When is the loneliest moment?

Two years ago, I drifted to Beipiao, returned to the rental house from the company, and passed the 1 overpass.

Once I worked overtime until after midnight, when I passed the overpass on my way home, I looked at the nearby residential buildings and the distant office buildings, and there were still many lights on.

I stood on the overpass outside the East Fourth Ring Road and looked at these warm lights. Suddenly I found that none of them were for me.

Probably the loneliest moment I've had in years.

Everyone has a different experience of loneliness. In just a few decades of life, there will be many opportunities, and it is actually quite difficult to choose "most".

Regarding loneliness, I'm afraid there is no so-called "most", only one "this moment" after another.

But in any case, after experiencing loneliness and bitterness, we are all worth pursuing, meeting well and going all out.

People will be lonely in many times, especially in the following aspects.

Once your parents are ill in hospital, no one can help you, you can only take care of yourself. You will feel tired and lonely.

Second, when you are alone in a foreign land and don't know anyone, the feeling of homesickness will make you feel particularly lonely.

Third, entering a new work unit, I am not familiar with my colleagues around me. They are talking and laughing, and you feel isolated and particularly lonely.

Fourth, when you are lovelorn, when the person you love very much leaves, the kind of breaking habits, heartbreaking pain and worrying thoughts will make you feel particularly lonely.

Fifth, there is no one at home, you are alone at home. The warm family atmosphere is gone, and then you will feel lonely at home.

In fact, there are many views and definitions of loneliness. To put it bluntly, when you have no ideal, no motivation for life and no passion for love, when you are cheated, betrayed and abandoned by your relatives, you will feel lonely. Finally, I want to remind you that no matter what causes loneliness, we should face it bravely, make ourselves stronger and cheer up, and believe that tomorrow will be better!

Loneliness is an emotion of human beings, which exists in people's most primitive needs. In the well-known biblical story, God created the first man in the Garden of Eden. He is a man named Adam. After a while, God felt something was missing, so he took a rib from Adam and made another man, Eve. They started a happy life in the Garden of Eden. It is driven by this emotion that two people appear at the beginning of this world.

In the data of modern scientific research, the importance of loneliness to biology is supported by favorable evidence: scientists have found that loneliness has a great influence on biological health. Compared with the same kind living in the population, those isolated mice living alone are more likely to suffer from various malignant diseases. The primary reason for this result is that mental stress cannot be alleviated. Isolated mice produce a stress hormone, which may directly promote the growth of tumor cells.

The feeling of loneliness is the same among human beings, but under the trend of fine social division of labor, the loneliness of different occupations has different intensity.

List a few moments when I think people will feel loneliest:

1, one is walking on the playground. I can always see people walking in front and behind together, talking and laughing, but I do wear headphones to listen to those sad songs and walk forward with my head down.

2. When a person is looking for a job outside. Running around with a resume, going to various companies to ask recruiters questions, at a loss.

After working overtime, I am on my way home alone. Under the double pressure of body and mind, people will feel more lonely and at a loss.

4. When various festivals see the show love of friends circle. All the good friends around me have left the other half, and they are still alone. I can't play like this, cry bitterly, or bother myself. The loneliness at this time is the strongest above!

Loneliness is wanting to say good night to the moon, but I can't see the moon.

Loneliness is that you want the stars to accompany you at night, but the sky is dark.

Loneliness is when you want to talk to someone, but no one is around.

A person doesn't like talking to others, and he is used to being alone.

Others will say that this person is difficult to get along with, but no one will ask what this person has experienced, why it has become like this, and what made him become like this.

Maybe they went through a lot and understood a lot of truth before they became silent.

Lonely people always hide their troubles in their hearts and don't tell others.

Slowly, there are more and more things and troubles in my heart, and I look worried every day.

This kind of person is the most distressing. A person is burdened with many things and is not good at expressing himself.

But such people are reliable and serious.

I hope you have the moon and stars to accompany you; I hope you have a friend to talk to; I hope you have no troubles in your life.

Finally, I hope there are no more lonely people in this world!

When people are most lonely:

1 A stranger who is alone in a foreign land misses his family more often during the festive season. Homesickness is generally lonely.

