"Blind dates are a must during the Spring Festival." This year, young people without a car or a house have become a "hot commodity". Why?

Now during the Spring Festival, every household is busy, and people working outside have already returned home. During this time, they are probably preparing New Year's goods and cooking unique delicacies from their hometown.

Maybe some families are prosperous, and almost all members are busy posting Spring Festival couplets, hanging lanterns, etc.

The editor has been very busy at home in the past two days. I burn firewood and wash pots at home, and basically do all the dirty work. After all, this is the real rural life. I actually like it. Such a simple and unpretentious life.

I have only been living at home for four or five days, and I have seen many relatives. Of course, I will visit occasionally. After all, some old friends and elders have not been seen for a long time.

"Every Spring Festival must go on a blind date", the blind date mode has already started

In this time period when relatives and friends meet, of course young people have the opportunity to go on a blind date, and many families also Busy looking for matchmakers, of course some young people will "rent girlfriends" back home.

Many young people are forced to get married by their parents. After all, they are not young, and their parents are eager to have grandchildren. Moreover, it is difficult to get married now, and blind dates are not a new topic.

The matchmakers are also very busy during this time. Many young people who can be matched have high requirements. Some of them are attracted to them, while others find that they are not compatible with each other after getting along for a while.

In people's minds, the most common idea is the saying "a good match". Many such practices appeared in ancient times, and this idea has been passed down to this day.

A new phenomenon in rural areas: People without a car or a house are favored. Why?

Whether you are visiting relatives or going on a blind date, you will always be asked, "How much is your salary?" "How much savings do you have?" "Do you have a car? When will you buy a house?"

Presumably Everyone is familiar with these "choking quotes". After all, these so-called greetings are what relatives and blind dates care about most.

But now a new phenomenon has emerged, that is, some people do not recommend that the other party does not have a car or a house, and even this kind of people are more popular. What is the situation?

The concept of "well-matched" is still applicable in today's era. Many women's families do not have cars or houses, and they will not be too harsh on men to an appropriate extent. During the blind date, you will basically first pay attention to the man's words, deeds, and conversational skills. No matter how you talk about cars, houses, or money, it will hurt your feelings. An excellent personality is more important than a car or a house. Moreover, if the man is very motivated and has potential, then he can feel free to hand over his daughter to him. During the blind date, the girl's parents will also consider the young man's thoughts and first determine whether the other person has the image of a "good man" before considering issues such as cars, houses, and savings. Nowadays, housing prices are also high, and the woman’s family also understands that even if they don’t have a car or a house, the two parties will discuss the matter of the wedding house after they have been in contact for a while. At this time, the two parties can raise some money to make up the down payment. Therefore, many people on blind dates will not match up because of the issue of cars and houses. Character and potential seem to be the most valuable things for modern young people.

If the man is indeed rich, has several cars, and has several houses, the man may also ask the woman to be similar to him, while parents in the south will think that the woman is trying to reach a higher level, and may even look down upon her. woman.

What other opinions do you have on blind dates?