What to do if you are harassed by HR

In the past few days,

A NetEase HR recruitment message has gone viral in WeChat Moments.

This HR wrote this in the recruitment information:

“If you like any female colleague of mine,

give me a resume and I will help seduce her. ”

He even added:

“Give me your resume and I can even help with the medicine.”

A well-known corporate HR,

He actually blatantly said that he would harass and drug his female colleagues.

If you hadn’t seen it with your own eyes,

it would be hard to believe it.

When you meet such a HR,

Which girl would be willing to be his colleague?

In such a company,

which girl can work with peace of mind?

Misfortune comes from the mouth,

This is not just a joke,

it is also a "sexual harassment" with a bad impact.

Because of inappropriate remarks,

this HR has been fired.

He has paid a heavy price for his actions,

brought a serious public opinion crisis to NetEase,

and gave us a profound warning:

“There are still people around us.

Many people are used to doing things that are offensive under the guise of 'joking',

but they still don't know where they are wrong."

In NetEase HR. In the comments on the incident,

Behind every sentence of "What's this?" and "It's just a joke",

We should all reflect on:

"When Your female relatives or friends,

How would you feel working in such an atmosphere? ”

If you feel uncomfortable,

Please stop dressing "shameless" in the guise of "joke".

On the morning of May 20,

Weibo celebrity "Dermatologist Lin Xiaoqing" announced:

He has been fired from the hospital,

He also apologized for sexually harassing female netizens,

and for "blaming off" his assistant.

The cause of the incident is that,

on May 6,

a female netizen posted on Weibo saying:

I was When being questioned by @ Dermatologist Lin Xiaoqing,

was asked about "sex".

Female netizens thought this was a social survey.

As the issues discussed by Dr. Lin became more and more deliberate and explicit,

Female netizens felt that they had been violated. ,

So I sorted out the chat content,

and exposed this medical celebrity on Weibo.

Unexpectedly,

After this female netizen exposed Dr. Lin’s private message harassment,

Nearly 70 female Weibo users came forward,

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To correct the evil deeds of this medical tycoon,

One of them was a girl who was still in her sophomore year.

As more and more people paid attention,

Dr. Lin had to come out to clarify.

First he directed and acted in a play to blame the assistant. It was a good show,

But the lie was soon revealed.

In the end, the hospital suspended Dr. Lin for investigation.

A medical celebrity with 1.6 million fans,

because he couldn’t control his behavior,

ruined his future.

When he faces moral condemnation and legal sanctions,

Will he still feel that

this is just a joke?

Have you ever heard of this?

"It's a joke, don't take it so seriously, right?"

"Are you too sensitive, right?"

"He didn't mean it, It’s only human nature...”

Maybe you’ve heard it,

Maybe you’ve said it,

But have you ever thought about it,

Will the person who hears these words think it’s okay?

I have watched a very famous drama before.

The drama presented

is the problem that many girls are troubled by in reality:< /p>

"What should I do if I am harassed by people around me?"

"Is it okay to be touched casually when I go to a bar?"

"Agreeing to date means agreeing. Are you having sex?”

“You are so good-looking, you must have many boyfriends, right?”

In the play, the heroine Xinhui is a college student.

At a school party,

she was harassed by a senior.

He approached Xinhui and stared at Xinhui's accidentally exposed breasts.

He even put his hands on it,

and said maliciously:

"Come out with me, just the two of us..."

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Xinhui was extremely scared,

but because she was afraid of being gossiped about,

she did not dare to call for help.

It wasn’t until the classmate next to him came to the rescue that he escaped from the clutches.

The senior did not succeed,

just spread rumors in the school,

for a time,

on the campus social network,

Countless curse words were thrown at her.

She felt ashamed and scared, and

instinctively wanted to escape from it all.

But her good friend Cai'er grabbed her and told the timid Xinhui:

"Don't be afraid, don't hide it, be brave and face it" Yes. ”

Bad people will not become better because of your concession,

They will only become worse because of your weakness!

With the encouragement of her friends,

Xinhui finally decided to face all this bravely.

She was no longer weak to be bullied, no longer silent in response.

Start facing harassment head-on.

She said in front of her classmates:

“Just because I like makeup doesn’t mean I’m open;

Just because I like dressing up doesn’t mean I’m casual;

Just because I don’t say ugly things doesn’t mean I can bully her!”

Faced with the boys who harassed her,

She no longer escapes,

< p>But push him away head-on!

"Go to hell!

What kind of confession is this!

This is obviously sexual harassment!"

