Hangzhou nanny arson trial suspended. Why did the kind master raise the baiwenhang instead?

The arson case of nanny makes people cry, especially in the face of three children's smiling faces like flowers, and they hate the heinous behavior of nanny. It can also be seen from some of the contents exposed in the case that the hostess has been very good to the nanny and has been lending money to her. Nanny's arson is also intended to be put out after it is lit, so as to invite merits and rewards. Why do nannies take advantage of the kindness of their masters again and again?

First of all, the heart is too soft. Don't watch others suffer, you'd rather suffer yourself and help. Don't the owners of arson know that they borrowed so much money and used the income of the nanny to pay back what? It is very likely that the meat steamed stuffed bun hit the dog and never came back. Some people may say that the owner has money and doesn't care about these tens of thousands. In fact, there are many rich and heartless people, aren't there? In the final analysis, it is not because of money, but because of being too kind and too soft-hearted.

Second, the money was exposed. Lending money to a nanny is 60 thousand at once, which in ordinary families, even if you want to borrow it, I'm afraid you are powerless. The host must let the nanny discover or realize the superior economic conditions from her daily life, step by step from borrowing money to arson. The owner can find some reasons to make the appearance that the economic conditions are not very good: although he lives in a mansion, he has to pay off the mortgage, raise three children and his husband's business is sluggish. If the nanny sees that the owner's economic conditions are average and there is no oil and water to fish for, will she still try her best to design a deadly trap?

Third, carelessness. Nannies not only borrow money, but also steal things. She went to the pawnshop to pawn tens of thousands of dollars, but neither the man nor the woman found it. The man is very busy every day, so I don't talk. What about the hostess? I didn't even know that such an expensive watch was lost. I don't care so much about my property and I don't take precautions. I can't guarantee that others will be tempted by money. Nanny stole it this time and should rob it next time.

Fourth, in order to have a good relationship with the nanny. Some families rely heavily on nannies. A little flattery from the nanny can help her to be kind to your family where you can't see it. Don't go too far. The general public will have this kind of psychology.

Fifth. Some baiwenhang were born. She doesn't care whether you are kind or soft-hearted. No matter what kind of person she is, she will do whatever it takes to achieve her goal. If you meet such a person, it's your bad luck. All you can do is recognize their faces and stay away.