What kind of people are happiest in the workplace?

What kind of people are happiest in the workplace should be analyzed in groups:

1, like a busy person, if you let him enjoy life every day, but he is not happy; If you keep him busy all day, you will achieve something and they will be happy.

2. Lazy people, if you let them do things, they will definitely feel that they are tossing themselves, but if you let them lie flat, they will feel that they are very happy people in the world.

Therefore, happiness is judged by the crowd. Today, Lao Wang talks about the happiness of hardworking people.

Speaking of this, Lao Wang first said a case about interpersonal relationship handling. Because this case is also the embodiment of happiness.

Yesterday, a professional cried to Lao Wang that she had a terrible quarrel with her best friend. After knowing the whole story, Lao Wang listed and analyzed the problems that caused their quarrel, and finally came to the conclusion:

1. Because girlfriends are unhappy in marriage, they are not welcomed by their husbands at home. Perhaps out of inner need, her best friend wants to get dignity outside that she doesn't have at home. Yesterday, the female friend was too practical to understand this psychological need. Other problems triggered the outbreak of girlfriends' emotions, and the two had a big fight. ...

2. Counselors mistakenly think that girlfriends don't need vanity, and naturally they don't consider meeting their inner needs. Her best friend originally wanted to gain respect and envy by showing off her wealth. But it backfired. What many people don't know is that if they can't get what they want in one place, they will try to get it in another place.

Never have money dealings with your girlfriend. For people nowadays, having money will mostly lead to the breakdown of relationships. But this is not absolute. See the world with common sense thinking.

Because of personal privacy, Lao Wang needs to simplify things. There are many such cases, so Lao Wang won't go into details.

The above cases are enough to show that both of them are unhappy. What is the root of their unhappiness? Lao Wang thinks:

1, too concerned about yourself in the eyes of others. Lao Wang always thinks that "who you are" is not important. The important thing is whether you can understand and look up to yourself, and then consider whether your family can understand and respect you. Otherwise, everything you look for outside is fake in the eyes of others.

Try to let people all over the world know yourself, but the fact is that no one in this world wants to know and understand you. Because you have nothing to do with them.

3. Many times, the inner overflow of the Virgin Mary is also the source of unhappiness. Never think that you are kind to others, and others should repay you in your way. This is the stupidest thing to do.

So, for people in the workplace, what kind of people are happiest? Lao Wang summed up five things:

1, know yourself, know what you should and shouldn't do, but don't tie yourself down. Knowing yourself is the greatest happiness. Because only when you know yourself can you know how to go in your future, how to make yourself more successful, or how to make yourself happier. To a person who doesn't know himself, he is like a headless fly running around.

2. People who have goals and are willing to stick to what they like and are good at. Lao Wang has always believed that professionals with goals are the happiest people. The goal is our direction. With a goal, you can move forward faster, without losing yourself and giving up on yourself. But having a goal is not perfect. People who can keep an eye on their goals and do what they like and are good at are truly happy people. It is best if you are willing to stick to it.

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3. People who have a good attitude, live a real life and can see their growth every day. Mentality determines everything. For a person with a good attitude, every day is happy.

4, interpersonal harmony, inner satisfaction, but the premise is not to hurt others. Interpersonal relationship can best affect a person's psychology, such as being unpopular with leaders in the company, being ignored by colleagues, being disrespected at home and so on. These people are generally depressed internally, and they can't get happy satisfaction if they are depressed internally. Old Wang Jian suggested that you should learn how to deal with interpersonal relationships and make yourself relaxed and happy, so that you can be really happy.

5, don't care too much about anything, treat everything with a normal heart. Paying too much attention is paying a lot in one place. Many people have this problem: if they pay a lot but can't get what they want, they will be disappointed, psychologically unbalanced and unable to feel happiness.

So what should people in the workplace do? Old Wang Jianyi:

1, treat the world with a normal heart, without excessive concern or excessive pursuit. As long as your heart is peaceful, you will see the world smoothly and slowly perceive what happiness is.

2. Stay away from those who pour their feelings into you. Emotions are contagious, and when you meet someone who confides in you, your emotions will also be mobilized. Just like a person telling you a divorce story every day, you are often "substituted" without knowing it.

3. Be yourself. The true self depends on self-cultivation. Make yourself strong and stand up to the galloping of thousands of horses. You are truly cultivated at home.