Family members are in the hospital or have an incurable disease. I am the loneliest when my heart aches.

3 lovelorn. When one party is still attached to the other, it is the loneliest. People who are lovesick are also lonely.

Frustrated work, disharmony in family life, being wronged, etc ... will make people feel lonely.

When is the loneliest moment?

1.In the mid-1970s, I responded to the call of the government and went to the countryside. In the village, I live alone in a bamboo forest behind the village, which is a thatched house. Once I went back to the village from home, I was still at home in the morning, accompanied by my family, playing with my neighbors, and took a bus back to the village at noon. It was not until dark in the afternoon that I returned to the thatched cottage behind the village. There is no electricity, facing the dark house, facing the cold pot and cold stove, facing the rustling of bamboo forests in the dark, I feel very lonely at this time. It's a kind of fear and loneliness. I was 17 years old that year.

2. 1992, my brother who grew up with me suddenly fell ill and died. My brother and I played together since childhood, went up the mountain to cut firewood together, and spent our time without food and clothing together. We finally grew up. Facing the sudden death of my brother, I felt very lonely and lost my loved ones. It was a sad loneliness.

Loneliness is an experience of life, an exercise for people and the necessity of growth.

Seeing this question, I remembered something that happened to my grandmother recently.

Not only my grandmother, but every time I think about it these days, I feel helpless and lonely.

One recent morning, my family went to work. My grandfather's sudden brain benefiting blood made him unable to move. My grandmother is an authentic rural farmer with poor eyes and can't use a mobile phone. I heard that she was looking for someone with a mobile phone and wanted to call us. None of the neighbors were at home then. Fortunately, my wife went back that day because of something temporary. She saw grandma standing at the door with a mobile phone, which gave people a feeling of helplessness. Although I was ill for almost an hour, I was fortunately sent to the hospital in time and my condition did not deteriorate.

I can feel her inner helplessness at the thought of grandma holding a mobile phone for help.

This will be the loneliest moment in my grandmother's life.

Psychologically speaking, loneliness is a feeling and experience of being isolated and alienated by others or society subjectively, rather than an objective state.

In fact, many people are sometimes lonely, but such loneliness may be long-term, short-term, or just a moment.

I hope people can grow up by themselves when they experience loneliness. When loneliness comes again, you can handle this feeling so that you won't be hurt!

When is the loneliest moment?

Chen Ziang's loneliest time should be when he said, "I miss heaven and earth, and there is no limit, and I am lonely, and tears fall down"; Du Fu's loneliest time should be when his political ideal of "loyalty to the monarch and incorruptibility" failed, and when his actions were not recognized and understood by the current emperor. Cao Xueqin's loneliest time should be when he realized that the "sentient world" he created could never be realized, because it was a world incompatible with the social relations and social order at that time; Tolstoy's loneliest time should be when he is tired of the life of rich aristocrats and determined to break with his own society, but he can't get people's support and understanding. ...

Yes, when a person is most lonely, it may be when everything around him has nothing to do with you, when people around him don't understand you and don't support you, or it may be the kind of loneliness that transcends self and id and reaches superego.

Lin Yutang once said: "Take the word loneliness apart, there are children, melons, puppies and mosquitoes, which are enough to prop up an alley in the midsummer evening and are full of human feelings. Young children hold melons and willows under the shed, and fine dogs chase butterflies in narrow lanes. The world is bustling and full of laughter, but there is a breeze on my temples. Children's fruits, cats, dogs and flies are certainly lively, but it has nothing to do with you. This is called loneliness. I think this is the loneliest time for a person!

When a person loses the direction of progress, it is his loneliest moment, because at this time, people's psychology will appear empty.

People are lonely not because they can't find like-minded people, but because they don't know what they want. Sometimes, the carnival of others is a lonely cry in your eyes.

Why in Robinson Crusoe, he is not lonely living on an isolated island, because it is his own pursuit.

Loneliness is never what we see alone, but a spiritual emptiness. The pursuit of losing the goal is ethereal and empty, and everything seems so worthless.

So one person does not mean loneliness, and a group of people does not mean excitement. Find something that suits you and live a life that suits you. There is no loneliness in life, but you choose to look at the world with different eyes.