Is carefulness a character?

Is carefulness a character? Taking care of people is often thoughtful. You can think of unexpected places and notice details that others can't notice. This is delicious. Are you a careful person? If so, is carefulness a character or a habit?

Is carefulness a character?

Be careful, this thing may be called character. Because some people are very careful by nature. However, some people's delicate minds can be said to be cultivated. In Mao Mao, when a manic person suddenly sinks down, he often works very fast. Therefore, careful people are generally very calm.

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A few days ago, on my way to work, I met a middle-aged man in his fifties. He took a photo of a plastic bag in the company park.

It was quite puzzling at the time. Wearing a white suit, he squatted on the ground and looked at the garbage around him. At that time, there were many people coming and going, and some just took a look and went straight ahead.

At first, I was curious about what he was going to do and focused on him. Later, after a few tens of seconds, he called an aunt who cleaned up the garbage nearby and asked her to clean it up.

At that time, he was quite a leader and told his aunt one thing. At that time, it was close, and he said that he must pay attention to these small rubbish, even a leaf should be cleaned up to keep the park clean and tidy.

Hearing this, I looked around the ground and found that the park was really clean. On my way, palm trees occupy both sides of the road, vehicles are parked according to the rules, and there is no garbage on the ground, which gives people a very comfortable feeling.

I was thinking at that time that his behavior was very careful. Although sometimes I don't boast in my mouth, or just look at it as a tourist, I seem to have been hit by something inside.

For such a careful person, a feeling of admiration arises spontaneously. Because I used to work in the service industry, I was deeply touched.

I think people with this quality of life are really valuable. Because he knows how to take care of others from some small things, to serve others and make people feel comfortable.

03

Some time ago, I went to a party with some colleagues and hurriedly found a barbecue restaurant to eat something.

The business of the store is good, and there are many tables, which may be located on the street, so this store is more lively, and I don't want to look through the streets.

The wind in the city is very strong, and the noise becomes louder at night. This store arranges strangers and strangers well together to make up the fate.

When serving, I heard that the service of the person opposite Tucao was really bad. Even the ingredients are not cooked, dare to give them to customers and so on.

So I called the waiter and asked to do it again. Who knows, the waiter said, are you here to find fault? Others say how the taste here has changed.

One of the women couldn't stand it and said a few words. They also don't want to make the atmosphere too awkward. There are only a few people at their table.

Later, their manager came over and quickly said that the waiters were not sensible and asked them not to mind. Hurriedly smiled and said, things are being done again.

I heard from the person at the opposite table that it was ok, but your service attitude really needs to be changed. It's too careless. At that time, their mood was affected a little, so they kept spitting and spending money to pay back the money, so they won't be killed next time.

When serving, I ordered a few barbecues, only to find tofu and squid, and casually put some salt and pepper, which felt immature. I threw them away when I was eating.

Fortunately, we were full at first, but we were not satisfied with the barbecue and thought it was perfunctory.

At that time, I smiled helplessly and said that I dare not come again this time. At that time, I thought to myself that if they spent a little time and thought, others would not have bad reviews. If they are serious, there will be more repeat customers.

I find that many people buy things now, and the most important thing is to take users as the center.

In order to get satisfactory evaluation, we must go deep into customers and products. Too careless, too perfunctory, then, how is it possible to have a second communication with customers?

After all, the reason why customers are satisfied or willing to pay is nothing more than your product and service attitude.

If we do things seriously and go deep into customers, just like sometimes we go to some fashionable restaurants. Although the weight of their food is not much, their most valuable thing is carefulness. Even if you have to wait in line sometimes, some people are willing to wait. A big reason is good reputation and good service.

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I often hear people say that someone is very careful in life, which is also a compliment to others.

Careful is a valuable quality, and we have an old saying that "details are doomed to success".

Especially in the service industry, you want to do well and have a place in this industry. Then, the most important thing for you is to start with small things, think more and do well.

To do one thing, the minimum requirement is to devote yourself wholeheartedly. Don't solve the work content hastily in order to save time, which often can't achieve good results.

Why do we hear that this person is excellent, powerful and capable of working? In fact, it is mainly because they are very focused, very attentive and pay attention to details.

Just like going to dinner, when you find that the service and food in this store are not very good, will you go again? Do you think the mobile phone will run without an internal chip?

In fact, when you go to solve some things carefully, just stick to it. You will find that being careful will secretly bring you a lot of rewards.

Including the man I met at work the other day. To be honest, I think he is really careful. At least sometimes when walking on the road, you will feel very comfortable when you see the clean and tidy ground.

Sometimes, as long as you do things seriously and persist, there will always be unexpected gains.

Is carefulness a character? Carelessness and inattention are no excuses for poor grades.

At the beginning of the new semester, it is time to analyze the reasons for the final exam results, find out the shortcomings and write reflections. At this time, the most common reasons why children hear mistakes are "I was careless and took 69 as 96", "I will do it, but I copied the wrong symbol" and "I am not careful enough, I will be careful next time" ... Parents also said: Alas, my child clearly knows how to do it, but he is not careful.