In real life,< /p>

Many people are gradually beginning to understand:

Things that once felt disgusting and did not dare to resist,

will slowly give birth to disgusting maggots in their hearts.

I will no longer be weak and defend my bottom line firmly.

I find that everything is great!

When a girl becomes difficult to mess with,

such malice will gradually disappear.

I met a pervert on the subway before.

While the subway was crowded,

stretched his hands towards the girl next to him.

The girl couldn't bear the harassment and tried to avoid it several times.

The perverted man still followed closely behind her.

I couldn’t stand it anymore and pushed the perverted man away.

At first,

the perverted man was quite arrogant.

But as other passengers in the carriage began to voice their accusations, he was so frightened that he ran away secretly.

The girl who was harassed

did not speak the whole time,

just walked to another carriage silently.

I understood then:

“Not everyone has the courage to fight against aggression,

But as long as the majority are not silent,

More and more people will take action to protect their own rights.

”

On the evening of April 5,

Jike Junyi posted on Weibo saying:

I just encountered a bad guy in a convenience store.

< p>Fortunately, she found a passerby and a couple to help cover her, and she was able to escape from the predicament.

Under this hot search,

Many netizens expressed their distress.

A male student at the same time left a message jokingly:

"It's okay, you are so dark.

No one can see you when it gets dark! ”

When women’s safety issues are particularly prominent,

some people will still regard it as a harmless joke.

It is conceivable that You know,

Many times, a lot of violence,

wrapped in "criticisms",

turns into unscrupulous behavior

As early as 2017,

The Guangzhou Gender Center released a survey report:

"Survey on Sexual Harassment among College Students in China"

According to the survey report,

69.3% of the respondents have experienced different forms of sexual harassment,

75% of them are women

The report also shows that, regardless of boys or girls, < /p>

Nearly half of them choose to remain silent after encountering sexual harassment.

Only 2.7% of girls and 1.6% of boys choose to report it to the school and other management departments;

Only 1.2% of girls and 0.5% of boys chose to report to the police.

The "2018 China Sexual Harassment Survey Report" shows:

In 233. Among the respondents,

66.5% have experienced sexual harassment in the workplace.

Among them, 5 are male, accounting for 23.8% of the male respondents;

< p>There are 150 women, accounting for 70.8% of the female respondents;

Among all the respondents who have experienced sexual harassment, the proportion of women is 96.8%.

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Among these respondents, only 4 chose to call the police,

25.8% chose to leave their jobs, and 18.7% fell into mental depression. …

The famous safety engineer Heinrich,

once proposed an accident control theory:

“A serious accident exposed,

There must be thousands of unsafe behaviors hiding behind them,

Like an iceberg rising to the surface,

only a small part emerges,

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What is hidden under the water is much larger. ”

When a sexual harassment incident comes to light,

it is actually just the tip of the iceberg.

In places we have not seen,

there are still There are more people suffering from sexual harassment and even sexual violence.

Just like the HR "drugged recruitment" incident,

it may be just a joke on the surface,

In fact, isn’t that an unhealthy trend that has been accumulating for a long time?

A woman is not an object.

If she doesn’t stop or speak out,

it doesn’t mean that you can do it. Feel free to touch her legs,

make vulgar jokes, do things that cross the line.

There is a saying:

“Flies don’t bite seamless eggs. ”

Many times,

it doesn’t mean there is something wrong with the egg,

but it means:

When you fail to protect the bottom line ,

will be harassed by "flies"

There are always some people,

who like to make color jokes intentionally or unintentionally,

If you don’t express any objection,

he may use his hands and feet,

make physical contact intentionally or unintentionally;

When you do not express any obvious objection, If you resist,

he will think you don’t mind.

Next time,

he may escalate to a worse situation

Maybe he gives you alcohol,

It may turn into actual sexual harassment.

When you lose your principles for some reason,

He will be even more aggressive. Unscrupulous.

On April 5,

A man molested a girl on the bus.

The girl collapsed and cried.

This stinking man The man tried to escape through the window, but was forced back into the car by the driver, the passengers, and the kind people waiting for the bus.

In the end, the smelly man was The police took him away and he was duly punished.

Actually, in reality,

if you have been violated,

do not be cowardly,

protect yourself at the same time , speak out bravely.

In this way, there will be countless kind-hearted people standing behind you and becoming your strong backing.

Please remember:

There is no such gangster logic as "a fly will not bite a seamless egg",

A fly is a fly,

It has nothing to do with the egg,

The egg is innocent.

If you encounter this kind of fly,

the best way is to slap it on the wall!

Source of the article: Beiyi

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