I left a paper box for aunt cleaning to sell. Should she help me take away the garbage?

Many empty cartons were cleared out during the weekend cleaning. The over-packaging of domestic food is really serious. Because of the constant fresh milk and yogurt at home, the box of 12 bottles of milk feels a few pounds.

Because the property has a cleaning aunt to clean the corridor every day, I feel that aunts are not easy. The waste paper in our family has never been sold, and it is all left at the door for the aunts to take away.

Yesterday, I piled up the empty milk boxes I drank recently, the shoes boxes I didn't want, and the cartons I bought online recently. I thought aunt cleaning would be very happy.

When I left in the morning, I found that my husband had left a generation of garbage at the door. I don't know why he didn't take it. I don't want to take anything with me, thinking that aunt cleaning has collected so much waste paper from me that she should take my garbage away!

As a result, you must have guessed When I came home from work, boy, there was nothing in the waste paper I collected, and my bag of garbage was still firmly there.

To tell you the truth, I am very, very angry. This man is too realistic. I always want to leave you these waste products that can sell money. Shouldn't you help me throw out the garbage once? I have helped to throw away the garbage of my neighbor across the street several times.

When I get angry, I think angrily, well, you can't expect me to leave you these good things next time. I'd rather be tired than leave them to you every time I take them downstairs to the trash can for other aunts in the community to pick up!

After eating, the gas is gone. Go back and think about it. I don't think my idea is right. Aunt cleaning has no obligation to help me take out the garbage.

I put myself in others' shoes. What would I think if I were an aunt cleaning? Maybe I will think, oh, this family doesn't throw so much garbage, let me clean it up, so I can sell it for a few dollars and take it downstairs. Really annoying! Forget it, I'll just help you take these cartons down, so you'd better throw away the domestic garbage yourself.

I'm relieved to think about it like this.

In life and work, many times we think from our own perspective and think about things from our own emotions. If you put yourself in your shoes, maybe other people's thoughts at that time are completely different from yours!

Sometimes, doing bad things with good intentions is also caused by this inequality of thinking.

No matter what happens in the future, especially in the face of things that make us angry, depressed and angry, don't be angry first, try to think from the other person's feelings, and maybe there will be different ideas.

Empathy may be the most effective way for us to manage our emotions.

I guess I'll leave the paper box at the door in the future. After all, it's tiring to bring it downstairs by yourself.