Why don't you dig a well?

Dig your own well Author: Jeilon Actually, why doesn't everyone want to dig their own well? Especially those who have learned to "dig a well" before, we find that they really start to ponder how to dig a well for themselves every day. But there are still some people who are slow. Why? We did a survey. To sum up, the reasons why people don't dig wells are 10: 1. The foundation is too poor I am busy and have no time. I always work overtime. I'm still in the learning stage. 6. I can't find a suitable field. 7. I can't hold on. 8. I lack the conditions. 9. 10 is too difficult. I can't. The foundation is too poor This is the answer that many people with low academic qualifications, ordinary family conditions, or some physical defects, or who are called "vulnerable groups" by society choose more. However, don't forget that it is because of the weak foundation that we have to dig a well for ourselves. We don't expect that well to be big and deep. As long as it is better than carrying water, it is enough. Life is long for decades. Why say no too soon? If we have a poor foundation, don't think about ourselves or future generations! Do you want your descendants to live as hard as you do? Your answer is "no"! Right? ! Why do you work so hard? Because you are disabled? Don't! Didn't you see a lot of people at the Disabled Persons' Federation who were born with a good start? Why? "Because their predecessors had a well, it gave them a good starting point and foundation. My parents gave me nothing. " Maybe you answer like this. God is unfair to us, my parents didn't give us anything, we didn't read many books in society, and the starting point was low ... This is a fait accompli and fate, so we don't blame our parents, because that won't help! But can't we let our next generation live like us? Right? Since parents have left their children a starting point, we should do the same to make future generations live better, right? The seller of melon seeds can be the king of melon seeds and the seller of toothpicks can be the king of toothpicks. They earn as much as selling TV sets! Things that look small often contain great value! So do we! See your own value! Society has looked down on us, and we can't look down on ourselves! Don't let our future generations look down on us! So, at least for our future generations, no matter how poor our foundation is, we must work hard! I'm busy and have no time. "I am very busy and have no time." This is a sentence that most people often talk about in their lives. This is also the answer with the most choices. People always use it as an excuse for not finishing the work or not finishing it well. They don't realize that it is this sentence that makes their work inefficient, their work quality low, and then they are farther and farther away from success. Will Follette Kang, a giant in the world of weaving, has struggled for 40 years, and his usual busyness can be imagined. He also wants to develop his hobbies, but he always thinks that he is too busy to spare more time. As he grew older, Will Follette realized that he could do nothing but earn money. He began to get upset and finally made up his mind: "No matter how much sacrifice you make, you should spare an hour to paint every day." In order to ensure that this hour is not disturbed, he gets up before 5 o'clock every day and paints until breakfast. A few years later, the cumulative results of Will Follette's compression time were amazing. His oil paintings appeared in large quantities in the exhibition, and hundreds of them were bought at high prices. He also held many solo exhibitions. He set all the income from selling paintings as scholarships to reward those outstanding students. He said: donating this money is nothing, but the great pleasure he got from painting is his most important gain. From Will Follette, we can easily see that no matter how busy a person is at work, he can still find time to do what he wants. Don't underestimate this little time. Together, they will be a great wealth and will create unexpected value. Similarly, don't underestimate the ideas you once had that are easily dismissed by yourself, which is often the source of tapping your potential. Philosopher Field once said brilliantly: "The watershed between success and failure can be expressed in five words-'I don't have time'." I think you already know what you should do to succeed. There is a difference between always working overtime and the answer of "no time" Blue-collar workers and white-collar workers attribute their busyness to "overtime". "I'm so tired after work that I don't want to do anything but rest." Yes, I carry water during the day and dig wells at night. Do you think you are tired? "Tired!" I also said. But imagine an old man in his seventies and eighties, thin, stumbling and still carrying water. Do you feel bitter? "Bitter!" Isn't that old man you? Do you want to be tired now or suffer later? This excuse is the same as no time. Just be specific. Please act immediately! It is still in the learning stage, which is an excuse for many people who have just entered the society. Graduates have the most answers. In fact, this is a very annoying answer. Including me. I have interviewed thousands of people since I became HR, and when I asked, "What is your goal in three years?" Or "Why did you come to our company to apply?" At that time, I would rather recruit those who simply said "I'm here to make money" and "I'm here to accept the challenge of ××"; And I hate those "just graduated, I haven't thought about anything yet, I want to learn something first". He answered honestly, and I simply said, "Well, today's interview is over. Come back when you think about it-if the company hasn't hired anyone. " Why have we graduated, but not yet? Yes, that's right. Everyone goes to work and goes to school, and "to learn something" is one of the