempering of practice and the accumulation of experience. The more tortuous a person's life experience, the richer his experience and the stronger his ability. There is a saying in the west: "knowledge is not as good as ability, and ability is not as good as quality." The factor of a person's success is whether he has excellent qualities.

First of all, you need confidence. If you think you are a valuable person, you will become a valuable person and do valuable things. Throughout the ages, every great man has always been guided by strong self-confidence in his life and career. Napoleon once declared: "In my dictionary, unparalleled wisdom and great ability made me a famous star who swept Europe." When applying for a job, how can you expect others to trust you if you don't have confidence in yourself in front of recruiters and keep your head down? This is "inside".

Second, be friendly to people. The most popular person in the world must be virtuous and kind. Do you have this experience? There is a kind of person in this society, as if everyone is his enemy. He is always cruel to others, or he never treats others as human beings. No matter how capable such people are, they will eventually be spurned by others. Lincoln said, "A drop of honey can catch more flies than a gallon of bile." The same is true of people's hearts. If you want to win the favor of others, you should be kind to him and win his heart with honey juice. This is the "excircle".

Finally, we should be a great discoverer. Just like Ganoderma lucidum grows in a remote corner of a mountain, the treasure is buried three feet underground, and beautiful things often exist in inconspicuous places. A truly beautiful discoverer must see the true meaning in nuances and be good at discovering the extraordinary of others in the ordinary. However, praise should not follow others. For example, Einstein said that he was tired of hearing such words as a great scientist, but if someone praised him for playing the violin well, he would be in high spirits and feel good. When discovering the beauty of others, don't forget to discover your own beauty!

Pick up a book, it is easy to walk into another world; Appreciating the little-known theory of parallel space-time can lead to intriguing implications. Far from saying that squares and circles can inspire me to think about life. But he changed my mind and will be my future lifestyle.

After reading Fang and Yuan, I think Fang and Yuan is a very good book. His example is close to life and reality, which is thought-provoking. He analyzed people's psychological activities in simple terms. I think this is a good book for young people to read.

This book introduces the truth of being a man with the coin copper coin-"inside and outside circle" used by China in Qing Dynasty. The party is to be upright and have good quality. Round is sleek and sophisticated, using human nature and making good use of skills. This book illustrates the importance of being a person, whether square or round. Aren't these good reasons? Just like: many problems in life can't be solved by simple and direct methods and ideas, so we will try to solve them with new ideas. However, a person should not be too old-fashioned, let alone tactful, and always want to take advantage of others. If so, over time, who will associate with themselves? The reason why the square and the circle are written by teacher Ding reveals the truth of being a man: there is a circle outside the square, there is a square inside the circle, and the outer circle is inside.

"Fang" is indeed the foundation of being a man and the spiritual backbone of being practical and serious, so people should have "Fang" in their hearts. We should strengthen our quality internally and establish our image externally; What you don't have in your heart can't be revealed on the outside; A person's mind is outstanding, and his mind can be outstanding; A person's mind is beautiful, and his temperament will be beautiful; A person's ability to act depends largely on his heart. Being a man is like leading troops to war. There is no good equipment and no commander with prestige and strategic vision. Then the result is defeat without a fight. For being a man, skills are only methods and means, but it is the inherent quality of methods that determines a person's success or failure.

"Circle" is the way to be born. When a person comes into this world, it is unreliable and can exist in isolation. He wants to get along with things around him, and may have necessary and unnecessary contact with people. We should have strategies in these exchanges and contacts. For example, Premier Zhou Enlai, a famous politician and diplomat in China, was once asked by the then President of the United States a question that we thought was difficult to answer and demeaned the people of China: "Why do Americans walk with hands in the air holding out his chest, while China people always walk with their heads down?" At that time, Premier Zhou replied, "Because the American people are going downhill and the people of China are going uphill". This is a powerful answer to the question of the president of the United States. This answer reflects the fluency of Premier Zhou's speech, and also reflects Premier Zhou's quality and temperament. Let the president of the United States get the result he doesn't deserve. This is the role of speaking skills. This is the "circle".

What does a person's success mainly depend on? To a great extent, he is good at living, can speak effectively and deal with the relationship between good people. Just like: "A rich family is not necessarily happy, and a family without the top 2 is not necessarily unhappy". A person is not afraid of having no money, and he is afraid that he will lose money without the "square and circle" of being a man, but he cannot lose the courage to be a man. We must not lose the "square and circle" of birth.

I think reading "Square and Circle" can help people better understand human nature, establish an optimistic attitude towards life and healthy psychology, and make the relationship between people better and more harmonious.