Xu Fan is obviously Wang Zhiwen’s girlfriend, so why did he marry Feng Xiaogang, who was married for the second time?

In the early 1990s, the domestic film and television industry was booming, and a large number of beauties appeared.

They shuttled through various film and television dramas, smiling and looking forward to each other, stunning the hearts of the audience.

At that time, Chen Hong, Xu Fan, Chen Xiaoyi, Jiang Wenli, etc. all had their own characteristics.

The most important thing is that at that time, there was no rigid plastic surgery, nor were there all kinds of photo editing and beautification.

Nowadays, you can no longer find the natural beauties like those in the 1990s.

Today we talk about the story between the great beauty Xu Fan and the great director Feng Xiaogang.

——Ye Gongzi’s emotion

01 Xu Fan when he was young

Xu Fan was born in a family of performing arts in Wuhan, and has received good artistic influence since he was a child. .

Both parents are Chu opera actors. Xu Fan has watched his parents perform since he was a child and has always had a strong interest in acting.

Xu Fan has been very fond of costumes on the stage since he was a child, and has always imagined that he can inherit his parents' career.

But my parents think that learning opera is too hard. They only have a daughter at home and don’t want her to learn this.

Unexpectedly, Xu Fan secretly applied for the Hubei Opera School behind his parents' back and sang in Tsing Yi. Xu Fan was only 12 years old at this time.

The parents lost their temper when they found out, but they couldn't control their children.

After attending school for one semester, my parents went to school to watch a performance report, and Xu Fan also appeared on stage. After they came back, my parents didn't ask any more questions, because they felt that their daughter was indeed suitable for singing Qing Yi, so they were relieved.

Learning Peking Opera is actually quite difficult. Many people should have understood it from movies and TV dramas. In addition to having to raise your voice every day, you also have to practice every day.

Every day I have to stand up, do somersaults, press my legs, etc. It’s very hard. At that time, Xu Fan had to sleep with his legs pressed down, otherwise he would be scolded by the teacher.

In the early 1980s, many Peking Opera disciplines slowly began to disband, and Xu Fan happened to catch up with this wave.

I thought that after studying for four or five years, I would be able to go on stage and become an actor. Who knew that the school's Peking Opera department was suddenly disbanded, and Xu Fan became a "child without a family."

Schools at that time were different from schools now. After students graduated, they had to take care of their assignments. Unlike now, once they graduate, they are left alone and no longer care about them.

The disbandment of Xu Fan’s discipline indicates that her future work will become a big problem.

Two or three months after returning home from school, the Wuhan Repertory Theater was recruiting actors from the whole society. Xu Fan happened to see the newspaper and signed up.

Xu Fan has been beautiful since she was a child, and has a good temperament. She has practiced Peking Opera for several years, and her basic skills and voice are among the best. It is natural for her to pass the exam.

But she had not yet grown up at that time. She was very young and looked very immature. When she first joined the troupe, she could only play some roles such as daughter and maid.

Xu Fan stayed at Wuhan Repertory Theater for 5 years. In these 5 years, she grew from a little girl to a big girl and became a mainstay.

In 1986, actor Yang Lixin came to Wuhan for a performance assignment, and happened to play with Xu Fan. The two became close friends after going back and forth.

Xu Fan is in poor health and has been anemic since she was a child. Her parents worry about her health. In order to make her eat well, they sometimes bring her meals; most of the time they let her go home to eat. Supplement the body's nutrients.

Yang Lixin is considered a foreigner. After he became friends with Xu Fan, sometimes Xu Fan’s parents would bring him meals, and he would take advantage of them. Sometimes he would follow Xu Fan directly to her house for dinner, and he would get along well with Xu Fan’s parents. Well, the two of them have forged a lifelong friendship.

In 1987, Xu Fan was exactly 20 years old.

Yang Lixin wrote to her saying that Renyi and China Theater Company would jointly organize an acting class. People as outstanding as Xu Fan should give it a try and not waste their lives in a small place.

This At that time, Xu Fan had been in Wuhan Repertory Theater for 5 years and was getting tired. In addition, the film and television industry in Beijing was indeed a place that all performers yearned for, so Xu Fan was interested.

After discussing with my parents, I packed my bags and went to Beijing.

