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I didn't expect to have so many intimate friends. I don't think people like us are born for interviews. After the interview, I always feel that there are many questions in the interview. At that time, it would be better to say another thing in another way. I felt really stupid.

I think everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages. We are not born to do something that needs improvisation, such as giving an interview. It's not that you can't do it well, but that you are too pursuing perfection and have too heavy psychological burden. We always want to be better than others at any time. Just like your own example, when listening to other people's stories, you always want to understand them as quickly as possible and let others explain them several times. No matter what the narrator is like, you can't stand it first. Actually, it's no big deal to think about it. Why do you understand faster than others? What should I do if I am slow? And this situation is not everything. Just because others don't ask doesn't mean he understands. Most people don't understand and don't ask right away, because they don't know what they are talking about at all, just think they understand according to their own understanding. Maybe sometimes you ask questions and ask for repeated explanations before they really understand what to say. Regarding customer service and consultation, it is obvious that the other party is half responsible. First of all, the responsibility of customer service is to let customers get satisfactory answers in the simplest language. If you don't quite understand and your mind is blank, then customer service is responsible. He failed to communicate with customers effectively. As for the person being consulted, it is really speechless! Since he answered, but he didn't specify when, where and who, what was the answer? As for the hr you mentioned in the interview, I quite agree with your answer. I wonder if it's because of the same kind of people. If it was, I would definitely say the same thing. Ask me about my English level with my resume. What do I need my resume for? It doesn't matter what you accept from him.

Finally, I was also in the interview when others said something plausible, but I didn't say a word. A good friend of mine belongs to the kind of person who gets excited at an interview, giving people the impression that he is witty and quick-thinking. I interviewed with him, and we were in sharp contrast. Later I asked him what the secret was, and he said it was Hull (nonsense). Later, I observed it, and it was really Hull's scene, which could not stand scrutiny. I think this kind of thing can only be forced on myself. I always hope to have a perfect performance in formal occasions such as interviews. I am too cautious and think too much, which slows down the reaction speed.

In a word, since you are born like this, there is no need to compete with yourself. Well, there is no need to correct your shortcomings. I think you must have the following advantages: prudence and thoroughness, pursuit of perfection, keen observation, good at finding problems and making predictions, and strong psychological endurance. Finally, talk about your parents. Don't ask too much of them. They laugh at you for not treating you as an outsider and paying attention to your children. People who get too close will have this problem. My family thinks I'm stupid, too (maybe it's really stupid, damn it, not because they didn't design well at the time, and they still have the face to laugh). Limited by their own limitations, of course they can't help you. In fact, if you pay attention to them, you will find that they are often not as good as you.

Ps: If I guess your merits correctly, please write back. If you are wrong, please write down your advantages and tell me, ok?

Yes, thank you.