The workplace was defeated by the embarrassment of having nothing to say.

The workplace was defeated by the embarrassment of having nothing to say.

Don't panic if these phenomena occur in the workplace. If you want to work hard to climb up, you must be fully prepared. Improving your ability is the most important thing. Learning from colleagues can save you a lot of trouble. Let me show you the embarrassment of failure in the workplace.

The workplace was defeated by embarrassment 1 Fei Xia, 24 years old, male, auditor.

The elevator goes from 10 floor to 1 floor. In less than a minute, I regretted it for months.

The root of the disease happened when I first entered the company. One afternoon, I received a phone call saying that there was something wrong with the customer and asked me to go there quickly. I walked quickly to the elevator and pressed the down button. "10", the number on the display screen jumped twice, and the elevator door opened. I walked in, looked up and got a fright: "Hello, Zhao ... Zhao Zong." In the company, Zhao is always the absolute "number one", he is out and out.

As soon as the elevator door closed, in this narrow space of less than two square meters, only Zhao Zong and I were left. "Hello." Zhao Zong nodded his head. It's my turn to speak again. What should I say? It seems inappropriate to say "where are you going"? The whereabouts of the leader is none of my business. It seems a bit much to brag about "you look particularly energetic today". He doesn't know who I am, and I set it close to ... countless thoughts flashed through his mind and were quickly rejected. "Seven, six, five ..." I mused on the number of floors displayed on the screen and tried my best to think about countermeasures. The air is full of tension and embarrassment.

By some strange coincidence, I suddenly said, "Are you going out?" "hmm." Zhao Zong is still so precious to words. I'm about to collapse. Finally, I endured "1", and I felt relieved, as if I had been pardoned. "Zhao Zong, I'll go first." Say that finish this sentence, I hurried to the outside.

What Shantou Recruitment Network never expected was that when I rushed out, the elevator door closed immediately. "Crash" 1, Zhao Zong hit the door, the door is ready to go upstairs for a meeting of the leaders. They are waiting for the elevator. When they saw such a scene, they all held back their laughter and kept silent. ...

I don't know why. I was very unhappy for the next two months. Resignation is the only option.

New life advice: leaders are also people. Although they are as nervous as tigers. You know, the more nervous they are, the more likely they are to make mistakes. When we meet for the first time, it is necessary to simply say hello and say hello. When the elevator opens, hold down the door key and let the leader go first. This is the first lesson in the workplace. If you don't learn well, you should reflect.

Jokes get twice the result with half the effort.

Cenmai, 3 1 year old, male, sales supervisor.

There was silence in the elevator. Someone just nodded and looked down at the phone. Actually, the signal is not strong, so I can't send a text message. This fake action is just to cover up the inner embarrassment. The elevator stops at 13 floor. I went in and saw Mr. Chen in the elevator. She is wearing a new dress, which is very beautiful. I blurted out, "Hey, it's Manager Chen. I thought it was the new intern in the company!" " "

Cheerful laughter rang out in the elevator. Mr. Chen, who was nearly 40 years old, blushed, but his expression was crossed. To be honest, I don't think it's necessary to be so dead in the company. Colleagues like my cheerfulness and sunshine, and I am willing to bring them some jokes. A teasing can make everyone happy. Why not?

Unexpectedly, this joke has become a well-known saying of our company. Now as soon as I appear in the elevator, many MMS make fun of me. Do I look like an intern? Everyone is very happy. In a one-square-meter elevator, it sometimes needs to be easily adjusted.

New life advice: typical smart people put praise on the bright side, colleagues are happy and leaders nourish them. In fact, there are not many profound things in elevator philosophy. First of all, relax and say something relaxed. If you are good at humor, you will be more likable. But don't joke without discretion. Grasping the scale is the key.

Escape from the elevator = give up the opportunity

Xiao Su, 27 years old, female, planning commissioner.

My personality is very introverted, I don't like complicated interpersonal relationships, and I hate flattery more. The narrow space in the elevator is always full of depression and embarrassment. I can't say anything nice, but it makes me sick to hear others praise leaders from their clothes, shoes and hair.

