44-year-old aunt: You promise me five conditions and let me be a live-in nanny, otherwise there is no chance.

Clue:

Nowadays, people's material and spiritual needs are growing day by day, and people have higher requirements for quality and service, involving all walks of life. People pay more attention to service attitude when the quality of goods is the same. Maybe he will continue to visit this store next time because of his good service attitude, but if the service quality of this store is not good, it may give him negative publicity and even never spend money again.

Perhaps people in the fifties and sixties paid more attention to cost performance. When choosing, they often choose objects with fair price and good quality. But now the society is different, because people's living standards have improved and they pay more attention to quality life.

Young people enjoy the high-quality life brought by the fast-paced era. Nowadays, artificial intelligence allows young people to enjoy services at home, while the elderly can't enjoy the convenience and services brought by this network because of their slow acceptance. Although they can't use artificial intelligence, they can improve their quality of life through artificial services.

The artificial service mentioned here mostly refers to finding a nanny to serve herself. Now the nanny industry is developing rapidly. As long as someone is willing to pay, the nanny is willing to contribute. When people are old and slow to move, sometimes they can't take care of their personal lives, so they treat them as nannies. Of course, the service to the nanny is matched with her labor remuneration. The more money you pay, the better the service you enjoy.

Employers are naturally satisfied with those 24-hour live-in nannies, but nannies are a little worried. After all, after staying in the employer for a long time, you should also pay attention to your own safety. That's what Aunt Kim thinks. She said: "I can be a live-in nanny for 24 hours, but I have five conditions." Promise me these conditions first, or I won't do it. "

Aunt Jin, 44, said:

As early as when I was young, I thought I was a happy woman. Although my family conditions are not good, I have a very warm family. I met my husband at work. After I got married, I gave birth to my eldest daughter. Two years later, I gave birth to my youngest son. Since I gave birth to my eldest daughter, I have not gone out to work, but stayed in the countryside to take care of the elderly and children.

Although I live in the countryside and my family conditions are average, I feel very satisfied. I have two lovely children and a husband who loves me. Because my husband is willing to endure hardships, he can take care of the project himself in not too many years, which is also commonly known as the contractor. Our life is better than before.

My husband and I have a clear division of labor. I am responsible for taking care of my family, and he is responsible for making money outside. Seeing that life is getting better and better, however, an accident happened, which completely broke my yearning for a better life.

I was scared to death when I got a call from my husband's colleague. The worker said that her husband was knocked unconscious by construction equipment and is now in a coma in the hospital. I hurried to the hospital where my husband was. He was in the emergency room at that time. I heard that he hit his head and suffered from intracranial hemorrhage. The doctor said that if he didn't wake up this time, he might never wake up again.

I am anxious, afraid that something will happen to my husband. Later, after several days and nights of rescue, my husband was finally rescued, but after craniotomy, he had to recover in the early stage. Because my husband's injury has spent all our savings in recent years, the later treatment depends on borrowing money from relatives and friends.

Finally, my husband woke up, but he was weak. Because of his bad feelings about the accident, he didn't want to continue working on the site, so he dissolved his engineering team. After resting at home for half a year, I went to work in other places.

Now the family owes a lot of debts, two children have to go to school, and several people in the family have to eat and drink. Obviously, it's too stressful for my husband to work alone to earn money. During that time, his hair turned white. It pains me to see him getting thinner and thinner. I really wish I could help him. After discussing with my husband, I decided to let my in-laws take care of the children. I followed my husband to work in big cities, at least subsidizing my family.

There was a distant relative in the city at that time. He asked me to babysit in the city. The treatment is very good, which suits me very well. So through introduction, I found my first job as a nanny, serving a 72-year-old elderly person who lives alone. The old man became a widow in his sixties. Now he lives alone in a small three-story building. Although his house is spacious, he is the only one who goes in and out.

My uncle's surname is Zhang. After I went to his house, I called him Brother Zhang. He told him that he was in good health and could take care of himself, but he lived alone for too long and was lonely. He just wants someone to talk to him.

At that time, he gave me a salary of 4800 a month. I think I must work hard and get uncle Zhang's approval. So I arranged my daily work according to my own plan. In addition to three meals a day, I am also responsible for the hygiene of this three-story building. But uncle Zhang's house is too big. I am busy every day and have no time to rest.

Uncle Zhang is also very kind. I don't have to work so hard and do cleaning at home every day. Just clean it once a week. But I think what Mr. Zhang said was polite. He offered me such a high salary to be a nanny at home. How can I be lazy?

