Mother always said that she had arranged everything for me. What should I do?

There is a kind of cold that makes my mother feel cold; There is a kindness that tells my mother to be good to me. What my parents call good is actually not what I want, so I don't think it is "really good".

Mom always helps you arrange everything. What should I do? This question is actually too easy to understand. There are only two answers: obey the arrangement or not.

If what your mother arranged for you is exactly what you want, no matter how much you don't want it, if that's what you want in your heart, then accept the arrangement well and everyone will be happy.

But if what your mother has arranged for you is not what you want, it will be easy. What you should do, where you want to go, what you want to do, no one can stop you, just do it.

Maybe at this time, you will say that my mother will be sad, or others will say that I don't know how to be blessed when I should be blessed, or whether I am unfilial … and so on. If you have this idea, I can only say that you simply want your mother to be nice to you and help you arrange things without accepting her arrangement. There is always something you are not satisfied with.

After all, I don't want to be responsible for my life. I want my mother to take full responsibility, but I refuse to accept the unhappiness after being arranged by the other party.

For example, if you go out to eat with friends, friends ask you, what do you want to eat? You say, whatever. So friends are really casual. As a result, after the dish was served, you looked unhappy and said that there was nothing I liked. I asked you what to eat before, and now you say you don't like it! Friends will turn against each other, but your mother won't! Your mother will continue to help you arrange, arrange, arrange!

So, if you don't want to eat food you don't like, order it yourself! If you don't want to order, accept what you want to eat!

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