02 Trip to Beijing

After arriving in Beijing, Xu Fan temporarily stayed at Yang Lixin’s house. Yang Lixin was married at that time, and his wife was also very good to Xu Fan.

The two of them have always treated Xu Fan like a younger sister. They not only asked her about exam matters, but also took good care of Xu Fan in terms of food.

Because Xu Fan knew that she was anemic, her family always kept brown sugar water and chocolate for her, and she also cooked meals in different ways.

Many years later, Xu Fan learned that the couple had been saving money to buy a piano for their child. After Xu Fan came, the two of them remained silent and devoted themselves to Xu Fan.

It is really not easy to meet such a friend in life. Such a friend is worth keeping for a lifetime.

Xu Fan lived up to expectations and passed the exam with his solid basic skills.

Xu Fan’s class was amazing. They were all big names in the film and television industry. Hu Jun, Jiang Shan, Chen Xiaoyi, He Bing, etc. who are still active on the screen are all Xu Fan’s classmates. , this circle of contacts will be great in the future.

This class also has a very good head teacher Su Min, who is the father of actor Pu Cunxin. Some people may ask, why don’t you have the same surname?

Su Min is actually the stage name of Pu Cunxin’s father. In the 1940s, he had been committed to reforming and progressing drama. He was the first generation of actors in human art. The first editions of many dramas at that time were in Su Min’s Created under the leadership of.

In March 2018, Pu Cunxin held a party with Xu Fan and others at the Renyi Class 87 gathering on behalf of his father. At that time, it was still very popular on the Internet.

After Xu Fan entered this class, she was already considered an older girl. She was older than the female classmates in the same class. At that time, she had quite low self-esteem.

A year later, a man named Wang Zhiwen was assigned to be a teacher at the Chinese Opera.

Wang Zhiwen can be regarded as a modern figure of that era. When he first joined Renyi, he had long hair, a windbreaker and jeans. At that time, Wang Zhiwen was young and handsome, but he fascinated many Renyi people. little girl.

Actually, as a teacher, Wang Zhiwen is only a few years older than Xu Fan and the others, and teachers and students often play tricks.

After a while, several female classmates fell in love with Wang Zhiwen, including Xu Fan.

Since ancient times, it has been said that women chase men. Xu Fan took the initiative to pursue Wang Zhiwen. It didn't take long for the two to become a couple on campus.

In the late 1980s, the relationship between a teacher and a student was a shocking thing. At that time, there were a lot of rumors about the two of them, but the two of them didn't care at all and continued to be close to each other.

Not long after, Xu Fan rented a house with Wang Zhiwen and started living together. A reporter once broke the news that when he went to Wang Zhiwen's house for an interview, there was a girl cooking on the balcony of Wang Zhiwen's house, and it was Xu Fan.

At that time, Wang Zhiwen had already acted in several film and television dramas, and was already well-known in China. He was relatively aloof and had a great temper.

Some old reporters said that Wang Zhiwen was very crazy when he was young. When a reporter handed his business card, he wrapped the chewing gum he had just chewed in front of them; If you agree to pat him, he will curse.

Many years later, Wang Zhiwen admitted that he had a bad temper when he was young and missed a lot of things.

I don’t know if Xu Fan is not included in the things I missed.

03 Feng Xiaogang appeared

In 1991, Xu Fan graduated and was assigned to Beijing People's Art Theatre.

At that time, this was a good unit, which indicated that I would have a job for a lifetime.

This year, Wang Zhiwen has gained momentum in the industry with "Journey to the South" and just won the Golden Panda Best Actor Award at the Sichuan TV Festival.

At this time, Feng Xiaogang was working as an art artist at the Beijing Television Art Center. At that time, he hung out with Ma Weidu, Zheng Xiaolong, and Wang Shuo every day.

Jiraito said that the circle a person lives in is too important. If you are with a powerful person, you may be able to help you at some point.

Feng Xiaogang was a very good art designer back then. The director's storyboards that were revealed a while ago include Feng Xiaogang's handiwork. It can still be seen that he has good art skills.

In 1991, Zheng Xiaolong's co-screenwriters had always been Wang Shuo and Ma Weidu. Feng Xiaogang volunteered to write a script and wanted to write one.

Zheng Xiaolong didn't believe it at all. Feng Xiaogang said that he could imitate Wang Shuo and write the same "tiao" as Wang Shuo.

