Storybooks about talking celebrities

1. A book about celebrity stories

"Celebrity Stories" is a book published by Nanjing University Press in 2009, written by Du Song. The book tells that in the long history, there is always a group of people: they have profound wisdom, lofty ambitions, and extremely strong perseverance. They have made outstanding contributions to the development of society, set an example for future generations, and have a profound impact on future generations. This book selects classic celebrity stories from ancient and modern times at home and abroad to recreate great figures for readers. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

2. Looking for celebrity stories about communication (urgent)

1. Mo Fuzi had a proud disciple named Gengzhu Zhi, but he was always criticized by Mozi, and over time he became He felt dissatisfied, but he did not passively resist learning. Instead, he communicated with Mozi after school. Mozi told him that just because he was a malleable material, he would teach and correct him again and again. Mozi After hearing this, he put aside his dissatisfaction and studied seriously.

2. Xiang Yu ended up committing suicide in Wujiang River because he was stubborn and did not communicate with his subordinates. Han Xin, who was familiar with the art of war, was only used by him as a guard. , the brave and resourceful Chen Ping and Zhang Liang could only be ordinary generals.

3. Turgenev and Tolstoy had many quarrels. After 16 years, Tolstoy Tai hoped to eliminate the estrangement, so he took the initiative to communicate with Turgenev and wrote a letter of apology to Turgenev. Turgenev was very moved, and the two settled their differences.

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Communication skills:

Communication involves a variety of activities: talking, persuading, teaching, and negotiating. To be able to navigate these activities, it is important to understand what communication is and to develop the skills needed to communicate in college.

1. Ask actively

2. Auxiliary language for inquiries

3. Use your eyes

4. Use your face and hands

5. Use your body

6. Use your voice

7. Listening skills

8. Atmosphere control skills

9. Promotion skills

10. Confident attitude

11. Be considerate of others’ behavior

12. Prompt the other party appropriately

13. Tell the other person directly effectively

14. Make good use of asking and listening

3. Stories about celebrity communication (within 35 words)

Communication stories

●"Is it okay?"

In a rural area in the United States, there lived an old man who had three sons. The eldest son and the second son both work in the city, and the younger son is with him, and father and son depend on each other.

Suddenly one day, a man came to the old man and said to him: "Dear old man, I want to take your little son to the city to work. Is that okay?"

The old man said angrily: "No, absolutely not, get out!"

The man said: "Is it okay if I find a partner for your son in the city?"

The old man shook his head: "No, you go!"

The man added: "What if the person I find for your son, your future daughter-in-law, is Rockefeller's daughter? ”

At this time, the old man was tempted.

A few days later, this man found Rockefeller, the richest man in the United States, the oil tycoon, and said to him: "Dear Mr. Rockefeller, I would like to find a partner for your daughter, is that okay?"

Rockefeller said: "Get out of here!"

The man added: "Is it okay if the person I find for your daughter, your future son-in-law, is the vice president of the World Bank? ?"

Rockefeller agreed.

A few days later, this man found the President of the World Bank and said to him: "Dear Mr. President, you should appoint a vice president immediately!"

Mr. President said : "Impossible, there are so many vice presidents here, why should I appoint a vice president, and it must be immediately?"

This person said: "If the vice president you appoint is Rockefeller's son-in-law, Is that okay? ”

Of course Mr. President agreed.

Although this story is not entirely true and contains many doubts, it embodies the power of communication to a certain extent. This story tells us that confidence is very important when communicating. Only when we are convinced that this matter is beneficial to both parties can we obtain the cooperation of the other party and achieve successful communication. And after recognizing this, we must be unyielding and not afraid of rejection until we achieve the final victory. Communication is a huge subject that cannot be explained clearly in just a few words. Next, let’s take a look at communication skills with a few short stories:

● The Princess’s Moon

A little princess was sick, and she told the king charmingly, if she could If you have the moon, your illness will be cured. The king immediately summoned the wise men in the country and asked them to find a way to get the moon.

The Prime Minister said: "It is thirty-five thousand miles away, bigger than the princess's room, and made of molten copper."

The Magician Said: "It is 150,000 miles away, made of green cheese, and is twice as big as the palace."

The mathematician said: "The moon is 30,000 miles away, round and round." It's as flat as a coin, half the size of the kingdom, and it's stuck in the sky. No one can take it." The king was so annoyed and angry that he asked the court jester to play the harp to relieve his boredom. After the clown asked everything, he came to a conclusion: If these learned people were right, then the moon must be as big and as far away as everyone thought. So the top priority is to find out how big and how far away the moon is in the little princess's mind.

