What is clubbing?

"Ba" is a very popular word in the 21st century, such as Tao Ba, Shu Ba, Cloth Ba, etc. Bubble means immersion. Soak in the bar and indulge in the atmosphere. Its essence will slowly penetrate into the human body and blood like the minerals in the hot spring. People who sit in bars occasionally are not considered barbers. Bar addicts spend at least two nights a week in bars. The way of clubbing is by no means a scratch, but rather to sit down in your favorite bar and never move, or like Chu Liuxiang, go to several places in one night to fulfill your sensory and spiritual enjoyment in different styles.

People who drink wine are definitely the "fashion elite" of a city. They are between the ages of 20 and 40 and have a certain financial strength, but are not burdened by work and family pressures. They have a lot of time and enough spare money to chase fashion trends. Since I spend my nights clubbing, I rarely watch TV, so I won’t become a prisoner of TV - a mentally retarded couch potato. Although soaking in a bar is stationary, the topics, music, and guests in the bar are fluid. The changes in urban life are its theme, nourishing bar fans like a fashionable spa. Modern people's understanding of fashionable lifestyle is that they can not only have a job that can make a living, but also develop one or more hobbies that are enough to reach a professional level. Work is just for making money, but hobbies are pure self-expression and life improvement beyond the purpose of money. Being able to do something well without money is a manifestation of the spiritual value of people in the business society. People who go to bars all have this potential. For example, some people who go to bars to listen to music will not go to bars that only play pop songs. The bars they go to either have bands performing, and they are underground bands of a certain level, which can often bring some music. Original music. Or go to the bar for the DJ. DJ is a kind of re-creation of music. Under their guidance, people can re-understand many music. There are also many bars that play cutting-edge or very stylized music brought back from abroad by their bosses. Music fans are also willing to go to such places and get a baptism of alternative music from time to time. There is also a group of people who become sommeliers in bars. This refers to wine tasting rather than alcoholism. They can find out where the best red wine in Beijing comes from, or where to find the most mellow beer. They know every cocktail. Depending on the preparation method, some people can even taste the best combination of wine and cigars, wine and music, wine and women or men. In some theme bars, some people are perfecting their lives as football fans, movie fans, and card fans. Others have become experts in interior decoration while clubbing, some have become freelance writers, and some have become A linguist... Even people who hang out in bars needlessly are dreaming. The lights in the bar are always dim and the world seems unreal. Bar life is the dream of the city. Although the dream is illusory, it gives urban people real motivation for life. Edit this paragraph | Back to top Women clubbing in bars In bars, music, alcohol, cigarettes, and singers combine to create a beautiful scenery. Women clubbing are an indispensable part of the scenery.

A woman clubbing alone will give people a sense of loneliness and mystery. Some people will speculate that if she happens to be wearing black, smoking, and looking lonely, it will be a classic plot of a romance movie. What is her career? , age, and clothing are all suspicious. Maybe she is going through emotional ups and downs, maybe she is rich but lonely, or she may be a superficial woman who comes here with no money to look for opportunities, or she may be a beautiful writer who is experiencing life.

When two women or a group of women go clubbing, the mystery is much lower. They are probably girlfriends celebrating their birthdays, or sisters looking for some fun or excitement. When a group of women are together, they will be much more courageous. It turns out that a good girl and a gentle lady are completely different, and no one will think it's weird no matter what they do. On the contrary, if you are too restrained, sit upright, insist on not drinking, only order chrysanthemum tea or ice water, and sip it in small sips, and do not sing loudly to the music, it will feel too artificial.

If that's all, why come to the bar? Women who love clubbing feel that clubbing embodies another state of life, breaking up the ordinary self and allowing them to see another side of themselves and another face of the city. Which one is more real? If they really want to relieve stress, release themselves, and get pleasure, most women still choose to go clubbing. Edit this paragraph | Back to the top Men go to the bar. The bar is an ambiguous place. It is reflected in the shimmering Nepali lanterns like the moon halo, the eyes of men and women blurred by the light, like fish swimming silently in the depths of the sea, with coffee and alcohol surging between the mouth and tongue. The touch of the bar is soft and relaxing, but it is also dangerous. If you are not careful, you will lose your way.

Bar is an ambiguous pronoun. If a man likes to go clubbing, his image will become blurred in front of people's eyes - even the muscles he has worked so hard to work on will suddenly droop, as if they have been filled with water. The bar allows men to take off their tough disguise and slowly melt them into the sofa, making them unable to pull themselves out.

There are many reasons for men to go to the bar, but there are only three choices. Either drink tea and let the rationality continue cup after cup; Pour the steaming emotions one ladle after another. When men hang out with men, they usually discuss the matter and get straight to the point. Only when a man hangs out with a woman can it be called clubbing. When a man asks a woman to go clubbing, the topic will inevitably turn to romance.

But after soaking for a long time, no matter how sober or strong a man is, he becomes water or even mud. In "Casablanca" Humphrey Bogart and Ingrid Bergman reunited in a bar. Bogart said in a vicissitudes of words: "The problem with this world is that everyone drinks two glasses less. Too sober." If Bogart had lived today, he might have changed his lines. Edit this paragraph | Back to top Social interpretation Clubbing is not so much a behavior as it is a way of life. The noise of the bar, the smell of wine, the faint smell of tobacco, and the people drinking, either make people confused or crazy. It makes people reveal their true feelings and indulge in the beauty, forgetting the world during the day and putting away all the worries. Things are melted in the cold alcohol and poured into the stomach quickly or slowly. The different decorations in each bar create different spaces. Coupled with different music and most of the same alcohol, it is easy for a person to become Be vulnerable and emotional, become real and empathetic.

The bar creates various virtual atmospheres, allowing people to live in the city or feel like they are in the jungle, the beach, the mountains or a certain era in the past. It arranges a heterogeneous space in the urban space that everyone is blind to, allowing people to indulge in wine, lights, the opposite sex, music and an indescribable atmosphere and smell at night. I used to think that bars could not change our lives, and at most they could only form a weak link, just like restaurants, teahouses and KTVs. But the bar still changes people's lives and perceptions of things in a subtle and unstoppable way.

For people living in the reinforced concrete forest, many of their moods and happiness seem to be often submerged in the hurried urban rhythm and busy work. People become extremely strange to each other, and the feeling of loneliness will always be there. It haunts each of us all the time. In your spare time, when you hang out with friends or go into a bar alone, and drink a glass of wine that suits your taste, the depression in your heart will be discharged with the music, and you will regain the freedom and ease. Although the hazy atmosphere was full of unfamiliar faces, everyone's face showed their inner emotions of joy, anger, and joy, which was a natural and undistorted true color of life. There is no need to build a barrier between hearts here.