Philosophy of life Good night greetings.

Lead: indifference, sometimes not heartless, is just a tool to avoid being hurt. The following is my collection of good night philosophy, welcome to read for reference!

1, the world is inherently painful, without exception.

When you cling to something, you can only have it. If you are willing to let go, you will have a chance to choose something else. If a person insists on his own ideas in his heart and refuses to let go, then his wisdom can only reach a certain level.

3. Avenue to Jane! Classics are simple, the reason is simple, and the most useful things are relatively simple things. Complexity will cause waste, while efficiency comes from simplicity. Find the key parts and remove the redundant ones, and success will be less complicated.

There are never perfect people and things in the world. Children who never make mistakes will grow up to be mediocre or make big mistakes sooner or later. Therefore, we should moderately lower our expectations and requirements for children, encourage them to face their shortcomings and mistakes frankly, encourage them not to be afraid of making mistakes in their attempts, and pay attention to the experience and gains of the process. Good boy? Mask.

Life is counting down from the beginning. Don't let unnecessary trifles consume limited living fuel. It is best not to do or do as little as possible what is not worth doing. Because that will not only waste time and energy, but also release yourself? Busy? The wrong signal gives you superficial self-comfort and illusory satisfaction. When you wake up, you will find that you haven't done everything you should, and the vicissitudes of time have already covered your cheeks.

6, survival is actually very simple, just refuse to fall; Survival is actually very simple, just have the courage to retreat; Survival is actually very simple, don't be bound by the successful model; Survival is actually very simple. If you win, keep quiet. Survival is actually very simple, just choose to be strong in a tough environment; Survival is actually very simple, just turn defects into motivation.

7. There is only one way of grading in society, and that is competition. You must work hard, or you will be crushed at the bottom of society.

8. If you can find your own shortcomings as accurately as others, your life will be extraordinary. The first concept of learning Buddhism is never to look at the faults of all beings. Seeing the faults of all beings will pollute themselves. If you see the faults and right and wrong of all beings every day, then you should repent quickly. This is an exercise!

9. If you become strong enough, others can't refuse you; If you can direct yourself, difficulties can't stop you? Only by changing yourself first can you change your world and your life.

10, people are on the journey, don't take everything, nothing can be put down. No matter how fragrant the flowers, no matter how dense the forest and no matter how dense the river are, they will all go into the sea. No matter how warm the sun is, no matter how beautiful the girl is, she will grow old. What can we carry forever? Even if we insist on mentioning the finish line, we will eventually put it down, and we will let later people test it.

1 1. The saddest thing in life is not to lose too much yesterday, but to be immersed in yesterday's sadness; The most painful thing for people is not that they can't get the people they love, but that they can't get happiness; The happiest thing in life is not the happiness brought by others, but the happiness you bring to others; The most confusing thing in life is not choosing, but not knowing what you want; The most puzzling thing in life is not that you can't see others clearly, but that you don't know yourself.

12, whether you are happy or not in your life often does not depend on how much you have. Therefore, don't care about giving and harvesting, and don't always let yourself be in the unhappiness of asking for it. Asking for trouble is probably the biggest self-grievance in life. Why do you want to wronged yourself? Don't be like this, and don't always feel that you are always missing something. As long as you are happy, you want nothing.

13, don't calculate too much, let nature take its course, and you will get it in the end.

14, don't fantasize about being the darling of the job fair. When you understand that 70% of junior high school students can go to college, you will understand that people will not worship the majority of a group.

15. Take dependence, persuasion, happiness, sweetness, love and being loved, and seat belts as examples.

16, Xia shopkeeper in "Crossing the East" said: No one wants to deal with people who are always hypocritical and smooth, but being honest blindly can also hurt people. Therefore, businessmen pay attention to great integrity, that is, to say the right words to the right people at the right time. ? It can be seen that there are actually very few opportunities for everyone to tell the truth. If honesty is a kind of injury, then please choose tact? Lies

17. No one in the world can succeed on his own. There must be many people who are helping you intentionally or unintentionally behind your success. You should always be grateful to them.

18, everyone in the world is completing two major accumulations? Accumulation of knowledge and experience; Accumulation of capital and reputation. When you think you have completed these two accumulations, whatever you want to do, you will succeed.

19, there are no talents in the world, only people who don't know how to sell themselves; The truth is that you are not good enough and you don't work hard enough.

20. Vows are actually unreliable. The most reliable thing is a firm belief in the heart. The most important thing to love a person is not a vow of eternal love or sweet words, but the belief that we will grow old together in our hearts. Once the faith collapses and drifts away with the wind, the person who once vowed is left with fragmented fragments. You know, some trivial things in life can better reflect his affection for you, and that is the password of love.

2 1, bending knows how to bend, in order not to break the integrity; Sometimes, proper bending is a reason; In reality, bending contains rich philosophy. Learn to bow your head to follow suit; Sometimes, proper bending is a kind of detachment; In life, bending embodies the art of tolerance. Dare to bend, in order to stand more stable; Sometimes, proper bending is a state; Actually bending can solve annoying problems.

22. Treat people with moderation and accept when it is good. Greed will send you to the grave. Give people enough face and help people save face; Forgiving others and forgiving others are both bad. Keep it, too many disputes are not good for yourself; Even the best relationship should be intimate; Grasp the standard of joking and don't be too humorous.

23. Happiness is not for showing off, nor for comparison, but for feeling. Happiness is like drinking water, not a distant goal, but enjoying the present process. As long as you have a grateful heart, grateful for life, grateful for life, grateful for everyone who cares about you, happiness is everywhere, all the time. Remember: what we pursue is our own happiness, not? Happier than others? !

