Prepare to go to the United States to have a baby, get the status to raise the pros and cons of returning to China, and ask relatives for advice.

After listening to other people's words, your husband is excited to kiss up, regardless of subjective and objective conditions, but girls think about it carefully. According to my observation in the past ten years, boys make decisions on impulse, and their long-term achievements are not as good as those of girls. Your post is another proof.

I'm not sure if you and your wife studied investment in college. A very important lesson in investment is reverse thinking. When everyone is saying that an investment can't be better, the risk has quietly accumulated to a very high level. The first person who thought of raising an American son for fun was a genius. When most people know this idea, businessmen can still come up with the trick of running the Yuezi Center as an enterprise, and the early high return on investment must have gradually disappeared.

The road you want has been widely reported in America. NBC, the national television station of the United States, made a special topic "Anchor Baby", which specifically discussed that Chinese mainland's parents went to the United States to give birth, returned to the United States immediately after giving birth, and then waited until they were teenagers to enjoy welfare. In today's economic recession in the United States, this kind of behavior of exploiting legal loopholes is a bit unbearable for most Americans, and it is only a matter of time before legislation changes. But before the law is amended, this kind of behavior is still legal and cannot be stopped. Therefore, although your consideration is not at the moral level, your family should also be psychologically prepared. After coming to the United States, they should be questioned and put up with some strange eyes.

Since China and the United States do not recognize dual nationality, what you need to consider now belongs to the technical aspect of the legal gap between the two countries. Although they can all be overcome, they all have certain difficulties and will increase a lot of expenses. For example, after a child is born and returns to China, he needs a sum of money to get a domestic birth certificate to open an account. Otherwise, children don't even have to go to school, and medical insurance will become a problem. Children who want to return to the United States must enter the country with an American passport, so they have to transfer from a third place. As for the other children you asked, their long-term stay in China is not affected or their benefits are extremely limited. As long as the US immigration laws remain unchanged, don't worry. However, you must be very careful when you enter or leave this country. If you are not careful, all your efforts will be in vain.

So your real core question is actually the fourth question, which is better than being born in the United States or China. This depends on its own conditions and opportunity cost. Family education is the only key factor that really determines whether long-term investment is worthwhile. If you and your wife are both middle-and high-income senior intellectuals, who not only understand children's education, but also are willing to pay to ensure that they will not raise bullies, then all sacrifices will eventually pay off. Only if parents really have these conditions, even if the child is born in China, the chances of entering a famous American school will not be too far away. On the contrary, if you don't have these conditions, you must put all your eggs in one basket to save the past and live in the future. You just want to win at the starting point by a child's citizenship, and then rest easy. When children grow up, they may feel superior to Americans, so they don't have to be too gregarious or work too hard. I may feel that I can't provoke the burden of revitalizing my family business, but I give up on myself, and the possibility of disappointment is quite great.

Objectively speaking, although children are American citizens, they are still at a disadvantage in applying for universities unless they come to the United States before high school. But children who come to the United States in high school must have American guardians, and parents can't follow. Regardless of immaterial things such as a free and democratic environment, it seems that the biggest advantage of obtaining American citizenship by studying abroad at present is that the tuition fees of local students and foreign students in state public universities are very different, but there are few top public universities in each state. If children get very good grades, this advantage will limit their freedom to choose a better school. There is only one way out for American citizenship, and the advantages outweigh the disadvantages, that is, applying for medical school will increase the chances of children entering American universities when they grow up. But it only increases the probability of 0.0 1% to 10%, which will not be so high. Moreover, this long road is full of thorns, which is unimaginable to ordinary people.

On the contrary, if a child stays in China and has a better future, his American identity will become an obstacle. American citizens pay taxes according to humanitarianism and obey others. So even if he doesn't work in the United States all his life, he must declare and even pay income tax every year after he becomes an adult. All assets must also be declared in full, otherwise it is tax evasion. At present, Chinese who are slightly richer in the United States will be overwhelmed by this incident in the foreseeable future, and there will be more and more things to give up American citizens and green cards. Therefore, the citizenship paper you are going to grab for your child may not be as valuable as you think, and may even become a piece of waste paper.

My point is simple. If your family's economic conditions are good, your husband and wife are committed to their children's education, don't mind sacrificing themselves for their children's future path, and finally are very sure that he will definitely come to the United States for development in the future, then take this road. If one item is not, then you really don't have to go to this mixed water. In other words, the risks and rewards of ordinary people born in the United States and their parents are not Americans are not suitable for most parents. The only exception is that parents are poor in China, so it is not easy to be too picky about the most important part of education in order to get an American passport for their son. But even if you want to be poor, you should go to the United States and be honored, but this choice is not easy for outsiders to judge.

What several people upstairs said was quite to the point, but I think the best thing to say was your last sentence. Whether the child's postpartum education in the United States is successful or not, you have foreseen that both husband and wife will make major adjustments around this plan in the future.

The young couple have a good discussion, and it is best for both parents to participate in the discussion. But your belly is getting bigger and bigger. If you think it's too risky to persist, who can resist you?