purposes. But many people who put themselves in the "learning position" will have a big problem in their daily behavior: it is easy to allow themselves to make mistakes and it is difficult to be independent! -because they feel that they are newcomers, newcomers will make mistakes, and newcomers should be led by old employees! If you don't stop thinking, you will never be independent. If you are not independent, you are not carrying water. You just learn to carry water, let alone dig wells. In fact, what is the subconscious of the person who chooses this answer? I'm still in the learning stage-then I'll start digging wells when I learn the skills, not from now on. I asked, "So what does it mean to learn skills? When? " He would reply: "It's hard to say", "I don't know yet", "Later …"-never started. In the company where I work, my last sentence to everyone who has completed the whole process of induction training and has not been eliminated is: from now on, you are an old employee. Not finding a suitable field is because many people with good foundation, certain ability and certain status have many candidates' answers. They have a good job and a lot of income, but they think this is not a well, but it is easier to carry water. But I often feel that I can't find the right field. Actually, I didn't find it They are just looking around. "I don't seem to have any special skills." "I don't seem to have enough money to go out and do anything." "Of course, it's best to start my own company now, but there seems to be no easier business. I don't know what to do. " -It's all bullshit. This is a kind of "laziness" that people who have enough water to drink for a while are spoiled for too long. If your present job is very handy, if you go in this direction, to a higher position and a bigger company, isn't it from carrying water to digging wells? "Although it is not bad now, it feels like I have been working in this position for a long time and I can't do it. I have no passion. I know it's time to dig a well, at least find something new to do. But I don't seem to know what to do better. " -This is the biggest problem in this group.-It has reached the threshold. "Think about how you got into this industry? Did you think you would reach your present position and income before? In the past three years, think about the situation where you have reached the threshold today. Do you feel that you can't get online, just like now? " All the answers I got were "no". "Why is there a difference between the idea at that time and now? Why not start again with the same idea as when you first entered this industry and entered this company? " "Is can't find the right field, or you don't have or too lazy to find? Still afraid to find-afraid of losing what you have now? " -I got the answer "yes". If you don't look for it yourself, the gods can't help you! You can't expect well water to come out of the ground by itself except volcanic eruption. The stone in our hearts prevents us from discovering and creating only our psychological obstacles and the stone in our hearts. Once upon a time, there was a big stone on a family's farm, about 40 cm wide and 10 cm high. People who go to the farm will accidentally kick the big stone, either falling or scratching. The son asked, "Dad, why don't you dig up that disgusting stone?" The father replied, "Do you mean the stone? It has been put into the present since your grandfather's time. It's too big. I don't know when to dig. Nothing to do, digging stones, it is better to walk carefully and exercise your reaction ability. " One day, my mother said angrily to my father, "the more I look at that big stone, the more disgusted I am." Please ask someone to move another day. " Dad replied, "Forget it! That big stone is heavy. If I could move, I moved when I was a child. How can I stay until now? " Mother is very unhappy. I don't know how many times that big stone made her fall. One year, my father went to the city to buy horses, and my mother took her son to work on the farm. Mother said, "Let's move these things that get in the way, shall we?" So they began to dig stones. The son first stirred the soil around the big stone with a hoe. They are psychologically prepared and may have to dig for a day. No one expected to dig up the stone in a few minutes and look at its size. This stone is not as big as expected. It is not the stone my father imagined. Just dig down and you can shake it. "What hinders us is the stone in our hearts!" Mom said. The "son" who moved the stone with the mother was American President Lincoln, who later became one of the greatest figures in the world. Warm "mentality" tip: in the journey of life, it is often your own mentality that hinders your success. ※. To change your world, you must first change your mentality. We can't force many people to fail because they don't have their own wells, not because they encounter too many setbacks, but because they are impatient for success. Victory is at the end of the runway, not near the starting point. Without the great persistence of 25,000 Li, there would be no victory in the Long March, and there would be no China people today. On the road of life, sometimes, we don't know how many steps we have to take to achieve our goal. When we set foot on the thousandth step, if you can't persist, everything in front of you will be in vain. Give up? Don't! Take another step, if not, take another step. In fact, it is not too difficult to make progress a little at a time. My father is an educated youth. I used to dig wells in the country. I was persistent when I was a child. It is often impatient to get things done from the beginning. While affirming my drive, my father often says his mantra in my ear: "Don't even think about digging wells!" " "Yes" Don't even think about digging a well! ""Whenever I am impatient, my father's words will ring in my ears. So I succeeded step