So, the clown visited the princess in her room and asked the princess casually, "How big is the moon?" "Probably a little smaller than the nail of my thumb! Because I just need to point the nail of my thumb to the moon. You can cover it up," said the princess.

"So how far is it?" "It won't be higher than the big tree outside the window! Because sometimes it will get stuck among the treetops."

"What to use? "Where's the gold?" "Of course it's gold!" the princess replied decisively.

Smaller than a thumbnail and shorter than a tree, the moon made of gold is of course easy to hold! The clown immediately went to the goldsmith to make a small moon, put it on a gold chain, and used it as a necklace for the princess. , the princess was so happy, she was cured of her illness the next day.

Explanation: People pay less attention to the real needs of customers and do things entirely according to their own wishes. As a result, no matter how hard they try, the results are always not good. Communication is the best way to grasp the psychology of customers. In addition, it is also very important to choose the content of communication well. Only when the communication content is well selected can we go straight to the topic, be concise and efficient.

● The ability to adapt to changing circumstances

The birds gathered together to elect their king. The peacock said that it was the most beautiful and should be the one, and all the birds immediately agreed. Only the cave bird said disapprovingly: "When you rule the bird kingdom, if an eagle chases us, how will you save us?" The peacock was speechless.

Note: Before communicating, you must be fully prepared, think of any questions that the other party may raise, and formulate response strategies. Otherwise, it will be difficult to convince others to accept your point of view.

● Parrot

A man went to buy a parrot and saw a parrot with a label on the front: This parrot can speak two languages ??and the price is two hundred yuan. Another parrot has a sign in front of it saying: This parrot can speak four languages ??and sells for 400 yuan. Which one should I buy? Both have bright coats and are very flexible and cute. The man was spinning around, unable to make up his mind. As a result, I suddenly found an old and toothless parrot with dull and messy fur, but it was priced at 800 yuan.

The man quickly called the boss: Can this parrot speak eight languages? The shopkeeper said: No. The man was surprised: it was old, ugly, and incompetent, so why was it worth this amount? The shop owner replied: Because the other two parrots called this parrot Boss.

Explanation: Only by finding the right communication partner can communication be successful. Otherwise, no matter how hard you try, it will be in vain. For example, if you are selling a product, no matter how pleasant your conversation with the receptionist is, it may be difficult to sell the product to the company. Only by finding an effective communication partner and someone who can make decisions is the shortcut to communication.

● Maggie Cheung’s business

In a movie, Maggie Cheung played an insurance salesperson. After finally meeting her target customer, the other party gave her a coin and said: It's to pay for her return home. She was very angry at the time. When she turned to leave, she saw a picture of a child hanging in the client's office, so she bowed deeply to the picture and said, "I'm sorry, I can't help you anymore." The client Surprised, he quickly asked what happened, and the first business deal was concluded. It turned out that this client loved his son the most, so he hung his son's paintings in his office and looked at them every day.

Note: The entry point of communication is very important. This requires us to collect enough information, find out what the other party is concerned about, and eliminate their resistance, thereby mobilizing the other party's participation and increasing the probability of successful communication.

● Scholars Buying Materials

There was a scholar who went to buy materials. He said to the person selling materials: "Come here!" "Zhe" (the person who carries the materials), but he understood the word "come here", so he carried the materials in front of the scholar. The scholar asked him, "What's the price?" The seller didn't quite understand the sentence, but he understood the word "price," so he told the scholar the price. The scholar went on to say, "It is solid on the outside but empty on the inside, with a lot of smoke but little flame. Please damage it. (Your wood is dry on the outside but wet on the inside. When it burns, it will be thick with smoke but little flame. Please reduce the price.") )” The man who sold the materials didn’t understand what the scholar said, so he took the materials and left.

Explanation: Communicating in a language that the other party understands is the guarantee for successful communication. If a salesperson explains the benefits of a product to consumers entirely from a technical perspective, I think the effect will not be good.

● The story of selling combs

There is a unit that recruits salesmen. Because the company pays very well, many people are interviewed. In order to test everyone, the manager came up with a topic: let them spend a day selling combs to monks. Many people say this is impossible. Monks have no hair. How can we sell to them? So many people gave up this opportunity. But three people were willing to give it a try. On the third day, they came back.

The first person sold a comb. He said to the manager: "I saw a little monk with a lot of lice on his head. It was very itchy and he scratched it with his hands. I lied to him. He said he would use a comb to scratch his head, so I sold one.

