How lucky is Li Jian to marry a childhood girl and keep a low profile?

"Just because I took one more look at you in the crowd, I will never forget your face."

In Li Jian's album, many songs are written for his wife Meng Xiaobei. They are childhood lovers, and they have gone through the hard years of life together. Known as "the purest love in the entertainment circle", they spend their whole lives writing the true meaning of love. How much do you know about the story behind this?

On the love network of childhood friends, there have been reports that Li Jian cheated, kept a mistress, and amorous people collapsed. However, when Li Jian's studio only replied, "No clue on vacation", everyone immediately believed the rumor. After all, if both Li Jian and his wife have emotional problems, then no one in this world really dares to believe in love.

All along, people's understanding of Li Jian's wife is limited to his songs. Every time an album is released, there are always several stories about my wife, which are particularly touching to the listeners. People can't help thinking, who is the "you" that keeps appearing in the lyrics, and will make all talented musicians give in?

I met my wife and said, "She is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen." The folk singer who has been to his house also said that "Li Jian's wife lives a poetic life". Even Lu Yu said, "How did you find such a girl?" . We listened to the generous praise of everyone who met Li Jian's wife, and we didn't know that this girl was far better than we thought until we got to know her.

As we all know, Li Jian has a strong personal label "Tsinghua gifted scholar", but so does his wife. Li Jian is five years older than his wife. Because the two families are family friends and have known each other since childhood. In Li Jian High School, both of them lost their childishness and looked at each other with strange feelings.

When Li Jian was admitted to Tsinghua University, the girl had a dream to follow him. Finally, she got her wish, and the girl was admitted to Tsinghua University, where she studied all the way and got her doctorate. However, after graduating from college, Li Jian chose to listen to his parents and began to engage in practical work such as network engineering. But I have a musical dream in my heart. How could I possibly be willing to give in to this small office space?

For an ordinary family, music is a bit whimsical. Many people don't support his dream, only that girl has been with him and is his most loyal fan. It was difficult for music to become famous, and it was hit by reality again and again, but Li Jian didn't give up, and even more girls wouldn't.

Your dream, I guard, in fact, many people should not know that this "Tsinghua girl" is properly rich and beautiful. Although the two families are family friends, the girl's family is much better than Li Jian's. Besides, girls are also notoriously beautiful. Highly admired, he was invited by talent scouts three times, and he was also a "class flower" and "school flower" at school.

But the girl never wanted to enter this circle. She just wants to do what she likes, and supports Li Jian's dream as always. She accompanied Li Jian to join the band "Time in Shui Mu" and quit at the peak of the band. From infinite scenery to obscurity, Li Jian will always have this loyal fan around him.

In music, Li Jian is excellent. He doesn't want to compromise for money, and he doesn't want to give up his heart for fame. Even in those seven difficult years, Li Jian was still the truest self. Bai once commented that "Li Jian's music is a luxury of this era, bringing people high-level happiness", which is the goal he has been pursuing.

But it is not only Li Jian himself who suffers from this goal, but also the girl who has been following him. Maybe in their own family, girls should live like little princesses. Parents are extremely fond of their daughter, which can be seen from what she wears and uses. But after following Li Jian, the girl seems to live a hard life like an angel falling into the dust.

After becoming famous, Li Jian once recalled that painful time, "The house I rented was hot in Leng Xia in winter". But the girl didn't complain, and she lived the same life as him. It was not until 20 10 that Faye Wong sang his Legend on the stage of the Spring Festival Evening that they finally got rid of their material difficulties.

In everyone's impression, Li Jian is a man who yearns for freedom. But the siege of marriage, for love, he is willing to be trapped. Fortunately, the girl who loved him didn't want him to be wronged at all, and turned her marriage into a warm home in Li Jian. Here, Li Jian can do whatever it wants, no matter how the world judges it.

After becoming famous, Li Jian naturally got some income. But he never thought about buying a house, investing and making big money. As before, I rented a house with slightly better conditions and spent all the money I earned on buying guitars and making music to contribute to my dreams. Such Li Jian, his wife also cooperated with him and lived a poetic life.

Although written in songs, Li Jian has many hobbies for music. But in his love for his wife, Li Jian is like a little boy who just fell in love. He clearly remembers the little details of getting along with his wife, writes his love for his wife in a song and sings it over and over again. There is a lyric "The most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old with you". However, for Li Jian, "the most romantic thing is that she is always in my singing".

After becoming famous, many people pay attention to their social accounts. Looking at them, "little shells" and "Mr. Holiday" share the sweetness of life, as if the online world has become fresh and moving because of them. Everyone called the dog food full, and the love between Li Jian and his wife also attracted many people's attention. In order to make everyone concentrate on listening to Li Jian's music, girls gradually seldom share their stories in public.

With the competition "I am a singer", Li Jian became famous and became a first-class musician. He is busy with concerts, albums and music conferences. But at the concert, he will put the music background of singing on a photo with his wife, clearly telling everyone that this is a song for his wife.

20 18 took his wife to a concert in Andy Lau, and was photographed by passers-by and sat watching his wife's mobile phone. 20 19 was photographed shopping hand in hand many times. Some time ago, when The Voice of China was recorded, Li Jian's wife appeared backstage to make tea for her husband. Every time they are in the same box, they look full of love.

Li Jian is 46 years old. When asked why he didn't have children, he also said humorously, "Our genes are not good enough for people to inherit", but beyond this sentence, we can see his confidence in marriage. Li Jian and his wife can live happily in a childless marriage. Isn't it the best proof to say "honeymoon all my life"?

Conclusion With decades of companionship, they wrote the best look of love. Love should be like this. Both of them are willing to pay for each other and are grateful to the other half. I hope everyone in love can remember their initial heart like Li Jian. Fast-paced life, surrounded by material things, have we found the other half in tune?