by step. Today, I have the honor to sit here and enjoy digging a well by myself. My father taught me how to dig a well. Please remember: don't expect to dig a well with a hoe. Many professionals will laugh at graduates for choosing "still in the learning stage", but many people also choose "not yet". In elementary school, we knew a story: the north wind came, and the Hao Han bird cried trembling, "The cold wind froze me to death, and I will build a nest tomorrow." It will be sunny tomorrow, Hao Han bird thinks. Let's build a nest when it snows. When the snow came, Hao Han Bird cried trembling, "The cold wind froze me to death. I will build a nest tomorrow." As a result, it froze to death in Amb Lee. In fact, many people have never done this? Draw water today and dig wells tomorrow. I don't even have the strength to carry hoes and poles when I want to dig! As Song of Tomorrow wrote: Tomorrow will come and go, how many tomorrows will there be? I live until tomorrow, and everything will be wasted! Lack of conditions is an excuse for lazy people. Especially those who are not in trouble. Cooking by yourself, when there is no gas, will you say "I don't want to eat because of insufficient conditions"? When you are hit by a car and far from the hospital, will you say "no conditions, no life"? Absolutely not! Once people encounter difficulties, they will look for and create conditions. I remember when I was a child, my mother had an alley in the country with several poor farmers. None of their sons have jobs and can't marry a wife. Country people are always simple and straightforward. Every time someone asks them when to marry a daughter-in-law, most of them will say: no conditions. But back in recent years, all of them have children without a wife. However, some of them still have no jobs, and they still need to rely on their relatives in the city for help. Marrying a daughter-in-law is "unconditional", but they all know that "there will be no sister Lin in the sky" and they can't break the fragrance. In this way, there is a way to marry them. But for work, they fantasize that "pies will fall from the sky", and the result is unconditional. Maybe without the help of city people, they would have had jobs long ago, because they could not be hungry, and neither could their wives and children! But why do people always wait until they are in trouble before thinking of digging wells? Find a job and dig a well with the same mentality of "marrying a daughter-in-law", so you won't feel that the conditions are insufficient and you will feel that you must act immediately! It's too difficult. This is not the answer of those who have failed, but the answer that many people who think it may be difficult to dig wells choose to give up and act again after analyzing the conditions and steps needed to dig wells. Is it not difficult to carry water all your life? ! In the face of difficulties, many people wear magnifying glasses and get cold feet! But if you struggle with difficulties, you will feel that, in many cases, "difficulties are so much!" " ※ Like many pains in life, they are not as serious as you think. If it's not serious, it won't hurt very much. You feel pain because you think the wound is hurting and you are afraid of pain. I have failed too much. I can't. Former South African President nelson mandela once said: "The greatest glory in life lies not in never falling, but in always getting up after falling. "I appreciate this flexible state of life, experience storms happily and face life with a smile. Of course, starting a business is not so easy, and it is not so easy to make yourself outstanding. It is not easy to be a senior professional manager in the fierce competition-no matter how good the well is, it is not easy. But is it easy to carry water all your life? The Buddha said, "The road to the Western Heaven is 108,000 Li, and it must go through 81 difficulties." Actually, everything is the same! Say to yourself like Stanley Cunitz, "I still have an apple! "When you encounter setbacks, failures or even despair. Stanley Cunitz is a Swedish doctor who has a special liking for desert exploration. When he was young, he tried to cross the Sahara desert in Africa. On the night when he entered the hinterland of the desert, an overwhelming storm left him with nothing, the guide disappeared, the camel full of water and food disappeared, and even the bottle of champagne opened to celebrate his 36th birthday was knocked over, and the fear of death flocked to him from all directions. At the moment of despair, Stanley reached into his pocket and accidentally touched an apple, which made Stanley wake up from despair. He is glad that he has another apple. A few days later, Stanley, who was dying, was rescued by the local natives. It is puzzling that Stanley, who was in a coma, clung to a complete but withered apple, and no one could take it away from him. At the beginning of the 20th century, the legendary old man Stanley passed away. Before he died, he wrote an epitaph for himself: I still have an apple. How far a person's dream journey can go depends largely on his will. Life often shows us such a desert. When we are in trouble, depression and complaining can only put out the light of hope, and pessimism and curse can only set obstacles for the future. " I still have an apple, "this sentence embodies all the persistence." In fact, everyone has an apple hidden in his heart. Laughing proudly at life, ignoring all the confusion and fatigue in despair, this is the inspiration brought to us by the old man. Yes, God may take away everything from you, but he will never take away the last apple in your heart. As long as there is such a small apple, you have no reason to give up easily. Hope is half a life, despair is the whole death. As long as there is a little coolness of apples in our hearts, we will definitely reach the paradise of our dreams.