The second person sold 10 combs. He said to the manager: "I found the abbot of the temple and told him that if the hair of a person who goes up the mountain to worship Buddha is messed up by the mountain wind, it means disrespecting the Buddha, which is a sin. If a person is placed in front of each Buddha statue, It would be better if tourists come and comb their hair before praying to Buddha!”

The third person sold 3,000 combs! He said to the manager: "I went to the largest temple and told the abbot directly, do you want to increase your income? The abbot said yes. I told him to put up a slogan in the most prosperous part of the temple, and if you donate money, you will get gifts. What? The gift is a merit comb. This comb has a special feature: it must be combed in a crowded place, so that it can remove bad luck and bring good luck. So many people will comb their hair after donating money, and many people will donate money. We sold 3,000 pieces. ”

Explanation: When communicating, we need to find the other party’s needs and solve them. Only by increasing the value of the other party can we achieve our own expectations.

● Key

A large, solid lock was hung on the door. Even after a lot of effort, an iron rod could not pry it open. When the key came, his thin body got into the keyhole, and with just a slight turn, the big lock opened with a "snap".

The iron rod asked strangely: "Why can't I open it with so much effort, but you opened it easily?"

The key said: "Because I know his heart best.”

Explanation: Everyone’s heart is like a locked door, no matter how thick the iron rod is, you can’t pry it open. Only care can turn oneself into a delicate key, enter the hearts of others and understand others. Therefore, when communicating, you must think more about the other person, exchange your heart with your heart, and move people with your emotions.

We communicate many times every day, but have you noticed the effect of communication? Through the sharing of the above few stories, I believe you should have an understanding of communication skills. Finally, let's sort out the key points of communication:

◆Recognize the benefits of communication, which is a necessary way to solve problems.

◆Be fully prepared before communication, including finding the right communication topic, communication objects, time, environment, etc.

◆Finding the right time and entry point for communication will get twice the result with half the effort.

◆Only those who know how to listen will win the respect of others.

◆Only by solving other people’s problems first and increasing the other person’s value can you increase others’ participation and achieve the purpose of communication.

◆Communicate in a language the other party understands.

◆ Confidence is very important when communicating. Only with full confidence can you speak rationally and powerfully.

A story about communication - -

There are thousands of ways to communicate. Concepts are dead, but living stories, especially those stories of failed communication, may make us grow in embarrassment if we savor them carefully.

Inferiority

In the past, there was a general manager in a subsidiary company I managed. The company was in dire straits, and he behaved at a loss. He didn’t know where to start. The relationship between the company’s upper and lower branches was also tense; Working in a different place, the young and old who are in urgent need of care are thousands of miles away, and I rarely take care of my work and life, which is very hard. The physical hard work can be described, but the mental exhaustion cannot be explained. He has been in office for nearly two years, but his work has not improved. His employees have a lot of opinions, his peers have not agreed with him, and his superiors rarely appreciate him. The taste of being alone is very bitter.

The two of us had a candid exchange. He thought about it and didn't know what the problem was. I told him that the problem was that it was difficult for him to communicate with the people around him. Some frictions up and down, left and right, could be avoided through communication. He said that he also wanted to communicate with others, but others were unwilling. In fact, the decisive factor was internal factors, which depended on whether he had the willingness to communicate with others. He admitted that he was not very good at talking and could not express what he was thinking. In fact, communication is not a matter of speaking skills, but that you must first step out of your own box, become a social person, consider issues from the other person's perspective, and figure out what you want. What the person you are communicating with thinks and cares about. He said that there were not many people thinking about it, so he didn't think about it in this regard. In fact, caring about others is a manifestation of a person's basic qualities. If there is no other person in his heart, how can he figure out what the other person is thinking! He affirmed that in his heart, as an outsider, he never looked down on anyone; in fact, it had nothing to do with looking down on someone in his heart. Sometimes, low self-esteem had more to do with being indifferent to the needs of others. He was surprised and rarely showed his inferiority complex. How could he give me insight? In fact, managers should pay more attention to developing themselves and thinking about themselves, so as to observe the world. Communication issues are ultimately a human issue. The general manager finally woke up, but it was too late. He has reached his forties, and some principles of life have been basically finalized. The opportunities that the market gives to a company and a manager are limited. He agreed to my proposal not to let him be the general manager. Indeed, the inferiority complex in his bones hindered many things.