Carelessness, inattention, etc. It seems to be a common excuse for unsatisfactory exam results. Parents and children take it for granted that carelessness is accidental. As long as they pay attention next time, they can avoid it and achieve the desired good results.

Experts in Shangdao have been afraid to agree with this idea. Think about it. The child is in the process of the exam. Doesn't he want to get things done? Doesn't he want to get full marks? Did he deliberately not do the problem carefully? Certainly not! Think about the final exam. In fact, we often educate our children to be careful and serious, and children want to be like this! It's not that they don't want to be careful, but they can't be careful.

Careful is not just a habit, but a very important ability.

Parents and children must fully realize that carefulness is not just a habit, but a very important ability! Think about it: no matter how clever a child is, he always makes some very low-level mistakes in some places where he shouldn't make mistakes because of carelessness and negligence, so he can't even solve simple problems well. The same thing was done. If you are not careful enough, things will not be done perfectly.

Why do you think 69 is 96? Why don't these figures add up? Why do you think correctly when solving problems, but make mistakes when copying? Shang Dao experts tell you that carelessness is closely related to visual attention. When students with poor visual attention transmit the received information to their brains for analysis through visual perception, the information will be disturbed, and it is easy to be missed or lost, which will lead to carelessness.

Lack of visual attention is the fundamental problem of carelessness in exams.

Visual attention includes visual tracking ability-whether the eyes can track fixed points and moving points, visual resolution ability-whether they can clearly identify two similar characters, visual memory ability-whether they can quickly remember the numbers they just saw, hand-eye coordination ability-whether they are coordinated when writing, and so on. Each student's visual attention is different. If a student's visual attention can't reach the level of his peers, he will be careless.

Many parents think that children will be cautious when they reach a certain age. That's not true. If there is no daily norms and training, and there is no accumulation, carelessness will only affect children's study and life more and more seriously. When carelessness becomes an act, it will bring endless troubles to children. Careful is definitely an ability, not just a habit, which requires deliberate training and cultivation at ordinary times.

How do parents cultivate their children's careful ability

However, as a parent, do you have the ability to cultivate and cultivate children's carefulness? How? Parents can start from the following three aspects:

First, strengthen children's sense of responsibility. Parents should practice, demonstrate in person, be strict with themselves and ask students to do what must be done first.

Second, cultivate the good habit of concentration. Focus, focus on the present. Buddhists have a saying, "Live in the moment". Emphasize focusing on one thing at a time, and let children understand that focus is the premise of doing anything well.

Third, stabilize your mood and be patient. Parents should be calm and patient with their children's carelessness, not accommodating or rude. Give timely encouragement to those who do well, and don't get angry or complain if they don't do enough. Over time, you will find that students' carelessness is gradually decreasing.

So give up the phrase "carelessness"!

Only by giving up this view can we seriously find out the reasons, make training plans and get real promotion.

Of course, professional attention training can quickly improve children's visual attention and reduce carelessness.

What is improved is not only the achievement, but the quality of ability, action and will.

Is carefulness a character? Three eight details to judge a man's thoughtfulness.

Petty bourgeoisie's love is appropriate.

"What's the matter? Uncomfortable? " As soon as I got home, I saw Zhang Nanyong lounging on the bed. Her husband wondered if she had a slight cold and a low fever. He wanted to take her temperature and decided not to go to the hospital. First, he gently put his hand on her forehead for a while, and then compared it with the temperature of his forehead. Then he turned and hurriedly rummaged in the medicine cabinet at home for a thermometer to measure her. Before going out, she put on her coat to keep out the cold: "Be careful, be careful, don't fall down." Looking at a big man taking care of himself like a child, the delicate concern deeply touched Zhang Nan.

Voice-over: A considerate husband's care and love for his wife is not just lip service or "showing off", but should be reflected in the quiet details: sometimes it's just a gentle greeting when you are sick, and sometimes a woman asks you why you don't have a smile on your face, or silently puts a coat on your cool shoulder. ...

Whispering: The love that a wife needs actually exists in some nuances and trifles of life. A look, a gesture, it seems irrelevant, but how many men will do it?

Do something other than romance.

On Valentine's Day, Xu Ling and her husband came back from shopping and bought two bags full of daily necessities. After paying the money and packing, Mr. Wang took all the weighty things and asked her to carry the weightless goods. With an empty hand, he gently hugged Xu Ling's waist and used the speed of "pressing the road" when he was in love. That rare romance made her feel palpitation, and he walked home slowly in the envious eyes of others. He took a few steps to open the door, handed her shoes and washed her hands. Although she didn't receive roses and chocolates from her husband, Xu Ling felt happier that Valentine's Day.

Voice-over: Although romantic love is a common problem for women, small gifts for birthdays and roses for Valentine's Day can make her happy for a while, but real help and care can warm her heart for a long time: for example, putting bath water for her may be just a little effort. If you do it occasionally, you can not only cultivate your patience, but also make your wife feel that you love her more than before.

