Manchester by the sea: When life is ruthlessly crushed by fate, people must redeem themselves.

Jia Yi's Ode to Ostrich Birds says: Heaven and earth are furnaces, and nature is work; Yin and Yang are charcoal, and everything is copper.

It means comparing heaven and earth to a melting pot. Yin and Yang are charcoal fires, and nature is a furnace worker, in which everything in the world is calcined and smelted. Life is just a process, whether it is pain or happiness, everyone is the same, struggling in the whirlpool of their own destiny.

The hardships of life will happen at any time. Due to his negligence, he caused an irreparable tragedy. This kind of conscience condemnation and endless pain is a fatal blow to kind people.

In Facing Suffering, Zhou said: Suffering is suffering because it shakes the foundation of life and dampens people's confidence in the meaning of life, thus plunging the soul into great pain. No matter how miserable the outside world is, if it doesn't shock the soul and become a spiritual event, it is not pain.

There are joys and sorrows in life, and birth, aging, illness and death are natural laws. Fate is sometimes cruel, and suddenly some suffering comes to you. You have no choice but to respond positively. If the tragedy has become a reality and the fault is irreparable, people should learn to redeem themselves and look forward.

The film "Manchester by the Sea" directed by Kenneth Lonnigan tells the story of a young father whose three children were burned alive because of his carelessness. Since then, my father has fallen into the pain of being unable to extricate himself.

The film was released in the United States on 20 16,1,18, and won the top ten films of the American Film Association on 20 16. June 20 17, won the Oscar for best independent movie trailer in trailer industry.

0 1, Li suddenly met his brother and died of a heart attack.

As a cleaner in a community in Boston and Jae-Il Lee, he is cold, silent and always alone. Some owners complained to him, and the property asked him to apologize. He looked disapproving and did not apologize. In the evening, he went to a bar to drink, and when a beautiful woman came to talk to him, he ignored others.

Li is like a walking corpse, living step by step every day, without joy or special sadness. On this day, he suddenly received a phone call from his hometown of Manchester. His only brother had a heart attack and was being rescued in the hospital.

Li drove back to Manchester at once, and he remembered many past events along the way. Once, he, his brother and his son Patrick went fishing in a boat named Mary. Patrick was still a child at that time. There is a big fish hook on his fishing rod. Li and his brother went to help at once, and the three of them were very excited.

When Li rushed to the hospital, his brother had died, and Li met his brother in the morgue. My brother's good friend George is in charge of his hospitalization and mortuary. Li is very sad. In life, he suddenly faced the departure of his relatives again.

Patrick, 16 years old, was studying at school and didn't know that his father had passed away. Li drove to school and told Patrick the news. Patrick froze, and then there was no expression. Lee took him to the morgue. Patrick looked at his father and left.

Li once had a happy family with a beautiful wife and three children.

When he got home in the evening, Patrick asked Li if he could tell his mother the news of his father's death. Li nodded. A few years ago, when my brother was diagnosed with a heart attack, my sister-in-law didn't want to take care of him. Both Li and his father, who was still healthy at that time, had a problem with my sister-in-law. Then my sister-in-law left my brother.

Patrick sent an email to his mother. He wanted to live with her in the future, but her mother didn't reply to him.

The next day, Li took Patrick to the law firm to see his brother's will. The will says that Patrick's custody will be given to Li, and all his brother's property will also be left to Li. Li doesn't want to be a guardian. He doesn't feel qualified to be a guardian.

Li thinks so because he has an eternal pain in his heart. He once had two daughters and a son who was born not long ago. One night many years ago, he was playing at home with friends and woke up his wife Randy, who was sleeping with three children.

Randy was so unhappy that all his friends left. Li is still very excited, because he smokes marijuana with his friends, so he drinks beer alone. After drinking for a while, he went upstairs to see the children and Randy, found it cold upstairs, and went downstairs to make a stove.

03. A fire killed three children and ruined everything.

After drinking beer, Li added some firewood to the stove and went out to buy beer. Not far away, he remembered that the fire board was not closed, but he thought it should be fine. Anyway, he will go home soon.

But when Li came home, he found that his home was on fire. Randy gave a cry, and Li froze! It was not until the early hours of the morning that the fire was put out. Firefighters found the bodies of three children. Randy cried loudly and she was taken to the hospital.

When Li was taken to the police for questioning, his brother helped him and his father accompanied him. He told the police what happened. He didn't know that after he left home, the stove caused a fire. Randy smelled this smell in his sleep and went downstairs to check it out.