Chivalry

There is another general manager who is a master of communication from every angle. He graduated from Tsinghua University and has many years of experience as a company manager. He is a northerner who likes to make friends and speaks with a sense of exhilaration. When he took over a company and wanted to make some achievements, he did not consider the entire Taiwan establishment and the mobilization and encouragement of people's hearts and minds. Instead, he adopted a short-term speculative mentality and placed his money solely on monthly sales, while not focusing on some basic The technical issues were ignored and ignored. As a result, due to technical support issues, customer growth has been negative for several consecutive months. He didn't worry about the chaotic financial management. The sales agency didn't reconcile its accounts for a year. He didn't take it seriously. Instead, he wrote bad checks to the agency everywhere, which caused great difficulties to the management at that time and in the future. He was particularly interested in hanging out with marketers. They often drank together and talked extremely speculatively. When the salesperson feels that his salary is low, he encourages the salesperson to open his own stall and run the business; whatever the salesperson needs, he can provide it as long as he has it. Some basic principles of operating a station have disappeared in the confusion of drinks.

He also has a good way of communicating with his superiors, "Don't worry, Mr. Wang," "Mr. Wang, please give me some more time," "But now that I have a knowledgeable boss, I am confident that I can take over the company." ",etc. These comforting words came as soon as he opened his mouth. The first time I said this, it was OK; the second time I said it, my heart beat: I kept saying the same thing but there was no improvement in my work; they just agreed with me in words, but that was not the case in action. I tolerated it, and the employees tolerated it. No, the market cannot tolerate it. Later, I went straight to work. I must arrive at the company before 8:30 every day, and directly arrange for matching and outgoing accounts to be checked. Once this happens, some people will no longer be able to hide. One of the salesmen he trusted most in the past took advantage of management loopholes and played a lot of tricks and was unable to pay the account, so he had to abscond in fear of crime. He wouldn't believe this salesman's escape, even if he were beaten to death.

Common sense in life has repeatedly shown us that communication between fair-weather friends cannot withstand the wind and rain. As long-term friends and confidants, it is not just a temporary exchange of words, but an agreement on some basic things of being a human being. They share their understanding of the world, understand their respective thinking processes, and can enhance each other's happiness in the long term. . These factors that make a confidant not just a matter of having a drink together and having a good time. This manager has two simplifications: first, he simply regards people who have a good time drinking together as available confidants; second, he simply regards the interactions between personal friends as the order of management.

There are some unchanging principles in the company's operation and management, just like people need to eat to breathe. If a company manager trades principles, he will end up being bullied. Not only did the general manager's self-satisfied communication method not bring any benefits to the company, but the salesperson also did not buy into his good intentions and had long ago asserted: "The manager is taking advantage of me." Since you, the manager, can take advantage of him, it is logical for him to take advantage of you, the manager. If the top executive of a company cannot find appropriate communication methods, the company's development goals and tasks cannot be deeply rooted in the hearts of every employee, it cannot establish a comprehensive responsibility system, and it cannot allow employees' creativity to be fully realized. performance, then the top executive is incompetent.

This general manager mistook brotherly loyalty as a way of communicating with employees. In fact, he is still a mixed-character leader. He has no intention of running the company well, lacks the most basic sense of responsibility, and lacks some of the most basic human qualities. thing. Today's harsh market ecology and corporate ecology do not accept such cowards.

Rumors kill people

Communication brings not only happiness, but also annoyance, disgust and even hatred.

A company has suffered the bitter consequences of this kind of improper communication. There were active people who were keen on gossip. Zhang San said something about Li Si, Li Si said something about Zhang San, and then Wang Wu said something. Later, "Shuo San" became "Dao Si", and was even magnified exponentially. What's worse is that the managers of the department have also intentionally or unintentionally joined this evil trend and become the source of the trend (the words of managers are destined to become the source of the trend).

Why? If you calm down and think about it, you will understand: when he talks incessantly, the interlocutor has disappeared from the human sense, leaving only a body, object or waste paper that carries his voice; ignoring other people's existence, will eventually be ignored by others. I guess this is why he loses friends or partners.

Reason cannot control emotions

Another general manager also has a lot to remember. He graduated from the philosophy department of a prestigious university and is good at using his brain when thinking about problems and doing things. Because of his bad temper, he was sued and jailed. There was a fierceness about him. If you do everything in a pompous manner, you are most afraid of being looked down upon. At any point in time, you are particularly sensitive to your own position, authority, dignity, etc. That overly sensitive, fragile mentality of waiting for others to confirm value often makes him fall into endless imagination, and finally plunges himself into the abyss of bad emotions.

He is a face-conscious person. He has been struggling to get a job, and he is also anxious. When he is anxious, his mood becomes even more unstable. Often in the clear clear sky, lightning and thunder suddenly occur. Employees were afraid of him and soon developed a habit of saying only what he wanted to say. Imagination again exercised its mission to save him. He regards the management of his superiors as pressure from villains, the help of peers as power grabbing, and the initiative of subordinates as malicious intentions. In the end, everyone above, below, left, and right became his enemies. In a hostile atmosphere, one person cannot be expected to play a positive role. People who are guilty, fragile, and incompetent often present themselves as confident, strong, and omnipotent. This is the lesson he taught me.

