The short story of the property manager

When we get along with people, we will always meet those bad people and things.

Sometimes, we stand on the right side and are always unwilling to forgive them. As a result, because it was so ugly with each other, there was no room for turning around.

I have read such a short story:

A man sells cigarettes and alcohol, so he always contacts buyers in different restaurants.

The buyer of a chain store always pays on credit, but he doesn't want to pay back the money on a date. He went to urge the bill, but the other party always prevaricated and didn't pay the bill.

Once he was too short of money, and the other party refused to give him money, he became very angry and threatened not to cooperate in the future.

Later, the buyer came to buy cigarettes and alcohol, and he politely refused.

After a period of time, the buyer was promoted to general manager, responsible for the tobacco and alcohol procurement of chain stores in the city.

He lost hundreds of thousands of alcohol and tobacco business because of this.

Facing our own rational things, we are always confident and unwilling to give others a step down.

As a result, things were done so well that there was no room at all.

What we should do is not to force others to despair, but to give others proper space and leave a way out for ourselves.

Being a man, being reasonable, tolerant, really smart.

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A friend once said such a thing.

When he was working in the company, one of his colleagues always talked to others.

No matter what happens, he likes to argue with others, especially when he is reasonable.

On one occasion, the general manager asked him to collect all the information, except the operation department, and all the other parts were handed in before the end of the term.

He immediately went to the operation department to discuss with the person in charge.

He asked the person in charge why he didn't hand it in. It's almost time, just their department.

Because the person in charge is too busy, he forgets, apologizes again and again, and gives him an attitude within an hour.

But he insisted that he had told all departments that he must hand it in on time.

So I started thinking. The person in charge of Tucao is lazy and unwilling to do this little thing. He also said that if others can't finish, they will work overtime. ...

The person in charge didn't argue with his colleagues because he ignored them.

But my colleague's mouth is like a machine gun, and he keeps talking.

At this time, other colleagues saw this situation and said to him, "Look, he knows he is wrong. You keep saying he can't finish it. "

This time, this colleague felt embarrassed in an instant.

Although everything in the world cannot escape the word "reason". There is nothing wrong with arguing about the right or wrong words.

However, many people are always reluctant to give each other a way out and have to block it with their own hands.

They will never understand this truth, because they are reasonable and grumpy and can't control their emotions at all.

On a small matter, it is endless, even if the other party apologizes and gives in, it still chooses to blame the other party.

No matter who you are with, you are a nodding acquaintance and an acquaintance. Not too perfect. Everything will turn for the better in the future.

Sometimes, it is greater to forgive others by reason than by reason.

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I took the elevator to work the other morning and saw a man and a woman quarreling downstairs. The two men shouted at each other, and neither would give in.

Aunt cleaning happened to pass by, so I chatted with her. She volunteered to tell me what happened.

They are property managers and maintenance workers, and they quarreled for a long time because of a small problem.

I wonder what went wrong with the power supply equipment last night. It happened that the maintenance man was on the night shift, but he sneaked out for a drink.

The manager couldn't find anyone and didn't answer the phone call to the maintenance man, so he had to find another maintenance man.

Later, the maintenance man came back and drank five fans and three roads. In the morning, the manager found the maintenance man and gave him a lecture.

The maintenance man knew that he had made a mistake without leave and didn't say anything, but the more the manager scolded, the more angry he became, and the words began to sound bad.

All the ugly things that the maintenance man did before were told. The maintenance man is said to be in a hurry and quarreled directly with the manager.

In front of outsiders, just say a few words. Everyone is very proud. They are all adults.

I can always hold on to small mistakes, even poke others' wounds, and others will fight back if they ignore them.

Originally, I wanted to take care of it myself, but because I took care of it too much, I took care of it, and others would only think it was your problem.

Although this gives vent to your emotions, it keeps others away from you. They are all people they know and don't look up at them. The scene is so ugly that it is not good for anyone.

On the contrary, those who are unreasonable and kind to others always make people with three points the easiest to win people's hearts.

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In life, low-level people always have to be reasonable and unforgiving, and high-level people never make the relationship too stiff.

Everyone makes mistakes, everyone is ordinary, even those excellent people have made mistakes.

Those who choose to be reasonable and tolerant will always be easily remembered.

When Hillary's autobiography was about to be published, a host asserted that Hillary's book sales would be poor.

He also threatened to eat his shoes if he sold more than one million books.

Unexpectedly, Hillary's autobiography became a best seller in just a few days, and its sales volume has already exceeded one million.

Later, the owner received the shoes.

However, they are not ordinary shoes, but a cake in the shape of shoes, which Hillary made specially for him.

This move not only makes the other side have a step, but also reflects its own pattern.

How many people, because they are too arrogant, finally somehow act as if they have no confidence.

The world is ever changing, and no one can predict it. Today, if you are overbearing and aggressive, it may be another scene in the future.

In appropriate circumstances, we should forgive others and forgive others.

During the Three Kingdoms period, Han Xin besieged Xiang Yu with a ring of fire, but there was no fire in an empty position.

Because Han Xin worried that once things didn't give each other a chance to turn around, Xiang Yu would probably go to the last fight.

Drive a dog into a poor alley and it will bite itself.

Since ancient times, the most capable people have done is to reason and forgive others.

In this world, it is bliss not to do whatever you want.

Be more careful in future, understand Zhi Zhi, and choose to forgive things that have no serious consequences.

This is what atmospheric people should do.

In real interpersonal communication, many people have this habit. As long as they hold the truth, they will cling to the truth, and reason will not forgive people. To show your correctness, or to show off your cleverness.

But in fact, this is often not worth the loss. After all, there is still a long way to go. Don't do everything thoroughly and don't leave yourself a backward path.

I have to say that such unreasonable people are often lacking in emotional intelligence. However, some people with emotional intelligence will certainly not be so arrogant, driving others to a desperate situation, which is not good for themselves.

The level of a person's emotional intelligence often determines whether your life is smooth or bumpy, so what should you do for people with low emotional intelligence?

Here is a set of books about the promotion and application of EQ. I hope you can have a look at it when you are free.

EQ is not static, you can improve it as long as you are willing to change. Be a man, don't think that you don't have the personality of emotional intelligence. In the end, you will suffer.

I hope that after reading this set of books, we can all become popular people with high emotional intelligence.