At that time, Feng Xiaogang hung out with Wang Shuo every day and basically figured out Wang Shuo's tricks, so Zheng Xiaolong let him try it.

This year's "The Story of the Editorial Department" was written by Feng Xiaogang, Wang Shuo, and Ma Weidu. Unexpectedly, it came true.

Many years later, Zheng Xiaolong said in an interview: "I was really surprised at that time. I didn't expect that Feng Xiaogang still had this ability. The script style of imitating Wang Shuo was very essence. If I didn't say it, I wouldn't have watched it at all. It was not written by Wang Shuo."

In this way, Feng Xiaogang gradually left the art profession and began to develop into screenwriter, post-production and director, and gradually moved to the center of film and television dramas.

In 1992, Xu Fan and Ge You acted together in "The Big Sabbath", and Feng Xiaogang was one of the screenwriters.

After the samples came out, Feng Xiaogang followed Xu Fan to the screening room to watch the samples. He kept talking non-stop and kept chatting with Ge You.

While chatting, the heroine came up. Director Xia Gang asked Feng Xiaogang: "How did you feel after watching it?"

Feng Xiaogang said directly: "The heroine was not chosen well. His acting skills are also a problem."

Ge You, who was sitting next to him, poked his waist and winked, secretly saying, "I'm sitting behind you."

It was dark at the time. In the screening room, it was quite embarrassing. Feng Xiaogang turned around and saw the outline of Xu Fan in the darkness.

At this time, the two have not met yet.

Subsequently, Xu Fan's work became more and more busy, and Wang Zhiwen was even more busy. The two got together less and separated more, and often quarreled.

Wang Zhiwen has always had a temper, and he relies on his reputation. In addition, Xu Fan chased him first between the two, so it was normal for him to yell at Xu Fan.

In daily interactions, Xu Fan was always the one who coaxed him. This relationship was unequal from the beginning.

Once, the two had a quarrel, and Wang Zhiwen couldn't control his temper and threw Xu Fan's luggage out of the rental house. Xu Fan left the rental house in a rage.

Once I left, I never came back.

By the time Wang Zhiwen regretted looking for her, she had already followed Feng Xiaogang.

04 Warm Man Feng Xiaogang

Women are creatures that naturally like to be pampered, no matter how old they are.

A woman who has been emotionally injured is more likely to be moved by the care of others.

At this time, Feng Xiaogang appeared.

At the wrapping party of "The Big Sake", Feng Xiaogang met Xu Fan again, and Ge You formally introduced the two of them.

Feng Xiaogang found that the heroine was much prettier than the one in the movie, so he became interested.

At that time, Feng Xiaogang was at a loss to pursue Xu Fan, so he went to seek advice from "love expert" Wang Shuo.

Wang Shuo asked her to invite Xu Fan to watch a play, and then go to dinner on the way. After dinner, the conversation would become familiar, and it would be easier to chat in the future.

At that time, Feng Xiaogang was very familiar with Xu Fan’s classmate Chen Xiaoyi, and he thought of calling Chen Xiaoyi for advice. Unexpectedly, after the call was put through, the person who answered the phone was not Chen Xiaoyi, but Xu Fan who lived in the same dormitory.

Feng Xiaogang was so happy that he told Xu Fan that he would take everyone to the Overseas Chinese Building for dinner in the evening. Jiang Shan and Liu Bei were also acquaintances.

Xu Fan didn't think much about it, so he went with Chen Xiaoyi in the evening. Feng Xiaogang had a great chat at the dinner, and he gradually became familiar with Xu Fan.

Later, Feng Xiaogang took advantage of gatherings of friends many times to call people in Xu Fan’s dormitory to go out for dinner, and he built up his own network of contacts. It can be said that he pursued Xu Fan smoothly in the future.

Slowly, everyone around Xu Fan knew that Feng Xiaogang was pursuing her. At that time, Feng Xiaogang was a very warm man, caring and doting.

Not long after, the crew of "The Big Show" and some people from Beijing's entertainment industry went to Guangzhou to attend the Golden Rooster Awards. Xu Fan, Feng Xiaogang, Chen Xiaoyi and others were all on the plane. Feng Xiaogang even openly said that Xu Fan was Although her girlfriend was scolded by Xu Fan, she was only half-truth and half-false, and people around her thought it was true.

