Now many college students eat at home after graduation. Who do you blame for being too high or too low?

Who is to blame? I think parents and children are half responsible! Why do you say that? Listen to me.

My brother spent all his family savings to send his son to college in the United States, which cost more than one million in four years. My son returned to China after graduation last year and has no plans to go to work.

My big nephew's name is Li Zhigang. He is a handsome young man, high flyers of a famous university. He speaks gently. After returning home, we talked briefly for several times, and Inner Mongolia certainly couldn't keep him.

My nephew studies finance. Of course, he wants to fly south. My brother and sister-in-law also have this attitude, and the development of the South is promising! When I just graduated, Zhigang said that I would go out for a while to avoid the epidemic.

He stayed at home, but he was not idle. Busy with class reunion every day, he has many classmates, and he is really everywhere. He and his classmates went to Sichuan for three days and spent eight thousand. Yunnan once got together and spent 12 thousand. It costs 30 thousand to go to Beijing to open my sister-in-law's mouth. My sister-in-law said, I seem to run a banknote printing factory. Doesn't it hurt that you spent so much money and it wasn't blown away by the strong wind?

My nephew said: I met our class flower this time and we usually have a good relationship. Today is her birthday, so I have to show it.

Sister-in-law said: settle down your job first, don't talk about your girlfriend first, so that you can go to school for four years and have no money at home.

My nephew said: working is a trivial matter. Graduates of finance and economics universities like me earn about one million yuan a year.

My sister-in-law gave him 5,000 yuan, saying that there was only so much left at home. You should also think about your family. Your father is 58 years old, and he still runs long distances. He earns two or three hundred dollars in one trip.

My nephew was impatient and took the money and said, I know, I know, stop it, it's annoying, it's just money!

As a result, he came to Beijing without even saying hello. I came back three days later and locked myself in my room. Sister-in-law is too lazy to care. My brother knocked on the door for a long time before calling my nephew out.

As a result, I got angry When I went to Shanghai, someone gave the goddess a Chanel set, someone gave her a coat with an iPhone, and someone gave her a car. He has no money. I heard that gold, silver and jade are priceless, so I bought a 2000-piece jade bracelet. All my classmates laughed at him and said that he was too calculating and wanted to set up another girl!

Brother said it was a joke from his classmates, and there was no malice. Now that the gift has been given, you don't have to be sad. Let's express our feelings. I didn't buy a bracelet when I chased your mother. Later, on our tenth wedding anniversary, your mother asked me to buy her a bracelet. Son, you are better than your father and me. Eat quickly, I don't care! If people are rich, let them take responsibility.

Sister-in-law said: If you don't listen to me, society will give you reasons. Without money, you are nothing!

My nephew said: I will look for a job tomorrow. With my ability, this is my job.

The next day, my nephew submitted his resume on major online recruitment websites and had an online video interview.

Not the kui is high flyers, a few days later, she was taken a fancy to by a new company in Inner Mongolia, with an annual salary of 65,438+10,000 yuan. My sister-in-law was overjoyed and said it was a good job and close to home. If you go to work, you can go home on Sunday. The subways all pass by our door, so it is convenient to go back and forth.

Unexpectedly, my nephew said: I refused. My father gave me a million dollars to go to school. I can't work 10 years to earn it back. That's terrible. Sister-in-law is a good word, useless. My nephew said don't worry, a good job is in the back.

A few days later, my nephew was spotted by a financial company in Beijing. The annual salary is 700 thousand, and my nephew is very happy. As a result, it was my sister-in-law's turn to be dissatisfied. My sister-in-law said: an employee is only 300 thousand a year, and he can give you so much money. Then instead of going to work, you will kill you. Let's not make money.

My brother came back and said, I don't think it's reliable Who can give you 700 thousand! You just graduated. Can you get the job?

My nephew said, well, you said so. Anyway, I don't want to find a job yet. Let's have a rest first.