Whispering: Wearing an apron to shuttle between pots and pans, although it looks a bit mediocre and has a "disgusting" and "worthless" look around the pot, but that kind of concern is vivid, which can make people feel that real concern is more touching than leaving a fragrance on their hands.

Fairy beauty is not as beautiful as falling in love.

In the cold winter, Yang Dan went out with her husband. Although she wore a hat and thick cotton-padded clothes and walked in the street where the north wind was raging and the snow was falling, the biting cold still made her hands lose consciousness. The husband took her cold little hand out of the glove, put it in his own hand, rubbed it gently, and breathed out hot air into her hand. That kind of distressed relationship made her blush: "Stop it, people are watching." The husband won't let go: "What are you afraid of? You are my wife. " She saw many women stamping their feet while walking and saying, "My hands are so cold", but their men perfunctory: "Let's buy a pair of thick gloves tomorrow." She felt that although she was mediocre, she was the most beautiful and moving wife at that time, far happier than others.

Voice-over: He said shyly, "You are particularly charming tonight." This kind of compliment, whether sincere or not, is better than any sweet words. "Today's food is really delicious!" Although a man has an obvious "intention" when he wants to be lazy, I believe that every wife who knows it well will not pull his tail at this time.

Whispering: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and the fairy is not as beautiful as the person you fall in love with, saying, "Wife, you are so beautiful!" " "A casual little detail action shows that he is still full of old love.

The satyr at home is also very cute.

There is the sound of water running in the bathroom. Zhu Yuan packed her pajamas and just entered bathroom door. She staggered at her husband. The water in the shower head pours down, the clothes are soaked, and the amorous feelings are looming ... Looking at Zhu Yuan like a stunner, my husband's eyes are eager to eat people: "Dear, you used to be a delicate beauty, but now you are simply the devil in the bathroom ..."

Voice-over: I believe many men are interested in "delicious" food. If he can look at you with malicious eyes when he is ambiguous, your heart will be inexplicably happy. If he looks at you and adds "color" to his eyes, he can make you happy-this condiment is also a love incendiary bomb.

Whispering: The grass outside is sad and the wild flowers are enchanting. Women are most afraid that men will stop looking at themselves when they are old and their colors are fading, not to mention this trick of taking away their souls.

A minion in a quarrel

Yu Cong and her husband had a quarrel. After a few words, the husband retired to the study voluntarily, and Yu Conge ignored him very angrily. Just after taking a shower and lying down, her husband rubbed his arm around her. Seeing his wife push, there was no obvious refusal, and he began to hug her tightly. Yu Conge tried to push him away: "Hate, don't ..." "Wife, I'm going to be your annoying sticky candy and haunt you all my life." My husband asks for nothing, which is a bit shameless. Cong Yue smiled with a "sloped" sound, and the unhappiness vanished. ...

Voice-over: under the same roof, it is inevitable that there will be such friction. If you love him, he will show his childish heels and make excuses guiltily. What lies behind all this is that he really cares about you. Look, he's following you like a fart, and his wife is so sweet that everyone is soft-hearted.

Whispering: This is a family comedy, with laughter and unhappiness. If he loves you, he will always find an opportunity to show his "heel" and win your understanding after inadvertently stroking your beard. So, in the end, he will be more relaxed than depressed, and the haze will turn into sunshine and joy.

The truest is the cutest.

My husband looked unhappy when he came home from work. When he saw him sitting on the sofa in pain, Chen Qin knew that something unpleasant must have happened to him. She quietly poured her a cup of tea and held him gently. He leaned his head against her chest, and his eyes were full of helplessness: "Alas, the boss is hard to serve." Chen Qin persuaded him with his gentleness, and looked at his heart a little relieved, and he had a special sense of accomplishment. Her husband showed his cowardice. Not only did she not show contempt, but she also felt that this tough guy who was always at a loss and too busy to care about himself really cared about her. At this moment, doesn't he regard himself as the only harbor where he can rest?

Voice-over: "It hurts when you cry." One of the secrets of a man's favor is not to put anything in his heart, even if your expression is poor, it is cute in his wife's eyes. If he wants to scream when he is hungry, don't "man show" if there is anything. I believe that a wife doesn't like to guess her husband's face as a "rain watch".

Whispering: Everyone hates hypocrisy. As a husband and wife, his real expression is more fascinating than disguise.

Always keep your heart at home.

In the evening, as soon as Ning Mei fell asleep, her husband who was away on business called. Actually, it's no big deal. She just took the trouble to tell her to pay the property fee, pay attention to her health, and remember to close the doors and windows at night. Although her mother-in-law has the final say, Ning Mei may not do what he says, but her heart is sweet and practical, which also increases her yearning for him.

Voice-over: After going out to settle down, a man's first thought should be to call home and report his peace, indicating that he always has a home in his heart. Even a few words mean that he will always miss his wife and the people waiting for him to come home.

Whispering: A man's concern for his family is an expression of his true feelings. Maybe his words can't quench his thirst, but through subtle words of concern, it shows that he is willing to spend every minute with you, no matter whether he is rich or poor, no matter how far away he is from you.