24. Happiness is not getting more, but caring less; People who live a confused life are easy to be happy; People who live a sober life are easily troubled. Sober people look too real, and when they look too real, their lives are full of troubles; Confused people don't care much. Although life is simple and rough, they find the great taste of life.

25. Happiness will not wait. If you love someone, you have to declare it boldly. As long as you work hard, you won't regret it in the future. If you miss a beautiful love because of silence, you may suffer for life. If you have love in your heart, say it out loud. Only by bravely expressing your love can love have no regrets.

26. What's wrong with small evils? Small rot can make oranges sweeter, small faults can make men cuter, and small moles can make beautiful women's faces more charming. Some defects are a gift from God. Be kind to them, and you will have unexpected gains.

27. People who envy others will always envy others if they only stay in envy. Learn to envy yourself, then know how to be grateful and finally win success. There are many admirers in the world, but few people worship themselves. If you do what most people don't do, you will win the support of most people. Learn to envy yourself, and you will cherish what you have more easily. Learning to envy yourself is actually being good at discovering your own strengths and strengths. What suits your life is the best.

28. Modern people sum up several elements of success: correct thinking, unremitting action, great personality, skillful skills, godsend opportunities and precious health. It can be seen that if you want to succeed, you can't just eat? Bitter? , but also with the support of relevant conditions, those who only know how to endure hardships, those who have suffered hardships that are not worth eating, and those who regard hardship as a magic weapon to solve all problems, I am afraid they can only continue to do it? Bitter? Wandering in a strange circle.

29, first learn to follow the crowd, and then learn to be different; Learn complexity first, then learn simplicity; Learn to love yourself first, and then learn to love others; Learn to love the people you love first, and then learn to love your friends; Learn how to live first, and then learn to experience life; Learn to be a man first, and then learn to be an official; Ask yourself first, then ask others; Learn to adapt first, then learn to be independent!

30. Our life is really hard. First of all, we have to bear all kinds of external pressures, but we also have to face our own inner confusion. In the struggle, if someone gives you an understanding look, you will feel the warmth of life, perhaps just a brief glance is enough to make me feel excited.

3 1, we: we can be short of money, but we can't be wicked; You can make mistakes, but you can't break your word; You can fall, but you can't kneel; You can ask for a name, but you can't steal it; Can be low, but can't fall; Can relax, but can't indulge; Can be vain, but not hypocritical; Can be ordinary, but not mediocre; You can be romantic, but not dissolute; You can be angry, but you can't make trouble; You can be casual, but you can't be casual.

32, the distance of happiness, sometimes near, sometimes far, thinking that it is close at hand, in fact, it is still at the end of the world. A quiet life is like a cup of boiled water, which tastes tasteless, but we don't know that it is its purity that makes our life happy. People who know how to live will taste sweetness and happiness in the plain.

33. Happiness is not complicated! When you are hungry, the meal is happy and full. When thirsty, water is happy and enough to drink; When it is cold, clothes are happiness, just enough to wear; When you are poor, money is happiness, just enough; When you are tired, leisure is happiness and can be smooth enough; When you are sleepy, sleeping is happiness, just right. When you love, you care about happiness; When you leave, you remember happiness. Life is not determined by heaven and happiness, but by the heart.

34. What should come will come sooner or later. Love those who want to love. None of us can win the race against time. Face everything calmly and indifferently. When you meet someone you like, you should cherish the fate. Whether it is a passer-by in life or a long-term confidant, it is a beautiful memory of life. It's rare to have a few real friends in the crowd. Please don't care about this feeling and cherish the people in front of you.

35. Say a comforting word to the embarrassed person, an encouraging word to the depressed person, a reminding word to the confused person, a confident word to the self-abased person, and a comforting and sympathetic word to the frustrated person. It's better to give charcoal in the snow than to add icing on the cake.

36. China's artistic movements originated from mountains and rivers; The action of western art originated from women.

37. Smile contains rich meanings and conveys touching emotions. No wonder a philosopher said: smile is the most beautiful expression of human beings.

38, people should be both rigid and flexible, and the outer circle is inside. If a person doesn't stand up at all, he is too manly.

39. Our bodies need to be cleaned regularly to keep clean. Similarly, our souls need to be cleaned regularly. The former uses water, while the latter uses people or things that move us.

40. Many facts have proved that success is often inseparable from honesty. Honesty is a kind of? Good people? The most basic personality element is also the most basic moral requirement of being a man.

4 1, indifference, sometimes not heartless, is just a tool to avoid being hurt.

42. Who deserves your tears won't make you cry.

43. A man will remember the woman who made him cry, and a woman will remember the man who made her laugh.

44. Being a good person depends on a kind heart. Being a good person depends on a fickle face.

45. Don't say how good you are, others generally won't believe you. Don't say how bad you are, others will generally believe you.

46. When you are proud, your friends know you. When you are in trouble, you will make friends.

47. Right and wrong; People use their mouths, and I use my ears. In the busy fields; People go forward, I go back.

48、 ? Unfortunately? It is a university that no one has applied for, but every year it enrolls students, and those who can graduate are all powerful.

49. It is lucky and unfortunate that people can only see the brilliance of something after it disappears.

50. True sadness cannot be calculated in days, but pervades every moment.

5 1, wrong is a temporary regret, missed is a permanent regret! Don't be afraid of mistakes, afraid of missing them?

I would rather forgive others myself than let others forgive you.