Once, I met a strange man in the elevator. After nodding, he enthusiastically asked me which department I was in and praised me for being tall and handsome. I fled back to the office, and then Xiao Chen at the next table told me that he was the big boss of the Beijing head office, Mr. Zhang!

It's none of my business. Sometimes when I see leaders gathered at the elevator door, I'd rather eat more than climb to the eighth floor. I always feel that I am not suitable for such an occasion.

At the end of the year, Chen Xiao, who came one and a half years later than me, was promoted! It is said that she likes to brag about her leader in the elevator. Once she exaggerated that the manager forgot to get out of the elevator! I'm not convinced. Why can I get promoted by saying a few good words? Then I won't have to work. Let's see who will say it.

New life advice:

Where there are people, it is the rivers and lakes. If you don't want to be contaminated with human dust at all, don't go to work and go home to rest. Don't always equate flattery with flattery Life needs happiness and relaxation, just like you and me. When you are in the Jianghu, you should seize the opportunity, especially when the elevator gives you such a good opportunity. It is a pity to miss it.

Are you familiar with interpersonal distance theory? Within 45 cm is the intimate distance, and 46-76 cm is the private distance, which is a more suitable distance for acquaintances and friends. If you are not familiar with it, you should at least 1.2 m to avoid feeling uncomfortable. And a square meter elevator is the best place for subtle relationships. Don't underestimate the distance of this square meter. Whether you are likable in the workplace or not, and whether the boss has an impression on you, can all happen quietly here.

In the love story in Tokyo, Wan Ji introduced himself loudly when he met someone on the first day of work, which made his colleagues sit up and take notice. This is the "elevator raiders" in Japanese dramas. Extending to our side, a large website subsequently launched a survey on "elevator complex of professionals", in which more than 9,000 professionals participated. The result shows that there is a lot of knowledge in the elevator.

According to the survey, 8 1.6% of the working people work in high-rise buildings with elevators, and 96% of them go to work by elevator every day. 60% of people in the workplace said they were uncomfortable taking the elevator with their leaders. However, with the increase of working years, the proportion of feeling uncomfortable decreased slightly. Among them, 50% people in the workplace will greet their leaders normally, and 40% people in the workplace will keep silent after greeting their leaders, or pretend to read their files or mobile phones to avoid embarrassment caused by lack of topics. However, senior professionals who have worked 10 years or more said that after greeting their bosses and colleagues in the elevator, they basically did not communicate, especially avoided talking about business.

With the hot discussion in the workplace, "White-collar Elevator Raiders" is quietly popular on the Internet. For example, "If the boss is thinking or obviously doesn't want to talk, there is no need to find a topic", "You can pay attention to some conversation materials in case of emergency" and "Don't stare at the other person's eyes when talking in the elevator, bow your head appropriately".

The workplace was defeated by the embarrassment of having nothing to say. 2 solutions to embarrassing scenes.

Method 1, humor

Humor is a kind of wisdom, which can make complex problems simple and difficult things easy. When encountering "embarrassment" in the workplace, clever use of humor as a weapon often leads to unexpected gains. Of course, humor also needs to be mastered, and it can't be used for anyone or any occasion. Don't make fun of colleagues who are not very outgoing.

Method 2: Harmless

The so-called "circus" is the pursuit of a happy ending, and its purpose is to protect the opposing sides from harm. Therefore, when you are in chin, you must consider the possible harm to the other party. Being kind to people is a way of life, and it is easy to be accepted as a friend.

Method 3: Rationalization

When making excuses, you need to get the recognition of the other party, which is success. Otherwise, if the excuse makes the other person feel particularly fake, it will be counterproductive. How to check whether it is a reasonable excuse? You can put yourself in your shoes and see if this excuse can convince you.

Method four, a good attitude.

If we don't have a correct attitude towards the embarrassing problems in the workplace, then the first three weapons are useless. On the contrary, if you can sincerely despise these so-called "embarrassments" and don't take them as a serious matter, you have won psychologically. Once you put your mind right, you will have the ability to fully mobilize your humor and wisdom, and you can also easily resolve the adverse effects caused by embarrassment, thus adding points to your career development.