Xuzhou Jingba recruitment

First of all, it is very painful for husband and wife to live in two cities. You may think it doesn't matter if you're not married, but getting married is two different things. If you choose to go to Wuxi and your boyfriend stays in Shanghai, this is the most inappropriate arrangement. You know, although it's only a two-hour drive, he can't go back and forth every day. Once you have children and settle in Wuxi, the burden of taking care of your family and children will fall on you. Children often don't see their fathers, which is not good for their growth. Such a family is very incomplete. So this is the worst policy.

Of course, if your boyfriend feels unhappy at his present job and is going back to Wuxi, that's another matter.

Second, your boyfriend is in Shanghai now, so he should have a certain foundation. Isn't it a little loss to let him give up everything and go back to Wuxi? Shanghai and Wuxi are not in the same class. Before you decide your destination, why not try Shanghai? Once he can settle down in Shanghai, his starting point will be much higher when he studies and lives in Shanghai in the future.

Third, I also think that buying a house is very realistic, and we must make some plans, but we don't have to put it first. Compared with the city where we live and work, this is really nothing. You can rent a house in mortgage to buy a house if you can't afford it. Choose a city to live in according to the price, why not live in your old hometown? No matter how low the housing price in Wuxi is, it won't make you give up your dream of a metropolis, will it? Also, acquaintances seldom get together several times a year, and everyone cares about their own affairs. Also in Shanghai, you will meet new colleagues and make new friends.

My suggestion is that you finally choose to go to Shanghai and Wuxi.