The fireman saved Randy downstairs. When he was about to go upstairs to save the child, the stove exploded and the firemen couldn't get in.

After the trial, Li was released, which the police said was an accident. But Li can't forgive himself. After he walked out of the interrogation room, he robbed the policeman's gun and committed suicide. Fortunately, the police stopped him.

My brother can't be buried yet, so we have to have a funeral first.

After Randy left the hospital, she couldn't forgive Lee. She scolded Li and divorced him. Later, Li went to Boston and became a cleaner. He never returned to Manchester because he didn't have the courage to face the past.

Because of all this, Li doesn't want to be a guardian. He felt that he was incapable of taking care of Patrick.

Li is going to sell the Mary, which is no longer useful and many parts are broken. But Patrick didn't agree, because there was his childhood happiness on that ship. The death of his father doesn't seem to have much effect on Patrick. As always, he joined the band and fell in love with his two girlfriends.

Lee took Patrick to choose a cemetery, but because it was winter, the priest suggested that they wait until spring to bury their brother, and now they should hold a funeral first. When Randy heard about his brother, he called Lee and wanted to attend his brother's funeral. Randy also told Li that she had remarried and was pregnant now.

On the day of the funeral, Randy and her husband came. Lee didn't have the courage to look at Randy and kept his head down. He felt sorry for Randy. After the funeral, Lee wanted to take Patrick to Boston, but Patrick didn't want to leave Manchester.

05. The ex-wife no longer blames Li, and she wants Li to be happy again.

That night, Patrick went to the refrigerator to get food. He burst into tears when he saw the frozen chicken. Lee immediately ran to hug Patrick. He doesn't know what happened to Patrick. Patrick said that when he saw frozen meat and thought of his frozen father, he couldn't accept this reality.

This 16-year-old boy has been pretending to be strong, but when he saw the frozen meat, he finally couldn't put it down.

Mother replied to Patrick's email and agreed that Patrick would live with her. But after Patrick lived with his mother, both he and his mother felt very uncomfortable. Later, my mother's boyfriend sent an email to Patrick, saying that my mother was not ready to live with Patrick.

So Patrick went back to his home. To comfort him, Li had Mary repaired. Li Rang Patrick called his friends and took them out to sea. When Mary sailed at sea, Li and Patrick were in a much better mood.

After returning from the sea, Li met Randy at the corner. Randy pushed a stroller with her newborn baby lying in it. Lee still doesn't have the courage to face Randy. He thinks he is a sinner in front of Randy. Randy cried and said that Li should not be blamed for keeping him in pain. She hoped that Li Neng would come out of the pain and be happy again.

06. Lee entrusted the custody of Patrick to George and his wife.

After Lee and Randy separated, they went to the bar. He got into a fight after drinking because they were so sad.

George came to help Li deal with the fight, and then he took Li home. When George's wife bandaged Li's wound, Li burst into tears. Lee cried like Patrick that night, so helpless, so hysterical and so painful.

A few days later, when Li was cooking in the kitchen, he was distracted and almost caused a fire. Li Lai was particularly sensitive to fire, so he rushed to George's house overnight.

Li and George discussed and wanted to entrust Patrick's custody to them, and gave them all the legacy left by his brother, and George and his wife agreed. When Lee discussed the decision with Patrick, Patrick accepted it.

In spring, Lee and Patrick buried their brother, and then Lee returned to Boston. Before leaving, he and Patrick boarded the Mary again. The Mary was rippling on the sea, and uncles looked at the distance.

Conclusion:

It is difficult for a person to start a new life casually with a heavy sense of guilt. Thinking about others suffering from their own mistakes, what qualifications do you have to be happy?

There will be accidents in life at any time, accidents cannot be prevented, and life is impermanent. Therefore, people should accept and adapt to this impermanence, experience the hardships of life and love life again after experiencing heartbreak.

People should learn to redeem themselves. Some things are just accidents. Don't blame yourself too much. No one wants the tragedy to happen, but it still happens, which can only be regarded as fate! Life has such a robbery. For the rest of your life, you should try to get out of the pain and start your life again.

San Mao said: the heart is like a maze, thousands of miles away, and there is no boat to cross it. People can't help themselves.

So, there are some things that others can help you; There are some things that no one can help except yourself. People should save themselves, be brave and open-minded. Life is an experience, and experience is naturally bitter and sweet.