Mom believes you can do it.

This afternoon, I took my son to the gate of the community to apply for a health certificate. There is a distance from the north gate to the south gate. My son is riding a bike in front and I am walking behind. Looking at his skillful riding back, I have a sense of relief that my child has grown up.

As I approached the door, I motioned for him to stop. He parked his bike on the side of the road and followed me to fill in the information outside the gate. It takes about five or six minutes to fill in the information and seal it, and there is still a chapter that needs to be covered by a large property.

We bought some daily necessities at the convenience store next to the gate and went back to stamp the property. When I arrived at the door of the property, I suddenly decided to exercise my son. So I stood there and said to him, "Go in and stamp your feet. I am waiting for you here. "

He looked at me timidly and said, "Why? I won't leave without you. "

I said, "Just go in and stamp it, and you can do it yourself."

He lingered at the door and dared not go in, deliberately making excuses and saying, "What if they ask me why I came alone?"

"They won't ask you. If they come, tell them my mother is waiting for me at the door. "

I'm going to be angry that he still won't go. Finally, he said patiently, "You are too old to do such a thing. When can I do things independently without exercise? "

Maybe he heard the loss from my words, or maybe my words aroused his fighting spirit. He did not refuse again. He wanted to go in with the card, but he was a little scared and didn't know how to face the next thing. So, while moving slowly, look in and look back at me.

I encouraged him at the back and said, "You can do it. Mom believes you can do it." This time, she sold it. When I came to the counter, I didn't know whether he asked himself or the staff inside saw him take the initiative to ask him with the card. In short, he stamped it soon.

Watching him walk out easily, I quickly said, "Look, my mother says you can do it." He didn't answer me, but found a topic to change. At this moment, his heart should be very excited, because he has completed a challenge to himself, but he is embarrassed to say it, and he is excited to change with other topics. I know this feeling too well.

I have always been concerned about children's education, especially the cultivation of character, but I don't know what to do. I am afraid that my self-righteous education will mislead my children.

Parents' horizons determine children's horizons, and parents' horizons are often very limited. I am afraid that I will affect my child's life because of myself.

Only by constantly learning and broadening our horizons can we refresh our self-righteous educational ideas and cultivate a positive, sunny and healthy child.