I have to say that Feng Xiaogang’s approach to Xu Fan was right. At that time, Xu Fan happened to experience Wang Zhiwen’s kind of man who didn’t take her seriously, and suddenly there came such a "big warm man" who was a woman. They can't help but be tempted.

After returning from Guangzhou, the two confirmed their relationship, and everyone in their circle of friends knew about it.

It is said that Wang Zhiwen once approached Xu Fan, but it was irreversible.

In 2016, Xu Fan and Wang Zhiwen collaborated on "A Peach Blossom Tree". Wang Zhiwen said: "I am very grateful to this drama for allowing me to meet friends I have missed for a long time."

Later , Feng Xiaogang's "Chicken Feathers on the Ground", "See You or Not Be Parted", "A Sigh", "Party A and Party B" and other movies, all had Xu Fan as the heroine, and also created the unique "Feng Xiaogang Movie Era".

However, Feng Xiaogang was actually still a married man at this time!

In the first few years of being together with Xu Fan, Feng Xiaogang always had a wife and a daughter. In fact, Xu Fan was the third party in other people's marriages.

If it were released now, it would probably be banned, but the spread of public opinion at that time was very slow, unlike now.

Feng Xiaogang’s ex-wife is Zhang Di, a nurse. At that time, Feng Xiaogang ran out to film movies every day and rarely came home.

Moreover, the two have very different careers and do not have the same circle of friends. Therefore, his wife has never known about Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan.

After hearing the news, Zhang Di was not in a hurry. She neither made a fuss with Feng Xiaogang nor Xu Fan. She pretended not to know and kept dragging them.

Zhang Di is a traditional housewife. She always believes that men can be forgiven for making mistakes. She only plays outside for a few years and then returns to the family by herself. Unexpectedly, she has to wait for 7 years. .

Feng Xiaogang and Xu Fan fell in love in 1993. It was not until 1999 that Zhang Di agreed to divorce and they were able to get married.

After Feng Xiaogang's divorce, the custody of his daughter belonged to Feng Xiaogang. Once they got married, Xu Fan became a stepmother.

The first time Xu Fan went to Feng Xiaogang's house to meet her daughter, the 9-year-old daughter poured Xu Fan a glass of salt water to drink. Xu Fan drank it without any emotion and did not complain.

Later this plot was quoted by Feng Xiaogang in "A Sigh" and became a very vivid fragment.

However, after marriage, Xu Fan treated Feng Xiaogang's daughter very lovingly. Now he often sees them posting photos together and getting along well.

It is said that Feng Xiaogang is also very kind to his ex-wife and his family. If there is anything there that needs help, he will help. Sometimes he will ask Xu Fan to do it if he doesn't have time.

There are also rumors that the couple does not want children. Xu Fan said that Feng Xiaogang did not want his vitiligo to be passed on to his children, so he did not want to have any more children.

But some people familiar with the matter said that it was because Feng Xiaogang's health was failing and he could no longer have a baby, so Xu Fan had never had a child.

Although Xu Fan later adopted his daughter Duoer, it was rumored that Feng Xiaogang disapproved of it at first, and had a cold war with Xu Fan for a long time over this matter, but he gradually accepted it, and now he seems to be quite happy with the child. good.

Now it seems that Xu Fan and Feng Xiaogang are living happily, but as Feng Xiaogang is such a powerful director, there must be many women who fawn over him.

When Xu Fan appeared on "The Venus Show", Sister Jin asked him: "How to deal with the rotten peach blossoms outside?"

Xu Fan said with a smile: "It's useless to watch people die. It's better not to look at it and just treat him well. He can feel that the relationship between two people can only last longer after they are harmonious.

I'm a protective person, but this guy in our family is a man. Anyway, he's taking advantage of others, so that's okay. "

Through Xu Fan's smile, we can feel the faint bitterness in her heart.

Xu Fan said in his book "Marry the Dog, Follow the Dog": "I feel that both of us Being together is a kind of complementarity. Although there are bumps and bumps, they are the embellishments of our lives. I am a sheep and he is a dog. I have been looked down upon by him all my life. Who made him a shepherd? With the help of a shepherd dog, walking and eating grass will be more secure. ”

Outsiders really can’t explain emotional matters clearly, and only those involved can understand the various flavors.