In a blink of an eye, I have been doing this job for almost a year. One day, Uncle Zhang suddenly called me to my side and said to me, "Xiaojin, you see that I usually live alone, and I can stay with you during the day, but at night, after you left, I feel very lonely. Why don't you stay with me 24 hours a day and be my live-in nanny? I will give you a raise and give you 7000 yuan a month. "

I know what uncle Zhang means, but I feel a little afraid of wanting me to stay with him when I live in such a big villa at night. I rented a house outside at that time, so I thought about it. It's nothing to spend one night with him, and you can get thousands more dollars every month. Why not?

At that time, I wanted to reduce the burden on my family early, at least to save money on rent. Besides, I have been working in Uncle Zhang's house for almost a year. I know his character. He is an educated old man. He won't have any other thoughts about me. But I am a cautious person. I think since I live alone, I should at least make it clear, so I put forward five requirements. As long as Uncle Zhang agrees to be his live-in nanny, otherwise it is impossible.

1. I'm just Uncle Zhang's nanny, and I will only serve him.

The initial condition was that Uncle Zhang hired me as his nanny. Now he wants me to stay at his house for 24 hours. If his daughter comes home to live in the future, I have to wait on her. At that time, my workload will increase a lot, and Uncle Zhang will pay me again.

I earn money by working, so Uncle Zhang should respect me.

In fact, I knew something about live-in nannies before, but I think that although the salary is very high, I earned it by myself. Employers can't tell nannies what to do just because their wages are high, because everyone has dignity, and they can't disrespect others just because their conditions are good.

After all, the work I do is worthy of my salary, and I won't be lazy at work. Therefore, it is well-deserved to receive these awards. Employers can't take it out on me just because they are in a bad mood. There is no difference between people. After all, I'm here to make money, not suffer indignities.

3. Just be a nanny, not a wife, and two people should draw a clear line.

Employers ask for a 24-hour babysitter only to get better care. The old man is old, and it can avoid accidents if someone keeps watching him. Any accident can be dealt with in time, so even if I get 7000 yuan a month, it is a responsibility. Now that I get the money, I will bear the responsibility.

But the employer is single, and it is inevitable that it will depend on me after a long time. I have a family, and I hope my employer can understand my relationship with him. You can't have other ideas about me just because you've been together for a long time, otherwise I won't continue this job. If I resign unilaterally for this reason, my employer will also pay me.

The employer can't be overbearing and demanding too much of me, otherwise I can refuse or unreasonably deduct my salary.

If both parties establish labor relations, they must sign a contract. But there must be an additional condition: the nanny has the right to choose, but the employer can't deduct the salary.

This request is nothing more than worrying that employers will make excessive demands on nannies. I heard that some people even threatened nannies with contracts in order to achieve their own goals. If the nanny is unwilling to comply with his request, she will not be paid according to the contract. This is simply the overlord clause.

5. 24-hour service provided by the employer, but these services are stipulated.

Instead of waiting for your employer to send you around the clock, you should take care of your employer dutifully within your own scope. When the nanny refuses to do some unacceptable tasks, the employer can't force it.

I heard that some employers ask the nanny to massage the whole body, and sometimes even ask him to dress according to the regulations. Those clothes are not suitable for his age. Nannies can have the right to refuse requests outside the service.

I didn't expect that when I put forward these five conditions, Uncle Zhang didn't refute them, so we signed the contract. In this way, I worked as a live-in nanny in his house and worked conscientiously. Uncle Zhang didn't ask too much, so I agreed. Naturally, I prefer to take care of him carefully.

Conclusion:

Some people think that. Aunt Jin takes herself too seriously, obviously only doing nanny work, but making so many demands. Other people's family conditions are so good, even if they are looking for a wife, they will not look for her like this, but each has its own ideas. On the contrary, I think Aunt Jin is an open person, and to tell the truth is to avoid unnecessary contradictions in the future.

Because in the nanny industry, I have indeed heard many things about employers breaking the rules. If these words can be stipulated in advance, I can also give some warnings to the employer to avoid him deliberately making things difficult for others. If the nanny is wronged at her employer's house, she may take some extreme measures. Greater hatred between nannies and employers.

Therefore, it is better to show your cards in advance and write down all the rules you can and can't accept, so that you can get what you need, employers can get better service and nannies can work with peace of mind. Isn't it the best of both worlds? Do you think this is true? Welcome to leave a comment.