Freshmen in Hengshui are on fire: it is forbidden to use all electronic devices such as mobile phones!

On August 20 th, a news screen about the "Admission Rules for Freshmen in Hengshui" caused a lot of heated discussions.

The instructions for freshmen announced by the school wrote:

Standard hairstyles for boys and girls:

As soon as the freshman's request comes out, there are comments on the internet. Most parents applaud, but some people say it's normal. What is there to discuss?

Indeed, many schools have formulated and implemented such requirements in recent years, but why is it being discussed by everyone now? Because there are still many schools that don't pay enough attention to students' behavior requirements and self-discipline, and even the rules are like decorations, which are not strictly enforced. There are also many children who dye their hair, roll up, dress strangely, and secretly play with their mobile phones to call school.

This is also the source of parents' worries. They should be struggling youths, but they waste precious time on unimportant things. Take cutting short hair and banning mobile phones as an example. With the growth of age, children are in a period of youth and ignorance, and it is inevitable that they will love beauty. Many boys will want to dress up. Even many boys are more complacent than girls, and this series of behaviors can easily lead to a decline in learning attention and lack of time.

Not to mention the mobile phone. In recent years, parents are most concerned about teenagers' addiction to the Internet.

Children are in an important period of personality development, their outlook on life is not perfect, and their self-control is far from enough. They have already fallen into the hardest hit area of Internet addiction, and it is not uncommon for them to drop out of school because they are addicted to mobile phones, which is extravagant.

On the one hand, with the rapid development of the Internet and the arrival of the information age, the source of children's knowledge is no longer textbooks, but a richer library of materials comes from the Internet. Many schools even use electronic equipment in class and homework. Mobile phones, iPad and computers are used by many children as excuses and use the internet as a learning tool.

It is conceivable that a complete ban is impossible and unscientific, not to mention the establishment and implementation of the school mechanism. Even if the school forbids carrying mobile phones, the children won't hand in a stolen one, will they? And once you get rid of the shackles of school (weekends, winter and summer vacations), will children still worry about not touching their mobile phones at home? Moreover, blindly prohibiting repression can only cause children's strong rebellious psychology. Everything you say at this time is for your own good. If he thanks me later, he will only think that you are hurting him.

Instead of being bitter, it is better to let the children really thank you with practical actions! Everyone knows that they intend to give each other some benefits immediately after giving them a lesson ... so that they can gradually forget the pain of being taught last time, which is what we usually call carrots and sticks. It is also a truth to implement when children are addicted to mobile phones for a long time. Parents can stop it by some means, and then give appropriate rewards according to the specific behavior of their children.

However, the stop here does not mean that the mobile phone was confiscated and smashed. Leave some room and give each other a little hope, so that this rule can continue. At present, the most effective way for most parents is to use some software that can control their children's mobile phones, and gradually cultivate their self-discipline by setting the time period for their children to surf the Internet. Among them, the gray box has good response and powerful time management and software management functions. Parents can set their children's reading and rest time with one click, automatically lock the screen when they arrive, or remotely restrict or prohibit the use of game applications, and then add some small rewards at an appropriate time, such as "I can give you half an hour more online time during this time", so that children can taste some sweetness while suffering, and prevent children from overusing.

The formation of good behavior habits does not happen overnight, and it needs to be persisted over time. In addition to children's efforts, school management is inseparable from parents' companionship and supervision!