As a result, I haven't been to work for half a year. Sister-in-law dared not say what her son was doing when she went out. What a famous university, what can I do? Her son is still idle after spending money, and she can't help it.

Sister-in-law is an ordinary worker, who retired from illness a few years ago. Her waist and legs are weak and she can't do manual work, so she studies at home, whether it's fire fighting or accounting, whether it's second construction or psychology. He studied one by one and passed the exam one by one.

My brother has been engaged in transportation for 30 years. He is 58 years old and his health is not as good as before. He runs transportation three times a week. Two people only have one son, and they treasure their son. His son is superior to others in all aspects, but what can he do? His son is still playing games at home.

Now there are ps5, iPad, notebook and more than 10,000 desktop hosts at home. I don't know if he is studying. Or a game?

Is this million worth spending? Maybe everyone's answer is different.

Who is responsible for eating old people at home after graduation from college?

I think both parents and children are responsible.

The responsibility of parents is to treat their son as a treasure from childhood and never let him work. His parents will find it unbearable that he is wronged a little.

I remember a popular joke in the 1990s. A student went to college and his mother accompanied him to school. Why? Because this college student can't wear clothes. It's time for her mother to help her put on her coat, trousers and buttons.

Now the only son is not much better than this college student. The only requirement at home: study hard! Parents can do anything for you as long as you study hard.

Parents' education level is generally low, so it is a glorious thing for parents that their children can be admitted to the university.

Our boss's daughter was admitted to an art school. Her daughter's academic performance is known to all. He had to take an art class just because he couldn't get into college. Our boss also held a thank-you banquet, which is not enough. He returned to the countryside and held another banquet, singing a big play and showing a movie. He said that his daughter was much better than him, and he didn't even graduate from junior high school.

No matter how hard and tired parents are, they should send their children to college to graduate. My son is old and my parents are old, but my son still looks down on his parents. Looking like an old farmer, looking at his son, well dressed, confident and sunny.

Brush some questions and answers often. My brother gives me 6000 a month, and I can earn 5000 a month. He asked me to serve my mother with 6000 yuan. Should I do it?

I want to say that your son will encounter this problem in the future. He doesn't even have a brother. Should he support his mother?

The child's responsibility: ingratitude. He is never satisfied with the life his parents built for him with material things. He felt that his parents didn't move Jinshan Yinshan for him.

As children, it seems natural for parents to buy a house and a car and marry him. Nowadays, children are less and less grateful to their parents.

After graduating from college, children feel that their play tasks have been completed. What task? The task of reading for parents. At this point, you can't completely blame your children, because your children have been listening for more than ten years and are waiting for you to enter the university. My children think that I have been admitted to the university and my task has been completed.

Nowadays, college students reject low-paying jobs, but if they come out for internship, the internship salary of several thousand yuan per month can't run away.

Five years ago, I went to a supervision company where a young man from Zhejiang worked as an intern. I asked him about the money for more than a month, and he said it was only 1000. To tell you the truth, I'm shocked. The salary of college students is so low, he was a little surprised to see me and said, I'm just here for an internship. Go back to my hometown to start a company a year later.

I am awed by this young man. In our third-tier city, even local college students, few people are willing to do this kind of work.

Many young people are more ambitious than the sky, and they don't know what they can do unless they hone in the job market for a period of time. Many people who suffer setbacks should be timid and lack the courage to challenge themselves.

Selfishness, willfulness and laziness are the characteristics of modern young people. Courage, determination and innovation are also their characteristics. Not going out to work, mainly the material life provided by the family, can meet their own requirements and cause personal laziness.

To put it bluntly, I have never suffered. I have been spoiled since I was a child. If you want to study hard, you should do some housework at home. Otherwise, when they grow up, they will have to rely on society to improve their personality.

Conclusion: The parents' fault lies in raising the little emperor, and the children's fault lies in not being grateful to their parents.

Since I graduated from college, I should repay the society, my parents and make my life wonderful.

All this can only be achieved through hard work. All right, let's get to work. Don't lie down and play dead!