Passionate as fire but calculated against

There is a friend who likes to communicate with others the most. If you give him a sincerity, he will be doubly sincere in exchange for you. When he meets someone who has a crush on him, he will turn out every corner of his heart and bask in the sun.

But some time ago, he was very troubled and in a low mood. The reason was that a new person in the company sat with him and told him directly about his tragic experience. My friend seemed to be the only person he could talk to in this world, and it was a fate determined in his previous life. Inseparable for days, a lonely and helpless man waiting for help. How could my friend stand up to this situation? Suddenly there was no sense of distance, and I told him everything about the relationship between the company. When chatting with a close friend, of course one must take into account one's own subjective feelings. My friend shook off all the subtle distance between himself and everyone with this person.

Unexpectedly, after a while, some colleagues began to look at him strangely, especially those who usually have a little pimples. Then he saw that the new person who was inseparable from him began to distance himself from him, and often mixed up with people he was not comfortable with, laughing and joking. Gradually, what he had said to that person before began to spread in the company, and some people came to confront him. An unfriendly atmosphere discouraged my friend.

Looking at his desolate look, I congratulated him! I said, this time I was tricked, should I know the price of passion? This is a good thing. As for the discomfort we are experiencing now, it will pass soon. I judge that this newcomer is the kind of scoundrel who trades his own privacy for the privacy of others, and then exposes the privacy of others for fun. There was nothing he could do to stop this behavior. This time I hurt my friend, and soon everyone who comes in contact with him will be hurt. The secret to self-preservation is not to take him seriously. My friend felt relieved when he thought about it. Sure enough, within half a year, the newcomer could no longer stay in the company.

4. What are some books about celebrity stories?

Here is a good book,,,,,,,

Book title: Celebrity Stories

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Celebrity Photo Album

Author: Co-author: Jun Jun

Publisher: Nanjing University Press

Published Time: December 2009

Format: 16 pages

Price: 10.8 yuan

5. Are there any stories about celebrities reading books

There may be some in "Celebrity Stories"

6. Celebrity stories about reading

Confucius taught students in accordance with their aptitude

Sun Wu trained soldiers

Zeng Zi valued integrity

Su Qin stabbed his buttocks

Zhang Liang picked up his shoes

Han Xin was humiliated under his crotch

Sima Qian endured the humiliation and wrote "Historical Records"

Scientist Zhang Heng

Respected with admiration

Miracle doctor Hua Tuo

Wen Ji returned to Han

Hearing the chicken and dancing

"Don't give up for five measures of rice"

Emperor Xiaowen of Wei moved the capital to Luoyang

Fan Zhen opposed superstition

Wei Zheng offended Yan Zhijian

"Iron The story of "grinding a pestle into a needle"

Fan Zhongyan "painted porridge with broken bones"

Su Dongpo's high moral integrity

Bao Zheng's handling of the case

Wen Tianxiang " "Leave pictures to illuminate history"

Song Lian visited his teacher in the snow

Yu Qian's sleeves were refreshing

Li Shizhen and "Compendium of Materia Medica"

Zheng Chenggong regained Taiwan

Gu Yan never let go of the scroll

Kangxi captured Obei wisely

Lin Zexu sold out cigarettes in Humen

Tan Sitong died generously

Cai Yuanpei teaches students

Li Dazhao teaches his children well

Studying for the rise of China

Tao Xingzhi runs a school with hardship

Aristotle Germany

Archimedes

Spartacus' Revolt

Marco Polo's Travels to China

Dante and "The Divine Comedy" "

Joan of Arc

Leonardo da Vinci

Copernicus and the "Heliocentric Theory"

Magellan's Global Voyage

"Knowledge is power

William Shakespeare

Galileo challenged authority

Voltaire

The "Father of the Founding" of the United States Washington

"Code Napoleon"

Beethoven who held his fate in his hands

Balzac

Darwin and the Theory of Evolution

"Bringing my heart back to the motherland"

The ambitious Karl Marx

Nightingale and "International Nurses Day"

Revolutionary poet Petofi

Tolstoy

Dunant and the International Red Cross

Nobel and dynamite

Edison Research Electric light

Marie Curie

The Wright brothers invented the airplane

Churchill

Einstein forgot his address

Helen ·Keller

Baird invented television

Chaplin was not afraid of the Nazis

"I have a dream"