Is my understanding of love correct?

If you want to fall in love, then you can talk about it in adolescence.

If you are talking about getting married, then the problem you are considering is not resource anxiety. But whether she adapts to your lifestyle, psychologically, spiritually and materially.

If you are talking about love, then you can't force it, she will only live in your mind. No matter where she is, you should support her. Can you do it?

I am not a standard to measure the world, so I can't comment on your love view.

But you also said that you think love and marriage are different.

The only difference between the two is that love belongs to the germination and demand of physiology and psychology.

Marriage belongs to physical and psychological stability. My life and soul mate.

Your material worries are also essential. But it's not that you want to fall in love without enough responsibility, unless you have no physiological needs. There is no relationship between the two.

A man should concentrate on his career. Take responsibility. But not limited by ability.

Considering that it is women who feel anxious after life. Because she has no resources. Your willingness to be responsible for her is your reason.

You can't know a person all your life. Know your own needs.

Love is your spiritual need and the premise of marriage and love. Choose love, please be prepared to sacrifice. You chose marriage, please choose to accept the preparation of life.

Children with a monthly income of 5,000 yuan and a monthly income of 5W drink different milk powder, and the cost of going to school is different, but the remaining deposit may be similar, but the same deposit is high in 5,000 families, and water is poured in 50,000 families. Your understanding of the material in life is still too young!